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Want SUBSCRIPTION-FREE and evidence-based treatments? Click here: https://shamelesscare.com/ Want more science? Join the shameless care email list here: https://shamelesscare.com/welcome-email-signup/ Who gets bored with monogamous sex first—men or women? Most people think they know the answer. But sexual boredom, desire for novelty, and long-term attraction don’t always work the way we assume. In this episode, we dig into what the research says about men, women, monogamy, sexual boredom, and what people actually do when the excitement starts to fade. Does it lead to less sex? Fantasies? Cheating? Swinging? Opening the relationship? Or something much less dramatic? And more importantly: what keeps sex interesting when you’ve been with the same person for years?

Get subscription-free treatments from science-loving grownups here: https://shamelesscare.com/?podcast=Increase%20horniness%20podcast%20episode%20100 Join Shameless Care email list here: https://shamelesscare.com/welcome-email-signup/?podcast=Sex%20goddess%20 Can you actually train yourself to want sex more? In this episode of Sex Is Good, we dig into published research on ways people may be able to increase sexual desire, arousal, and interest without medication. We look at studies involving things like scheduled sexual activity, masturbation, vibrator use, erotic material, and other behavioral approaches researchers have actually tested. The question is simple: Can doing sexual things more often make you want sexual things more often? We break down what the science says, what seems promising, what is probably overhyped, and how desire can sometimes behave less like a fixed trait and more like something that can be influenced by habits, attention, stimulation, and experience. No miracle supplements. No fake “libido hacks.” Just the research. Become a Horny Sex God or Goddess — Without Medications.

What does science actually say about fellatio? In this episode, we dig into the research behind oral sex, including who does it, how often people do it, what people actually enjoy, and some of the surprising things researchers have studied about giving and receiving oral sex. We also talk about the difference between what people say they want, what they actually do, and how much of our sexual behavior is shaped by culture, relationships, and expectations. As always, this is a candid, judgment-free conversation about sex, relationships, and the science behind both. Get SUBSCRIPTION FREE healthcare here: https://shamelesscare.com/?podcast=Blowjob%20podcast%20 Join Shameless Care email list here: https://shamelesscare.com/welcome-email-signup/?podcast=Blowjob%20podcast%20

Get expert sexual healthcare from board certified physicians here: https://shamelesscare.com/?podcast=Experts%20STD Be smarter about sex, join the Shameless Care email list here. https://shamelesscare.com/welcome-email-signup/?podcast=Sex%20ED%20Video Sex education has always been a little awkward. But some of these vintage sex education videos are on an entirely different level. In this episode, Robert and Anna watch and react to old-school sex ed videos that were actually shown to people decades ago. Outdated advice. Bizarre warnings. Uncomfortable acting. And some moments that left us wondering, “Who thought this was a good idea?” Some of it is unhinged. Some of it is surprisingly reasonable. And some of it has aged VERY badly. Come watch along with us as we discover just how wild vintage sex education could be.

Be smarter about sex. Join the Shameless Care email list. https://shamelesscare.com/welcome-email-signup/?podcast=Semen%20podcast Stop subscribing for medication. That's silly. Find real sexual healthcare here. https://shamelesscare.com/ Does semen actually affect mood? Do women care how much a man ejaculates? Where do men prefer to finish, and where do women actually want them to? Can you increase semen volume? Does pineapple really change the taste? And what actually improves semen health and fertility? In this episode of Sex Is Good , Robert and Anna take on six surprisingly common questions about semen and separate the science from the myths. We look at the controversial “semen improves mood” theory, the mismatch between male and female preferences around ejaculation, what really affects volume and taste, and the lifestyle changes that can measurably improve sperm health and fertility.

Dr. David Ley is a clinical psychologist, sex therapist, and the author of Insatiable Wives, one of the most well-known books ever written about the hotwife lifestyle and female sexual desire. In this episode, we discuss why some women have stronger sexual desire than their partners, the psychology behind hotwifing, jealousy, open relationships, and the myths that surround nontraditional relationships. We also explore how research has changed our understanding of female sexuality and what couples should know before considering ethical non-monogamy. Whether you’re simply curious or actively exploring these topics, this conversation is thoughtful, evidence-based, and surprisingly nuanced. Guest: Dr. David Ley, clinical psychologist and author of Insatiable Wives.

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Does a person’s “body count” actually matter? In this episode, we discuss one of the most controversial topics in dating and relationships. Does having more sexual partners predict divorce? Does it affect long-term relationship satisfaction? Should it matter at all? We also explore whether a higher number of partners changes your risk of sexually transmitted infections and what the research actually says. Along the way, we discuss morality, sexual compatibility, honesty, and why these conversations so often become emotional instead of evidence-based. Whether you think body count is important or completely irrelevant, this episode aims to separate the science from the opinion.

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🧠Be smarter about sexual health. Join the shameless care newsletter. No spam. Unsubscribe at any time. https://shamelesscare.com/welcome-email-signup/?podcast=Bias%20Podcast Doctors are human. And like all humans, they have biases. That does not mean most doctors are bad at their jobs. It means medicine is practiced by human beings, and human beings are influenced by assumptions, past experiences, social norms, and personal beliefs. In sexual health, that matters more than many people realize. Bias can affect which questions get asked, which tests get ordered, which symptoms get taken seriously, and even what treatment options are offered. It can shape how doctors think about age, gender, sexual behavior, relationship status, and risk. DoxyPEP ED Meds PreP STI testing HPV Vaccine over 45 Bias plays into each of those health care decisions. In this episode, we discuss how bias shows up in real clinical settings, why it happens, and how it can directly impact patient care. We also talk about ways patients can advocate for themselves and ask better questions. This is not an attack on doctors. It is a conversation about human nature, medicine, and why awareness matters.

Get Smarter Each Week With the Shameless Care Email Here: https://shamelesscare.com/welcome-email-signup/?podcast=Going%20Down Everyone talks about cunnilingus. Very few people talk about what science actually says. In this episode, Robert and Anna break down five research-backed facts about cunnilingus that might genuinely change how you think about pleasure, communication, and sexual satisfaction. Some of what we found was surprising. Some confirmed what many people already suspect. And some explains why so many people overcomplicate something that often comes down to attention, communication, and enthusiasm. No fluff. No fake sex tips. Just science.

ED meds wihtout subscription scams? Daddy, please! https://shamelesscare.com/ed-landing/?podcast=Daddy%20Podcast Why do so many people call their partner “Daddy”? Where did the phrase come from, and how did a word that once simply meant “father” become one of the most common terms in modern sex and dating culture? In this episode, we explore the history of the word Daddy, from its origins as a childhood nickname to its use in literature, LGBTQ+ culture, BDSM, pornography, and mainstream relationships. We look at the psychology, history, and cultural evolution behind one of the most misunderstood words in the English language. Topics include: * The origin of the word “Daddy” * When “Daddy” became sexual * The history of Daddy in gay culture * BDSM and dominance dynamics * Why people call their partners Daddy * The psychology of age-gap relationships * How the term entered mainstream dating culture If you’re interested in the history of sex, relationships, language, kink, and human behavior, this episode is for you. #Daddy #SexHistory #Relationships #Psychology #Dating #BDSM #LGBTQHistory #HumanSexuality #Podcast #ShamelessCare

Robert has spent years inside the world of erectile dysfunction medications through Shameless Care and has now helped facilitate more than one million ED medication doses. In this episode of the Sex is Good Podcast, Robert and Anna break down what they’ve learned about Viagra, Cialis, sildenafil, tadalafil, performance anxiety, psychogenic ED, condom-related ED, aging, relationships, and the surprisingly emotional side of male sexuality. They discuss why most men who use ED medications are not who people think they are, why younger men increasingly struggle with anxiety-related ED, why many men only need medication temporarily, and how unrealistic internet expectations have distorted conversations around erections and masculinity. The episode also covers: • Why sildenafil remains the most popular ED medication • Why “subscriptions” and “prescriptions” are not the same thing • Common reasons doctors refuse ED medication requests • The real risks, side effects, and safety concerns men should understand • Why telehealth pricing for the same medication can range from pennies to hundreds of dollars • How shame and embarrassment prevent men from getting help As always, this episode mixes science, humor, personal experience, and blunt honesty about modern sexual healthcare.

Smart is sexy, join the Shameless Care Email list here: https://shamelesscare.com/welcome-email-signup/?podcast=Kink What is cuckolding? What is consensual non consent (CNC)? Why do some people enjoy pony play? And what does science actually say about these controversial sexual interests? In this episode of the Sex is Good Podcast, Robert Johnson and Anna explore three of the most misunderstood kinks in modern sexuality: cuckolding, consensual non consent, and pony play. Rather than focusing on shock value, they examine the psychology, neuroscience, relationship dynamics, and sexual health research behind each kink. Why do some people find these experiences arousing? Are they signs of underlying psychological issues? How common are they? And what do researchers know about the people who enjoy them? Topics discussed include: • What cuckolding is and why some couples enjoy it • The psychology of consensual non consent (CNC) • Why fantasy and reality are often very different things • Pony play, role play, and identity exploration • Sexual novelty, arousal, and the human brain • What the scientific literature says about kink and mental health • Common myths about BDSM and alternative sexual interests Whether you’re curious, skeptical, or actively involved in the kink community, this episode takes a science based look at three sexual interests that are often misunderstood. Subscribe for weekly episodes covering sexual health, relationships, STI testing, erectile dysfunction, libido, sexual psychology, and the science of human sexuality. #Cuckolding #CNC #ConsensualNonConsent #PonyPlay #BDSM #Kink #SexPodcast #SexualPsychology #HumanSexuality #SexIsGoodPodcast

Shameless Care ED Meds: https://shamelesscare.com/ed-landing/?podcast=Orgasm%20Podcast Join the email list the more and better science! https://shamelesscare.com/welcome-email-signup/?podcast=Orgasm%20Podcast Can women really experience multiple types of orgasms? Yes, at least nine different types! In this episode of the Shameless Care Sex is Good Podcast, Robert and Anna dive deep into the anatomy, neuroscience, psychology, and cultural myths surrounding orgasms. From clitoral and cervical orgasms to prostate stimulation, blended orgasms, mental arousal, and the strange realities of male pleasure, this is a funny, science driven conversation about what actually happens inside the human body during sex. Topics include: • The 9 commonly described types of female orgasms • The difference between orgasm and ejaculation • Why some orgasms feel emotionally intense • The role of dopamine, oxytocin, and the nervous system • Why stress and anxiety can completely shut down pleasure • Multiple orgasms in women and men • The truth about “mind blowing” orgasms online • The anatomy most people never learned in sex ed • Why communication and foreplay matter more than people think As always, the conversation blends humor, real world experience, and peer reviewed science without the awkward clinical lecture vibe.

Pubic lice are a sexually transmitted infection that, strangely enough, predates humans. Millions of years ago, our ancestors were covered in far more body hair, giving lice plenty of territory to live on. But as humans evolved and lost most of that hair, pubic lice got pushed into one of the last dense patches remaining: the pubic region. Now, some researchers think humans may be shrinking their habitat even further. Since the rise of Brazilian waxing and aggressive grooming trends, especially after shows like Sex and the City helped popularize them, rates of pubic lice appear to have declined dramatically in some parts of the world. There is even speculation that if grooming trends continue long enough, pubic lice could someday become genuinely rare or potentially disappear altogether. Which is a sentence I never thought I’d say into a microphone.

Most people assume medications like Viagra and Cialis are “for men.” But women take them too, and the science behind what happens is far more interesting than most people realize. In this episode of the Sex is Good Podcast, Robert and Anna break down what medications like sildenafil, tadalafil, and apomorphine actually do in women, why researchers became interested in them in the first place, and why the results have been both promising and controversial. They discuss: • Blood flow and female sexual arousal • Why “desire” and “arousal” are not the same thing • The strange history of “female Viagra” • Why some women report dramatic benefits while studies remain mixed • The role dopamine may play in sexual response • The real science behind tadalafil, sildenafil, and apomorphine in women • The difference between internet hype and actual clinical evidence As always, this episode is funny, honest, deeply researched, and very NSFW in places. This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice.

Herpes is one of the most common human infections on Earth. Hundreds of millions of people carry it. It can cause physical symptoms, emotional distress, stigma, relationship anxiety, and endless confusion online. So why is there still no vaccine? In this episode of the Sex is Good Podcast, Robert and Anna break down the strange and frustrating history of herpes vaccine research, why developing one has proven so difficult, and why some scientists believe we may still be much farther away than the public realizes. They discuss: • Why herpes behaves differently than many other viruses • Why some vaccines looked promising and then failed • The biology of latency and immune evasion • Whether mRNA technology could finally change things • Why stigma affects funding and public attention • What current treatments actually do and do not accomplish • The emotional reality of living with HSV As always, this episode blends science, public health, history, and honest conversation without fearmongering or moral panic. Because if herpes is this common, the real question is not why people get it. The real question is why we still have not solved it.

Shameless Care and Robert were featured in the Daily Mail. Some of the comments called Robert ugly. Ouch. So naturally, we’re making chicken salad out of chicken poop and turning internet cruelty into a science episode. Are we more or less attractive than we think? Is there any objective way to measure beauty? Why can one person find you hot while another thinks you look like a haunted thumb? And what do studies actually say about faces, symmetry, confidence, familiarity, sexiness, and the toxic sewer known as online comments? In this episode, Anna and Robert discuss the science of attraction, why beauty is partly shared and partly personal, why static photos are terrible data, and why strangers on the internet are not qualified to grade your face.

Why does STI testing feel like a coin flip on whether you’ll get a surprise bill? In this episode, we untangle the American health insurance system piece by piece — from the eight different coverage categories you might fall into, to the ACA preventive services mandate that makes HIV, chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, and hepatitis screening legally free on most plans. But “free” comes with asterisks. We dig into the single most important distinction almost no one talks about: screening versus diagnostic testing. Same test, same lab, different billing code, wildly different price. You’ll learn the two ICD-10 codes that determine whether you pay nothing or hundreds — and the exact phrase to say to your doctor before they order the test. We also cover: •Why your Blue Cross Blue Shield PPO might pay differently than your neighbor’s •How state laws in California, New York, Illinois, Florida, and Texas change what’s covered and who gets told •The Explanation of Benefits privacy trap for anyone on a family plan — and how to fix it •Why herpes blood tests, HPV testing in men, and expanded panels often aren’t covered •When cash-pay actually beats using insurance If you’ve ever gotten a surprise medical bill for something you thought was free, this episode is for you.