Todo En Vida

Episode 34 - I've been making everyone else's problems mine and stretching myself too thin. Now I'm running on empty and reflecting on why and how I'm going to try and change that. Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction 02:00 having to redo my Trademark 05:00 being in a vulnerable position 06:00 giving too much of myself and my blessings away 09:00 Overpouring and taking responsibility for other people 14:00 You can't give everybody a piece of the pie 19:00 Learning im getting enough for ME 25:00 Overplaying my part 30:00 thinking it'll never happen to me 37:00 guard your heart 43:00 stop trying to bring people to your level

Episode 33 - I'm talking about business this episode! More specifically, the beauty business and waxing industry. I'm telling you what it costs to run my business, some of the stuff I encounter with clients from time to time and why the soft wax vs hard wax debate is a bit silly. Time Stamps: 00:00 INTRO 02:00 The number behind running my business 06:00 Why beauty business MUST charge a cancellation fee 10:30 For new estheticians charging too little and not getting booked 16:00 120k isn’t exactly what it sounds like 21:00 The comparison between soft wax and hard wax is silly 28:00 Trying to cover all bases with my policies 35:00 What more can I do to make this process easier for you? 37:00 God forbid I pour into myself a little bit 40:00 Giving my clients grace 44:00 This is a two way street 49:00 Let’s not be rooted in greed

Podcast Episode 32 - On this episode I talk to you guys about feeling broken and lost at times in my life and realizing that it's just a season of REBUILDING! Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction 05:00 Heavy is the head who wears the crown 10:00 Living my raps 15:00 Life isn't about being accepted by the world 20:00 Your thoughts aren't always meant to be your friend 25:00 Getting recognized at the drive thru 30:00 Fighting your fear 34:00 My younger cousin joining the military

Episode 31 - On this episode I have my girls on to talk about why you shouldn't date a baby daddy and all the negative things that come with it. Especially if you're a woman that doesn't already have kids of her own. Your best bet is to stay away. Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction 05:00 If she hates you, why should I like you 10:00 They always still have something between them 17:0 I may not want my own kids, so I definitely don't want yours 24:00 Co-Parenting toxicity 30:00 They didn't't trust you enough to take that step with you 40:00 I'm not joining the cult 48:00 I'd rather not involve myself

Episode 30 - My girls are here to talk about being a supportive friend to someone not ready to leave their toxic relationship. What to do and what not to do. Plus, what it's like from the outside looking in. Moral of the story, the grass IS greener on the other side ladies. Time Stamps: 00:00 Introducing my besties (also they're sisters) 03:00 Something you may not know about Ash 07:00 How to show up for someone who's not ready to let go 14:00 having a friend that will be real with you about your situation 20:00 Seeing your friend's light be drained right in front of you 25:00 The sweet shyt gets you stepped on 32:00 To those who are ready to let go, THIS is for you 36:00 Someone who really likes you wouldn't do this 40:00 Everyone lets go when THEY are ready 47:00 At one point, it got THIS bad. A little tea for you

Episode 29 - Everything I've learned and am learning since the last episode I recorded a few months ago. Speaking on anxiety and grounding yourself, God showing up in the middle of all my mess and speaking to the underdog.And remember it's probably just a bad day, not a bad life! 💜 Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction 05:00 It's not your fault but your responsible for your reaction 10:00 Reflecting now that it's time for a new chapter 15:00 Dealing with my anxiety 20:00 Speaking to the people that 25:00 God reminds you he's been there all along 30:00 Doing something with good intentions will result in something positive 35:00 You suffer more in your head than in your own reality 38:00 Remember that the best thing you can do is get your body moving

Episode 28 - I'm back but I really never left! Let me tell you where I've been mentally and what I've been up to over the past few months. I hope this episode resonates with you and maybe you can take something from it to use in your own life! Thanks for watching & listening 🫶🏼 Time Stamps: 00:00 I'm back like I never left 04:00 Now What? 08:00 Forced to surrender my old self and way of life 12:00 What I WAS doing stopped working 16:30 Dealing with my anxiety 21:00 God helps the "poor" 25:00 An hour walk is a difference maker LONG TERM 29:00 Recognizing I was afraid 32:00 It's normal to question where you're at in life and where you're going 36:00 Shedding your old skin 40:00 My achievements became my identity 44:00 Who's Ashley now? 47:00 God's in control 50:00 Easing the pressure I put on myself

Episode 27 - Today we get a chance to talk about the beauty and struggles we come across as business owners in the beauty industry. How we find balance and take time to soak it all in when we can. Tune in for that and much much more 💜 Time Stamps: 00:00 Introducing this episode’s SPECIAL guest 💜 04:00 Appreciative of life because of the struggle 09:00 finding a balance with your business 15:00 always be open to learning from others 19:00 doing the leg work vs asking how to do it 25:00 dealing with success early on in your business 32:00 the importance of decompressing 39:00 follow your vision 47:00 belief goes a long way 59:00 making your place of business welcoming

podcast episode - Have you ever felt anxious about your future? Felt alone in a room full of people that love you? What about a lack of motivation to continue? I haven't been feeling like myself lately but this is how I was able to get my spark back. Special thanks to all my friends who've been reaching out to check in on me 💜 time stamps: 00:00 I haven’t been feeling motivated 05:00 feeling like a hamster on a wheel 12:00 I’ve been feeling so alone 24:00 appreciating the people checking in on me 28:00 the moments things cracked 40:00 Showing up when I didn’t feel like it 46:00 feeling farther away in my faith 50:00 feeling my spark come back

Episode 25 - This is hitting close to home. As someone whose dad fought a deportation case when I was young, those feelings of fear and unceratinty are being brought up again. From clients to family and friends, I'm being told what they're feeling and experiencing on a day to day life. These are our experiences. Time Stamps: 00:00 Me and my community’s reality 06:00 The sacrifices my parents made allow me to be in this position 11:00 “They should’ve come in the right way” 16:00 The Media is instilling fear 19:00 Upholding the law 26:30 Business are hurting 31:00 Working through the fear 35:00 Mentally exhausted 38:00 First Gen reality 41:00 ICE Agents not showing themselves 43:00 Praying for you guys

Episode 24 - Matt Balane joins us on this episode and talks about his life leading up to his wife's death, the aftermath that followed and finding a light at the end of the tunnel. His life at the moment is proof it can and will all work out. Take it one breath, one day at a time and don't lose your faith 🤍 We hope this episode touched at least one person out there that may have needed it 🤞🏼 God Bless You All! Time Stamps: 00:00 Introducing our special guest Matt Balane 03:40 Studying Theology in NorCal for his Bachelor’s Degree 07:00 Seeing different sides of God 09:15 Meeting my wife 15:00 The deconstruction of my Faith 20:00 God is near to those who are crushed in spirit 23:30 Experiencing the worst in people 25:30 Resenting God 30:00 The light at the end of the tunnel 36:00 Outlets that get your through your grief 43:00 Where my life stands today 52:00 Addressing the parts of you that are broken

Episode 23 - After my last episode I had a private sit down my Pastora Claudia and she revealed to me a few truths that were quite eye opening. And on this episode, we're covering those truths. Such as my abandonment issues and healing from past hardships that I've yet to heal from that have now lead to some difficult relationships. I hope you can take something I said on this podcast episode and use it in your own life! As always tune in for the transparency 💜 Time Stamps: 00:00 Introducing this episode’s topic 02:30 Constantly realigning yourself and moving forward 04:00 For the record 08:30 Abandonment issues 12:00 Romanticizing 17:00 Anything done in the dark comes to light 20:00 Why is love taken from us? 25:00 Transparency 29:00 Why are you always being manipulated? 33:00 Reoccurring pain 37:00 Why didn’t I see the signs? 41:00 A Wolf in sheep’s clothing

EPISODE 22 - On this episode we have Pastor Claudia of Broken Hearts Ministry here to talk to us about forgiveness, sin and being careful about what you pray and ask God for. She also tells us about how she and her husband started in a garage and now have been blessed enough to move into a location. Please enjoy this beautiful episode! God Bless You 🤍 TIME STAMPS: 00:00 Pastor of Broken Hearts Ministry Introduction 04:00 How you respond in times of crisis, is the real you. 07:45 Our community before and after difficult times 12:20 Forgiveness 19:00 Envy lives in all of us 25:00 Give as much as you ask for 34:00 The Black Sheep 38:00 The people behind the service 41:50 Women Pastors don’t exist 50:00 We don’t want to pay the price like Jesus 54:00 God’s first lesson to me

Episode 21 -On this episode we have a special guest sharing her story! She tells us about her brother's killers trial and what it was like to be there. Getting her mom to go to therapy. Her neighbor attempting t assault her. And finally, how to give yourself grace through all life's difficulties. Special thanks to her for coming on 🫶🏼 I hope you enjoy this special episode 💜 Time Stamps: 00:00 Introducing our special guest 07:00 Learning to have compassion for your parents 11:00 Getting my mom to go to therapy 14:00 Neighbor tried to assault me 20:00 Stop trying to change your partner 27:00 Disliking myself 29:00 I didn’t feel like I belonged in my own family 37:00 Give yourself grace 40:00 What is underneath the success? 44:00 Why I started merch 54:00 Trial 1:01:00 The Window Jumper 1:09:00 Embracing the good and the bad

Episode 20 - On this episode I bring in the New Year talking about hitting my lowest point last year and how this year is about fixing my mental health by pouring into myself. I also give you guys a quick breakup story time on my last relationship. 2025 is about acceptance. Accept what is and move forward. Thank you guys for joining me for my first podcast episode of 2025! I hope you enjoyed and were able to resonate with this episode's message 💜 Time Stamps: 00:00 HAPPY NEW YEARS 🎉 01:00 YEAR 2 OF TODO EN VIDA 05:00 Fixing the problem 08:00 Accepting the problem 13:00 Focusing on the cup half full 17:00 My breakup story time 23:00 Fixing my mental health 30:00 Pouring into myself 40:00 Feeling like every day is promised

Episode 19 - On this episode I check in with you about where I've been and why I haven't been recording! Today's topic revolves around Holiday grief. Whether that be about family we don't have relationships with, people we've lost and things we may not have. Trust me when I say, those social media holiday pictures and videos don't paint the whole picture. Don't get caught up in what you think you need during the holidays and focus on what the holidays are really about. Finally, always rely on faith even if you are not in need. I hope you enjoy this special episode and the last of the year 🤍 See you in 2025 🥂 Thank you for tuning in and coming along with me on this journey, it means the world 🌍 Time Stamps: 00:00 Where have I been? 05:00 Gift giving 11:00 Family during the holidays 16:00 those PJ sets aren’t worth it 20:00 Holiday grief from the losing of loved ones 25:00 Persevere through the tough times in life 32:00 Relying on faith

EPISODE 18 - On this episode I talk about my recent experience with codependency. How to deal with It and why we as people maybe deal with that in our relationships. As well as, how to get out of it and what to do in the aftermath of it all. I'm learning as I go, just like you guys! Hope you enjoyed this very personal episode 💜 TIME STAMPS: 00:00 INTRO 01:00 DEFINITION OF CODEPENDENCY 03:00 GETTING TO THE ROOT CAUSE 06:00 WHY CAN’T I LET GO 12:00 WORDS VS ACTIONS 15:00 TRYING TO GIVE IT ANOTHER SHOT 22:00 CODEPENDENCY IN PARENTS 30:00 WOMENS INTUTION 35:00 LEARNING AS YOU GO 38:00 CLOCK NEVER TICKS BACKWARD 40:00 DON’T LET THE WORLD CHANGE YOU

Episode 17: 00:00 Independent women in this day and age 07:00 50/50? 12:00 Letting go of control 21:00 Who do you want? 28:00 When do you know? 36:00 The List 45:00 All Gas No Brakes 49:00 You have to know what you want 55:00 Still learning Thank you for listening 💜 If you haven't already please leave a review on whatever platform you're listening on 🌟

Episode 16 - 00:00 Creating a more livable work life 09:00 Appreciate your clients ALWAYS 24:00 It took me 3 years to learn this 26:00 Beauty School is INSANE 28:00 Providing for my family 37:00 Taking a vacation is difficult thank you for watching and I hope you enjoy this episode on the beauty industry/work life 💜 thank you for your patience as well, I'm back from vacation so we're getting back on schedule 🤭

EPISODE 15 - 00:00 How the Beauty Industry has changed over the years 10:00 False women empowerment in the industry 18:00 Regrouping after closing a business 25:00 Scheduling you time 40:00 Keep things off social media Make sure to follow HerizonPod & Latinas Empoderadas on Instagram, TikTok & YouTube! Thank you for listening to this special episode 🤍