Two or More to Tango

One of our early episodes was titled Where Are All The Orgie? We found them at Naughty in Nawlins 26! In fact, Mrs Tango participated in TWO orgies in TWO days; the second one was an all women orgy in the big group room at the Astor. We made a lot of new friends and met up with old friend in what was a great time. At the same time, we think it may be time for the main event hotel to move on from the Astor, and we explain why.

We never planned to be gone over a year after our last podcast, but Mrs. Tango got breast cancer and that took all of our focus last year. The good news is she kicked cancer's ass, she's totally cured, and we've picked up the mics again and we're packing to go to New Orleans and Naughty in N'Awlins next week! We talk about last year and reflect on what the podcast and our listeners have meant to us, then talk about what promises to be a wild week in NOLA!

In this episode we discuss our swinging adventures at Naughty in N'Awlins 24 and we give away TWO Motorbunny Bucks. Yes, it's been a while (again) but "Life" once again intervened. We also discuss how a fun party with a room full of people became one of the most impressive examples of someone being amazing to help someone struggling with self esteem issues. We hope you enjoy!

A listener who is new to the Swinging Lifestyle asked us if it is wrong to "use" other couples as "Human Sex Toys?" We explore what they meant and whether playing with other couples with no intent of becoming long term friends, but rather purely for the sex, is somehow a bad thing. We also answer another listener's question on whether they are too old for the swinging lifestyle.

In this episode we are very transparent in sharing why we have been so sporadic in the last couple of year publishing episodes. We also talk about some fun stuff and our future plans for a MUCH more adventurous journey in the Lifestye!

How do couples in the swinging lifestyle change in their rules, expectations, play styles, etc. as they gain experience? We chat with our good friends Nick and Nora as we discuss what couples told us about how they've evolved in their swinging lifestyle journey. Mentioned in this episode: our favorite place for purchasing and advice on sex toys and accessories and more: www.casualtoys.com

The Swinging Lifestyle can be a tricky thing to maneuver, and, especially when you're first starting, it's easy to have no success in connecting with other likeminded couples or singles and wonder what you're doing wrong. We asked a lot of people in the Lifestyle community for their input on how to fail in the Lifestyle. The result is this podcast; these were the most common responses on how to totally screw it up.

We interview @notyouraveragemr and @notyouraveragemrs, a VERY hot couple who have been in the swinging lifestyle for just about a year (though together for a much longer time!) We talk about their very active first year in the Swinging Lifestyle!

We talk about our fun times at Naughty in Nawlins 22! A fun Sybian and Motorbunny Buck Party, Jay and Angie getting on stage at The Cat's Meow on Bourbon St. and giving us all a Karaoke show, and much more. We also have our Toy of the Month review and we will be giving two of these away to two lucky listeners! Mentioned in this episode: www.averageswingers.com www.casualswinger.com www.casualtoys,com @swingerdiaries (Twitter) @ready2jam1 (Twitter) @NotYourAverageMrs (Twitter)

This is a a special pre-Naughty in N'Awlins 2022 episode we recorded during a break in packing! We just wanted to let any listeners who will be there know how to connect with us and share a Titos or your favorite adult beverage. This will be our 7th Naughty in N'Awlins; we had a break in 2020 and 2021. Podcasts mentioned in this episode: Swinger Diaries (no longer online!) casualswinger.com averageswingers.com

A couple with a strong religious background shares their journey, and struggles as the entered the Swinging Lifestyle and how they progressed from feeling guilty at softswap to full gang bangs. Sites mentioned: www.casualtoys.com

We're back and talking sex toys with the couple from Casual Toys (and the Casual Swinger podcast.) They know more about sex toys than anyone we know, and they tell us things everyone who uses sex toys should know. Oh, and a huge Bad Dragon dildo at 45,000 feet in the sky is not the funniest thing in this podcast! Links you should follow: https://www.casualtoys.com

It's Sex Game Night with our good friends Nick and Nora! We intended to publish this several months ago but we had some life interruptions, but better late than never! We always have a great, fun, sexy time with these two. We took The Game of Lifestyle card game that you hear a lot about in LS podcast and created a modified version for the 4 of us. We hope you enjoy listening as much as we enjoyed playing!

We finally publish our review of the Motorbunny Buck; the short version is that Mrs. Tango likes it. A lot. And we've just scratched the surface of what it can do. The big news is that Mrs. Tango is finally back home again after a LOT of "Life Stiff." So we talk some about Life vs. The Lifestyle when big life events take over your life.

Ever wonder what the swinging lifestyle is like in other countries? With Mrs Tango away on a family emergency, the smart and funny Cate from Wanderlust Swingers (AKA Swinging Down Under) cohosts this episode with Mr. Tango. She and her husband have lived in a wide variety of places in the world and they have traveled the globe, getting a taste of the lifestyle experience in different countries and cultures. We also talk about the LS culture in general, "Red Flags" for LS newbies (and experienced swingers!) and Cate talks about the Podcast-a-Palooza encore coming up in Dallas in November. Links: https://podcast-a-palooza.com https://www.swingingdownunder.com

In Part 2 of our series on Sexual Fantasies, we chat with Cory and Jeni from Episode 30, BDSM Surprise, and Tif and Rachel from Sapphic Swingers, and chat about their good and bad experiences living out their sexual fantasies, as well as those that are still on the “to do” list. Of course, we don’t stay on topic the entire time! Lots of sexy and funny from these 4! sapphicswingers.com

In this two part episode, we interview 4 fun and sex couples and let them talk about their sexual fantasies: the ones they’ve experienced, the ones still on the “Not yet” list, and which fantasies met or exceeded expectations and which ones were disappointing. In Part 1 we talk with Ams and Kat from the 2Hotwives podcast and Andi and Dave from Double Date Nation.

We’re back! And for our relaunch we are joined by Jay and Angie of @Averageswinger and Mr and Mrs Ready2Jam. After a year on hiatus due to a major life disruption, we’re happy to join you all again. This one is a bit of a party with mics,

Episode 31 Ladies of Lifestyle LOL Part 1 While at Naughty in N'Awlins several female swinger podcasters got together in a hotel room and had a few drinks and discussed a variety of lifestyle topics, from a female point of view. In this episode, we share part 1 of that discussion. Part 2 will be released in Bonus Episode 78 of The Swinger Diaries on September 9th, and Part 3 will be released in Episode 115 of Average Swingers on September 16th. Podcasts mentioned in this episode: Average Swingers (https://www.averageswingers.com) Swinger Diaries (https://swingerdiaries.podbean.com) The Euphoria Chronicles (https://theeuphoriachronicles.com) Torrid Souls (https://www.torridsouls.com) Royalty Free Music in this episode: Tango by Asteroidsparik Don’t You Ever Leave by Mark Cook

Episode 30 BDSM Surprise If you're like us, a "normal" (whatever that means) swinger couple, we will bet that everything you know about BDSM is wrong. We thought we understood it just from watching it at events, casually talking with people who enjoyed it, etc. However, in this episode, we interview Cory and Jeni, a wonderful couple, and much to our surprise, the entire podcast was about BDSM. Even more surprising, they introduced Mrs. Tango to it. And most surprising of all, she LOVED it! Podcasts mentioned in this episode: We Gotta Thing (at www.wegottathing.com) Royalty Free Music in this episode: Tango by Asteroidsparik Don't You Ever Leave by Mark Cook Try it Like This by William Brooks