The Academic Coaching Podcast

In this episode, the tables get turned: new tutor Alondra Padilla comes prepared to interview Gretchen about how she found her way from teaching to academic coaching to founding the Anti-Boring Learning Lab—but pretty quickly, Gretchen starts asking Alondra questions too. What follows is a surprisingly honest conversation between two educators from different generations and very different backgrounds about the experiences that shaped them. They talk about being first-gen, shame and imposter syndrome, making room for mistakes, equity and personalized learning, and what happens when students are asked to fit themselves into systems that weren't necessarily designed for them. Gretchen also shares stories from her own journey into education and academic coaching that she's never told publicly before. You'll Hear Us Talk About How Gretchen went from teacher to academic coach—and eventually founded the Anti-Boring Learning Lab Alondra's experience as a first-generation college graduate, child of immigrants, and student in LA public schools Why mistakes can be an essential part of learning rather than something students need to avoid Shame and imposter syndrome—and how both can show up at very different stages of an educator's career The ways school can ask students to mask, code-switch, or otherwise adapt themselves to fit What equity and personalized learning can look like when we start with the student rather than the system About Alondra Padilla Alondra Padilla is an English educator and scholar committed to supporting students as whole learners. A UCLA alumna and Los Angeles native, she grew up advocating for educational equity. She currently provides private tutoring and academic support while pursuing a Master’s degree in Education and a PhD in English. She hopes to become an English professor and continue empowering students to reach their educational and professional goals. Links + Resources Atelier Tutors: https://www.ateliertutors.com/ Learn More About the Anti-Boring Learning Lab Free Toolkit: https://antiboringlearninglab.com/resources Gretchen's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gretchen-wegner Watch the video version of this episode on our YouTube Channel: https://youtu.be/UajGgT44ibU

Catherine Pacilio, an executive function and academic coach and founder of Pacilio Coaching, joins Gretchen to unpack what happened when she and fellow Anti-Boring Learning Lab member Robin turned the science of learning into a five-day summer study skills intensive for middle and high school students. Catherine shares what worked, what students responded to, and what surprised her about teaching study skills online — including the differences she noticed between middle and high schoolers, and between running small groups versus one-on-one sessions. We also dig into the challenge of balancing how much to teach with how much students can actually absorb and use. Together, Gretchen and Catherine explore what this experiment revealed about building a study skills toolkit that can carry students into the school year. You'll Hear Us Talk About How Catherine and fellow lab member Robin designed a collaborative five-day study skills intensive — one built for online delivery, the other for in-person Using retrieval practice and movement to make quizzing more active, including a physical-challenge game that had students doing wall pushups and star jumps for wrong answers Backwards learning, the Study Cycle, and Quizzable Study Tools from the Anti-Boring Toolkit, and how Catherine trimmed and paced mini lessons for a condensed format What Catherine noticed about teaching the same content to middle schoolers versus high schoolers — from session length to how much structure each age group wanted Why one-on-one coaching surprised Catherine by feeling especially effective, even as she saw real value in the group dynamic and peer normalization The difference between teaching a strategy and helping a student actually use it once school starts — and how Catherine is building in a follow-up coaching session each October to bridge that gap About Catherine Pacilio Catherine Pacilio is an executive function and academic coach for adolescents and the founder of Pacilio Coaching. She brings 17 years of experience in education, a master's degree in Special Education, and certification as an Academic and Executive Function Coach through the Anti-Boring Learning Lab. Catherine works with middle and high school students to build practical, personalized systems that support confidence and independence. Links + Resources Pacilio Coaching: https://www.paciliocoaching.com Instagram: @paciliocoaching.com Learn More About the Anti-Boring Learning Lab Free Toolkit: https://antiboringlearninglab.com/resources Gretchen's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gretchen-wegner Watch the video version of this episode on our YouTube Channel: https://youtu.be/iTR_fL4_voI

Frankie Trevor, a senior at California State University, Sacramento and former academic coaching client of Gretchen Wegner, joins Gretchen to reflect on how coaching skills can take years to fully take hold. Frankie went from a 1.39 GPA and deep shame about his grades to the Dean's Honor Roll and Presidential Honor Roll, with plans to take the LSAT and pursue law school. They talk honestly about his initial resistance to coaching, the relief of having a judgment-free person look at his grades with him, and the unexpected challenges that made his first year of coaching especially difficult. Together, they explore what happens when coaches teach skills that a student may not be ready to use yet—and why those lessons can still matter years later. You'll Hear Us Talk About Frankie's "begrudging acceptance" of needing help and the shame he felt around his grades and asking for support Looking at his online grade portal together without judgment, even when it showed zeros and missing work The planner and "first steps" strategies that eventually became part of how Frankie manages college work The one-page planner, binder system, and other organizational tools Gretchen used with Frankie in high school How the Study Cycle, Hone It Notes, and creating a "survival sheet" became useful study strategies later in college About Frankie Trevor Frankie Trevor is a senior at California State University, Sacramento, where he currently holds honor roll standing. He is preparing to take the LSAT and plans to pursue law school after taking a gap year. Frankie worked with Gretchen Wegner as an academic coaching client during his junior year of high school, where they worked on organizational systems, study strategies, and self-advocacy skills that he later carried into college. Learn More About the Anti-Boring Learning Lab Free Toolkit: https://antiboringlearninglab.com/resources Gretchen's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gretchen-wegner Watch the video version of this episode on our YouTube Channel: https://youtu.be/dz7O9IMN1s4

Suzy Evans and Dr. Shane Saeed, instructional coordinators in Colorado's St. Vrain Valley School District, have spent eight years building a different kind of professional learning experience: a voluntary Science of Learning Collaborative, coordinator-led and increasingly teacher-powered. In this conversation, they share what happened when Gretchen brought her working memory mini-lesson to their teachers—and how the "parking spaces" metaphor quickly became part of the language teachers used with each other and their students. They talk about what makes professional development actually transfer into classroom practice, including the importance of community, sustainability, and giving teachers space to experiment and learn together. Together, they explore what it can look like when brain science moves beyond a PD session and becomes something teachers and students actually use. You'll Hear Us Talk About The "parking spaces" metaphor for working memory and cognitive overload—and how teachers began using it with students from kindergarten through 12th grade The Science of Learning Collaborative, an opt-in professional learning model that has grown to 75 educators Ways to "clear parking spaces," including movement breaks, brain dumps, and checks for understanding Why every brain is different, and how processing speed and neurodiversity can affect how students experience cognitive overload The surprising idea that a teacher's own working memory can become a bottleneck during explicit instruction About Suzy Evans & Dr. Shane Saeed Suzy Evans is an Instructional Coordinator for St. Vrain Valley School District, where she supports principals and teachers in data analysis, instructional decision-making, and collective efficacy; she co-facilitates the district's Science of Learning Collaborative and co-hosts the Vrain Waves podcast. Dr. Shane Saeed is an Elementary ELA Curriculum Coordinator for St. Vrain Valley School District, specializing in structured literacy and educational equity. She holds a doctorate in executive leadership, authored Be the Flame , and is a national speaker and ASCD & ISTE-recognized leader. She also co-hosts the Vrain Waves podcast. Links + Resources Vrain Waves Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/vrain-waves-teaching-conversations-with-minds-shaping/id1365316994 Suzy Evans on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/suzannah-evans/ Dr. Shane Saeed on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shane-saeed-ed-d-686296132/ Be the Flame by Shane Saeed: https://www.thriftbooks.com/w/be-the-flame-sparking-positive-classroom-communities_shane-saeed/29003758/item/64854630/ Teach FAST by Gene Tavernetti: https://www.thriftbooks.com/w/teach-fast-focused-adaptable-structured-teaching/37475687/ SOL in the Wild: https://solinthewild.substack.com/ Powerful Teaching by Pooja Agarwal & Patrice Bain Learn More About the Anti-Boring Learning Lab Free Toolkit: https://antiboringlearninglab.com/resources Gretchen's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gretchen-wegner Watch the video version of this episode on our YouTube Channel: https://youtu.be/0yq29ZyNv3s

In this episode, Gretchen talks with Sarah Ward — speech-language pathologist and Co-Director of Cognitive Connections — about why task completion is its own executive function skill, separate from starting. Gretchen opens up about her own struggle to finish things (yes, including a song she wrote herself about it), and Sarah brings decades of clinical experience into genuinely tiny, doable tweaks for classroom teachers, coaches, and tutors alike. They cover why students insist they're "done" when they're not, a simple reframe for procrastination, and why this year's college freshmen are struggling in ways past cohorts haven't. If you work with students who swear they're finished when they're not, this one's for you. You'll Hear Us Talk About "Mind miming" — a mental simulation trick that helps students actually finish what they start Why so many students insist they're done with something... when they're not A simple reframe for procrastination — Sarah's "hesitator" vs. "procrastinator" distinction The "job talk" trick that gives any task a real finish line Why this year's college freshmen are struggling with executive demands in new ways Sarah's favorite definition of emotional regulation — the ability to tolerate discomfort About Sarah Ward Sarah Ward, M.S., CCC/SLP, is a licensed speech-language pathologist and Co-Director of Cognitive Connections, LLP, where she has spent over 30 years working in diagnostic evaluation, treatment, and case management for children, adolescents, and adults with developmental and acquired brain-based learning challenges, with a particular focus on executive function. She holds an adjunct faculty appointment at the Massachusetts General Hospital Institute of Health Professions and co-developed the 360 Thinking™ Executive Function Program with Kristen Jacobsen, which received the Innovative Promising Practices Award from CHADD. Find her at efpractice.com. Links + Resources Sarah's website: https://efpractice.com Learn More About the Anti-Boring Learning Lab Download our free Toolkit: https://antiboringlearninglab.com/resources Connect with Gretchen on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gretchen-wegner Watch the video version of this episode on our YouTube Channel: https://youtu.be/IWsmawTJ9jc

In this episode, Gretchen talks with Patrick Quinlan — actor, improviser, executive function coach, and dad — about the moment he realized his longtime way of working had become unsustainable, and in some cases too comfortable, for the families he served. Patrick shares his path from theater and tutoring into EF coaching, and why becoming a parent forced him to rethink in-home sessions, LA traffic, and the emotional labor of being students' "safe person." Together, he and Gretchen explore the fine line between supportive coaching and becoming an expensive emotional regulation crutch, and dig into the business shifts that can change everything — moving from hourly sessions to packages, building clearer boundaries, and creating a path for students to graduate. It's a conversation about coaching, business, and identity, and what it really takes to build support systems that make students more independent, not more dependent. You'll Hear Us Talk About How Patrick became "a safety blanket" for some long-term students — and what that actually costs both sides Why moving from hourly sessions to packages gave families (and Patrick) a clearer beginning, middle, and end The moment fatherhood made in-home, hourly coaching unsustainable and forced a shift to virtual work Why Patrick's background as an actor made it harder — and eventually necessary — to show up as himself in his coaching business Finding community after realizing he wasn't the only coach carrying this weight About Patrick Quinlan Patrick Quinlan is an actor, improviser, and executive function coach, and the founder of Quinlan Tutoring. He built his coaching practice out of a background in theater and tutoring, and now works to help students build independence rather than dependency — while also navigating the business side of running a coaching practice as a parent. Links + Resources Patrick's website: Quinlan Tutoring — https://www.quinlantutoring.com/ Learn More About the Anti-Boring Learning Lab Download our free Toolkit, including the study cycle and the cognitive overload mini lecture: https://antiboringlearninglab.com/resources Connect with Gretchen on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gretchen-wegner Watch the video version of this episode on our YouTube Channel: https://youtu.be/2DY0nX3OZ34 Bonus — Rock Your Biz: Join Rock Your Biz in August! : https://docs.google.com/document/d/10ANub2KuPn3D9p7MNkorM-JLUhmeZfvaJv1zq5KR04U/edit?usp=sharing

In this episode, Gretchen sits down with Seth Perler — executive function coach and creator of TEFOS, the Executive Function Online Summit, now in its 8th year. Gretchen expected to unpack what TEFOS has taught Seth over the years, and they do — but the conversation also goes further, into Seth's personal story and the single biggest skill that turned him from a self-described "lazy failure" into an internationally known EF coach. They also talk business, including Seth's "heart of service first" approach to building a referral network, which flips the usual competitive mindset around private practice. It's a conversation between two longtime colleagues in the academic/EF coaching world — equal parts personal and practical. You'll Hear Us Talk About The skill that turned Seth from "lazy failure" to EF coach — and it starts with asking for help Seth's path from 12 years in the classroom to pioneering EF coaching before the field really existed His "heart of service first" approach to referrals — and why it beats a competitive mindset What 8 years of running TEFOS has taught him about this field and its community Why this conversation goes deeper than the usual "what is EF coaching" interview About Seth Perler Seth Perler is an executive function coach, speaker, and creator of TEFOS (The Executive Function Online Summit), now in its 8th year and one of the largest free gatherings in the ADHD and neurodivergent education world. He taught for 12 years before leaving the classroom in 2010 to pioneer executive function coaching, holds a Master's in Gifted Education/Special Education, and has spent over a decade helping neurodivergent, twice-exceptional, and struggling students build the skills school never taught them. Links + Resources Seth's website: https://sethperler.com/ Learn More About the Anti-Boring Learning Lab Download our free Toolkit: https://antiboringlearninglab.com/resources Connect with Gretchen on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gretchen-wegner Watch the video version of this episode on our YouTube Channel: https://youtu.be/Z9VtLpAGl-o Bonus — TEFOS 2026: Get your FREE ticket to TEFOS (The Executive Function Online Summit), August 14–17, 2026. A VIP pass with lifetime access + bonuses is also available, with early bird pricing through August 13. Register: https://theantiboringapproach--sethperler.thrivecart.com/tefos26/

In this episode, Gretchen talks with Cathleen Pittman — academic and executive function coach, organizational specialist, and founder of Our Learning Studio — about building a tutoring business, selling it, and then facing a sudden cancer diagnosis that made "what happens to my business if something happens to me?" feel anything but hypothetical. They dig into what actually makes a solo coaching or tutoring practice more valuable, why most of us assume this conversation doesn't apply to us (spoiler: it does), and why thinking like a future seller strengthens your business even if you never sell. You'll Hear Us Talk About What actually makes a one-person coaching or tutoring practice "sellable" — hint: it's not just client numbers How a health scare forced Cathleen to rethink what her business depended on The systems and documentation that let a practice run without you in the room Why "I'll never sell" isn't a reason to skip this thinking How building for a future sale makes your day-to-day business more sustainable right now About Cathleen Pittman Cathleen Pittman is the founder of Our Learning Studio, an academic and executive function support practice based in High Point, North Carolina, with more than 28 years of experience in education as a teacher, administrator, mentor, and entrepreneur. In 2006 she opened her first large-scale tutoring center, later built and successfully sold it, and today works privately with students, families, and professionals while helping tutoring business owners build stronger systems behind the scenes. She hosts the Tutor Mentor Podcast. Links + Resources Take the course: How to Set Up Your Tutoring Business Now to be Sellable in the Future: https://our-learning-studio.teachable.com/p/how-to-set-up-your-tutoring-business-to-be-sellable?affcode=1489752_rp3t0h8g (open enrollment — take it any time) Our Learning Studio — Cathleen's website: https://ourlearningstudio.com/ Connect with Cathleen on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-cathleen-killeen-pittman-007641185/ Learn More About the Anti-Boring Learning Lab Download our free Toolkit: https://antiboringlearninglab.com/resources Connect with Gretchen on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gretchen-wegner Watch the video version of this episode on our YouTube Channel: https://youtu.be/wMI4tnryaZI

In this inaugural episode, Gretchen talks with Susannah Cole — executive function coach, educational diagnostician, and co-author of Flexible Mindsets in Schools — about the gap EF coaching fills and why school was never really designed to close it. Inspired by NPR's Wild Card , this first conversation runs three rounds of questions across three chapters of Susannah's life, going deeper than a typical interview. They trace her path from being misread as a student to burning out as a teacher, then into the work that finally clicked. Along the way: a look at who schools were actually built for, and a practical tool that changed the way Susannah runs sessions and relationships alike. You'll Hear Us Talk About Why "whose job is it to teach learning?" is such a thorny question once you look at the history of schools Susannah's iceberg model — what's visible above the waterline in a struggling student, and what's driving it below Whose nervous system is actually overwhelmed in the classroom, and why that matters for regulation and attention The Consent Burger: a simple structure for inviting students in that reshaped Susannah's coaching Learning to read what a specific student needs in a specific moment, instead of leading with enthusiasm About Susannah Cole Susannah Cole is an executive function coach, educational diagnostician, and co-author of Flexible Mindsets in Schools (with Dr. Julie Dunstan). With over 25 years across early childhood, middle school, autism therapy, learning support, and college teaching, she brings a strengths-based approach to helping students build the systems, habits, and mindsets behind self-directed learning. She holds an MEd in Developmental Psychology and conducts psychoeducational assessments. Find her at theefcoach.com. Links + Resources Flexible Mindsets in Schools by Julie Dunstan & Susannah Cole: https://www.amazon.com/Flexible-Mindsets-Schools-Julie-Dunstan/dp/1032069775 The EF Coach — Susannah's website: https://theefcoach.com NPR's Wild Card with Rachel Martin — structural inspiration for this episode's format: https://www.npr.org/podcasts/510379/wild-card-with-rachel-martin The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam Grant: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-curiosity-shop-with-bren%C3%A9-brown-and-adam-grant/id1730985049 Guess what?! If you'd like to learn more about TEFOS (The Executive Function Online Summit), where Susannah and Gretchen first met, it's coming up again August 14–17, 2026 ! It's totally free to register: TEFOS (The Executive Function Online Summit): https://theantiboringapproach--sethperler.thrivecart.com/tefos26/ Learn More About the Anti-Boring Learning Lab Download our free Toolkit (including information about the Consent Burger): https://antiboringlearninglab.com/resources Connect with Gretchen on LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/gretchen-wegner Watch the video version of this episode on our YouTube Channel: https://youtu.be/SuwUh20D84A