The Latex Files

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With reference to a couple of incidents that tested her patience on her recent Dubbo tour, Jessica explains why a prospective clients' nerves are not the escort's responsibility to manage, nor a reason for disrespect.

Roxybynight on TikTok explained that while the money to be made doing full service sex work is appealing, she would not want to risk the sex with any future romantic partner to become unenjoyable / a chore. Jessica gives her perspective on whether sex has become less enjoyable or frequent for her since becoming a full service sex worker.

What the actual f?! Jessica explains why she is finally biting the bullet and starting an Only Fans after years of resistance.

Jessica discusses a text message she received on her work phone from someone warning her that her relationship will never work and she can never have a "normal" life if she continues to do sex work. Unsurprisingly, Jessica had a lot to say in response.

Jessica relays an awkward, surprising and disappointing booking and request that she had with a client recently. She explains that she is increasingly experiencing clients who look to her to provide unpaid labour and high-level emotional support, using guilt and manipulation tactics to get their needs met.

In this filler episode of The Latex Files podcast, Jessica shares an absurd dream that she had where she was a silver spoon who had fed Joe Biden and Donald Trump on Air Force One.

What happens if a client initiates a chargeback via their bank, after the sex worker has provided services? What recourse does a sex worker have in relation to the money? Does the client commit an offence? Jessica discusses all of these points because sex workers should understand their rights and avoid spreading misinformation on social media.

Jessica mentions some surprising life updates including that she now has a boyfriend and her instagram account got suspended. Then she sits down to interview another of her clients who she affectionately dubs "skinny Santa" due to his tendency to bring many presents to his bookings. Skinny Santa explains what it was like going to see an escort after many years of no sexual contact or intimacy.

Jessica shares an update on her stalker situation and then sits down for a chat with one of her clients. Her client shares his experience as a first time user of the service as an older gentleman, following a very traditional upbringing into adulthood where sex was considered a taboo topic.

In this episode, Jessica breaks down a list with real-life examples of some of the controlling behaviours that may be exhibited by clients of sex workers. She explains how these behaviours can escalate or repeat, leading to the "straw that breaks the camel's back" and the negative fallout that the escort needs to consider when cutting off a client.

Jessica shares some brutal truths about the practices and habits of some sex workers that clients hate. These include a lack of preparation and professionalism - e.g. forgetting necessary supplies to work - through to fake photos.

Jessica explains how the celebrity and influencer status afforded to some sex workers risks the marginalisation of sex workers being believed and actioned upon. If some sex workers are being flown first class around the world, invited onto commercial television stations, offered book deals, etc, it's really hard to convince the general public that sex workers are often being treated prejudicially and face significant struggles.

Jessica, an Australian based sex worker, interviews another of her clients about his experience in the realm of full service sex work. This particular client has valuable insights and advice based on a number of encounters with massage parlour workers, brothel workers and independent workers.

Is what is being shown on TikTok and Instagram true? Do sex workers make thousands of dollars per year and live lavish lifestyles? In this episode, Jessica gives her insights and opinions on the likely salaries of full service sex workers.

Police are able to identify and apprehend a suspect in relation to the Jasmine Crathern and Julie McColl murders. But is Francis Michael Fahey also responsible for the earlier attacks? If not, is there a killer or killers on the loose? Link to the Forensic Files episode for this case: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_svqu6FATlE

Jessica explores the murders of four Brisbane sex workers occurring in the late 90s and early 2000s, Karen-Ann Redmile, Elizabeth Henry, Jasmine Crathern and Julie McColl. Was a serial killer targeting sex workers on the loose in Brisbane? Or was this the work of more than one offender?

Do sex workers expect gifts and tips? Are the gifts and tips shown by popular sex workers on social media just bullshit? What is a typical gift or tip for a sex worker? Jessica answers all of these questions.

In this episode, Jessica recounts and provides comments on two recent print and TV stories about assaults against sex workers in New South Wales. Links to the stories: https://www.reddit.com/r/wollongong/comments/1rw4xiw/postbreakup_outburst_dapto_man_bashes_male_escort/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J70N7hn0CFQ

Jessica discusses some of the constraints facing sex workers in deciding whether to tour domestically or internationally, such as the increasing costs of flights and accommodation and the legality (or otherwise) of sex work.