No Romance Without Finance

In the Season 2 Finale of No Romance Without Finance, Pattie is joined by the brilliant Dr. Cara Wall-Scheffler, Professor and Co-Chair of the Department of Biology at Seattle Pacific University. Forget what you thought you knew about our ancestors–Cara’s research shows that women weren’t just gatherers and caretakers, they were hunters. Together, Pattie and Cara explore the cultural narratives that hold women back, how society’s success relies on women’s work, and how the huntresses of time past can inspire women today. Links: Follow Pattie Ehsaei on social media: https://www.instagram.com/duchessofdecorum/ https://www.tiktok.com/@duchessofdecorum?lang=en Follow Dr. Cara Wall-Scheffler’s research & work: https://twitter.com/wallscheffler?lang=en https://stories.spu.edu/articles/professor-cara-wall-scheffler-debunks-the-myth-of-men-as-hunters-and-women-as-gatherers/ Follow Pattie: Website TikTok Instagram

In this episode, Pattie speaks with Maya Lau, writer, researcher, and host of the award-winning podcast "Other People's Pockets." Join Pattie and Maya as they dish about salary transparency, giving the side-eye to gender pay gaps, and why it's essential to have the financial talk before you put a ring on it. They'll tackle the drama of public proposals, break down the real cost of weddings, and sprinkle some financial fairy dust on the age-old question of love and money. Links: Follow Pattie Ehsaei on social media: https://www.instagram.com/duchessofdecorum/ https://www.tiktok.com/@duchessofdecorum?lang=en Follow Maya and her podcast, “Other People’s Pockets”: https://www.mayalau.com/ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/other-peoples-pockets/id1655009015 Follow Pattie: Website TikTok Instagram

In this episode, Pattie is joined by Michaela Guzy, founder of the editorial content house, OhThePeopleYouMeet. Together, they dive into her content empire and her pivot from the corporate world. Michaela bravely shares the vulnerable tales from past relationships, the red flags she ignored, and the gifts she received from the universe when she learned to let go of things that aren’t meant for her. From heartbreaks to high triumphs, you’ll hear it all! Links: Follow Pattie Ehsaei on social media: https://www.instagram.com/duchessofdecorum/ https://www.tiktok.com/@duchessofdecorum?lang=en Follow Michaela & her work: www.OhThePeopleYouMeet.com https://www.instagram.com/michaelaguzy/?hl=en Follow Pattie: Website TikTok Instagram

In this episode, Pattie is joined by Goli Ameri, former U.S. diplomat and current CEO of StartItUp, an AI-driven mobile platform providing personalized business guidance to millions of Solopreneurs. Goli shares her career journey, and how her unwavering passion for human rights is what led her to serve as the U.S. Assistant Secretary of State for Education and Cultural Affairs. She also shares her remarkable immigration story and discusses the challenges she faced as a working mother, shedding light on the concept of "mom guilt" and the constant juggling act between career and family. Links: Follow Pattie Ehsaei on social media: https://www.instagram.com/duchessofdecorum/ https://www.tiktok.com/@duchessofdecorum?lang=en Learn more about Goli and follow her work: https://www.linkedin.com/in/goliameri/ https://uscpublicdiplomacy.org/users/goli_ameri Follow Pattie: Website TikTok Instagram

In this episode, Pattie is joined by renowned behavioral economist Linda Babcock. Linda, the founder and director of the Program for Research and Outreach on Gender Equity in Society (PROGRESS), is a trailblazer in understanding the barriers women face in the workplace and developing evidence-based solutions to promote gender equality. Linda and Pattie dive into the true roots of the gender pay gap, and how equitable distribution of labor is the key to narrowing the divide. They also explore the double standard of workplace behaviors and the perceptions of men as "the boss" and women as "bossy”. Links: Follow Pattie Ehsaei on social media: https://www.instagram.com/duchessofdecorum/ https://www.tiktok.com/@duchessofdecorum?lang=en Learn more about Linda’s research: https://www.cmu.edu/dietrich/sds/people/faculty/linda-babcock.html https://twitter.com/linda_c_babcock?lang=en Follow Pattie: Website TikTok Instagram

In this episode, we welcome Nicole Eckels, Founder and CEO of Glasshouse Fragrances. Nicole shares how her love of travel and all things glamorous ignited her entrepreneurial journey, and how a gap in the fragrance market set the stage for it all. Learn the 3 most vital traits for all entrepreneurs, and how waiting for “Prince Charming” will get you nowhere – because he’s not coming. Links: Follow Pattie Ehsaei on social media: https://www.instagram.com/duchessofdecorum/ https://www.tiktok.com/@duchessofdecorum?lang=en Follow Nicole and Glasshouse Fragrances: https://www.instagram.com/nicoleeckels/?hl=en https://us.glasshousefragrances.com/ Follow Pattie: Website TikTok Instagram

In this episode, we follow Gina Michelle's extraordinary journey from mixing cocktails to sealing over $1 billion in real estate deals. Gina shares her ascent through adversities, including housing crashes, gender biases, and reinventions. She sheds light on the path to success in the real estate industry, and how the skills you acquire throughout your career can become invaluable assets down the line. Links: Follow Pattie Ehsaei on social media: https://www.instagram.com/duchessofdecorum/ https://www.tiktok.com/@duchessofdecorum?lang=en Learn more about Gina and follow her work: https://www.instagram.com/therealginamichelle/ https://www.theagencyre.com/agent/gina-michelle Follow Pattie: Website TikTok Instagram

In this exciting episode of "No Romance Without Finance," our special guest is none other than Tony Durso, the dynamic host of "The Tony Durso Show." Pattie and Tony explore what motivated him to leave his corporate job and embark on his podcasting adventure, while also gaining insights into the secrets to success he's gleaned from his high-profile guests. In addition, they engage in a healthy and fun debate about the age-old question: should you or should you not separate finances when you get married? Links: Follow Pattie Ehsaei on social media: https://www.instagram.com/duchessofdecorum/ https://www.tiktok.com/@duchessofdecorum?lang=en Follow Tony and the Tony Durso show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-tony-durso-show/id1251015712 Follow Pattie: Website TikTok Instagram

Join us in this enlightening episode as we delve into the world of Feng Shui and its profound connection to your financial well-being. Our guest, Nixie Marie, Feng Shui practitioner and CEO of Claryti, shares her expertise on how the arrangement of your living space can impact your finances. Nixie provides specific instructions on creating a prosperous environment in your own home, red flags to watch out for when entering a potential mate's home and gain insights into creating a harmonious and prosperous environment that supports your love and financial goals. Links: Follow Pattie Ehsaei on social media: https://www.instagram.com/duchessofdecorum/ https://www.tiktok.com/@duchessofdecorum?lang=en Download Nixie’s decluttering guide: https://gentle-apple-93606.myflodesk.com/nvm04tg02l Follow Nixie on social media: https://www.tiktok.com/@nixie_marie ? https://www.instagram.com/nixie_marie/ Follow Pattie: Website TikTok Instagram

In this episode of "No Romance Without Finance," we welcome Unni Turrettini, a distinguished author, speaker, and Human Connection Expert. Unni shares how a national tragedy compelled her to explore the profound impact of human connection. She also tackles two provocative questions: Can men and women truly be just friends, and is it possible to attain genuine happiness without the confines of a romantic relationship? Links: Follow Pattie Ehsaei on social media: https://www.instagram.com/duchessofdecorum/ https://www.tiktok.com/@duchessofdecorum?lang=en Learn more about Unni and follow her work: https://unniturrettini.com/ https://www.instagram.com/unni.turrettini/ Follow Pattie: Website TikTok Instagram

We’re joined by the remarkable Paula Tutman. With over 30 years of experience as a multi-Emmy winning broadcast journalist, Paula's journey is one of resilience, innovation, and empowerment. She takes us through her transformation from a broadcast news reporter to becoming the founder of Zuke-iT, a 100% woman-owned company that revolutionized fashion with its flagship invention—the Bra-Less Bra, Instant Cleavage Sculpting Solution™. Paula’s story is a true inspiration for anyone seeking to reinvent themselves and embark on a fulfilling second act. Links: Follow Pattie Ehsaei on social media: https://www.instagram.com/duchessofdecorum/ https://www.tiktok.com/@duchessofdecorum?lang=en Learn more about Paula and the Bra-Less Bra, Instant Cleavage Sculpting Solution: https://bralessbra.com/ https://www.clickondetroit.com/team/PXUGGZW5TBFUJEBFUMPNGGHGC4/ Follow Pattie: Website TikTok Instagram

Welcome to Season 2 of No Romance Without Finance! In this exciting premiere, we're joined by a powerhouse in the world of media and journalism, Madeleine Frank Reeves, deputy editor of Cosmopolitan Magazine. Madeleine takes us on a journey through her career path, sharing why her post-college move to Alabama was a game-changer for her career and finances. Along the way, we delve into the truth behind the glamorous lives of social media's "Faux Riche" stars. Madeleine also offers a unique perspective on reframing those tough money conversations in your relationship. Links: Follow Pattie Ehsaei on social media: https://www.instagram.com/duchessofdecorum/ https://www.tiktok.com/@duchessofdecorum?lang=en Follow Pattie: Website TikTok Instagram

Pattie is joined by the dynamic duo of real estate and design, Egypt Sherrod and Mike Jackson. You might recognize them from their popular HGTV show 'Married to Real Estate,' where they turn houses into dream homes. But today, they're here to share a more intimate side of their journey – how they've managed to intertwine their love story with the complex world of finances. They pull back the curtain on the challenges they've faced, the lessons they've learned, and the strategies they've developed to navigate love and money. Whether you're a real estate enthusiast, a romantic at heart, or someone aiming to collaborate with your partner, this episode offers a treasure trove of wisdom on fostering understanding, communication, and financial harmony within a relationship. Produced by Citizens of Sound Links: Follow NRWF on TikTok and Instagram https://www.instagram.com/_noromancewithoutfinance/ https://www.tiktok.com/@noromancewithoutfinance Follow Pattie: Website TikTok Instagram

In this episode, Pattie delves into the secrets of building a fulfilling relationship with renowned psychotherapist, Dr. Foojan Zeine. With decades of experience in helping individuals find love and happiness, Dr. Zeine shares invaluable insights on identifying a good partner, recognizing red flags, and mastering effective communication. She emphasizes the importance of active listening, expressing needs respectfully, and cultivating a non-judgmental environment for open dialogue. Tune in to this enlightening episode as we uncover the secrets to identifying a fulfilling love! Produced by Citizens of Sound Links: Follow NRWF on TikTok and Instagram https://www.instagram.com/_noromancewithoutfinance/ https://www.tiktok.com/@noromancewithoutfinance Find more on Dr. Foojan Zeine: https://foojanzeine.com/ Follow Pattie: Website TikTok Instagram

In this episode of "No Romance Without Finance," we sit down with Lori Fetrick, also known as "Ice" from the iconic American Gladiators. Join host Pattie as they delve into Lori's remarkable journey as one of the few women in a male-dominated industry. From the grueling physical challenges of the arena to confronting pay discrepancies and misogyny, Lori shares her inspiring story of resilience and determination. Tune in to discover how she overcame obstacles and became a trailblazer, standing tall as an empowering symbol for women everywhere. Links: Follow NRWF on TikTok and Instagram https://www.instagram.com/_noromancewithoutfinance/ https://www.tiktok.com/@noromancewithoutfinance Follow Ice and listen to her podcast, Chillin With Ice: https://www.instagram.com/loriicefetrick/?hl=en https://www.chillinwithice.com/ Follow Pattie: Website TikTok Instagram

Pattie welcomes the remarkable Nicole Travolta, who opens up about her tumultuous past relationship with money. Nicole shares the negative money behaviors she learned in her youth, how they influenced her life choices, and how they eventually led to the downfall of her marriage. But this is also a story of redemption and empowerment; she shares her turning point when she ditched the ego and faced her debt head-on, learning that acting like everything's fine won't fix your bank account. Nicole's candid tale of money woes and triumphs will slap you with some serious financial reality. No more hiding in the shadows of debt shame! Produced by Citizens of Sound Links: Follow NRWF on TikTok and Instagram https://www.instagram.com/_noromancewithoutfinance/ https://www.tiktok.com/@noromancewithoutfinance Check out Nicole’s show “Doing Alright”: https://nicoletravolta.com/ https://www.instagram.com/nicoletravolta/?hl=en Follow Pattie: Website TikTok Instagram

When Pattie released her viral video, “Never Date a Broke Dude”, she drew from experience-that of her own, and that of millions of women worldwide. One such woman is Farnaz Vahdani, who bravely shares her unfiltered experience dating a “broke dude”. From the red flags she ignored, to the lies he told, to the mindset of insecurity that kept Farnaz from leaving sooner! Pattie connects it to recent events with Keke Palmer and her partner, using their story as a prime example of how insecure, penniless men can tear down successful women. Produced by Citizens of Sound Links: Follow NRWF on TikTok and Instagram https://www.instagram.com/_noromancewithoutfinance/ https://www.tiktok.com/@noromancewithoutfinance Follow Pattie: Website TikTok Instagram

Pattie engages in a captivating conversation with Stephanie Wolff, CEO of Novus Anti-Aging Center. Stephanie, a renowned expert in sexual wellness and hormone therapy, sheds light on the profound impact hormones have on a woman's overall well-being, productivity, career, and more. She shares insights gained from her 17 years of experience (like how men go through menopause, too!) and offers valuable guidance to women navigating the transitional phase of menopause. Produced by Citizens of Sound. Links: Follow NRWF on TikTok and Instagram https://www.instagram.com/_noromancewithoutfinance/ https://www.tiktok.com/@noromancewithoutfinance Find more of Stephanie Wolff’s work: https://www.thenovuscenter.com/novus-sexual-wellness-clinic-los-angeles/team/stephanie-wolff/ Follow Pattie: Website TikTok Instagram

Join Pattie for a discussion with Dr. Lauren Cook, a distinguished therapist, founder of Heartship Psychological Services, and author of the highly anticipated book, "Generation Anxiety." Dr. Lauren Cook shares her invaluable insights and principles and introduces the concept of "5 seconds of courage," a powerful practice to help you embrace moments of bravery, so you can challenge toxic behaviors and confront the waves of anxiety that often plague our day-to-day lives. Together, they break down when it's time to put on your superhero cape and tackle hardships on your own and when to call in the professionals. Produced by Citizens of Sound. Links: Follow NRWF on TikTok and Instagram https://www.instagram.com/_noromancewithoutfinance/ https://www.tiktok.com/@noromancewithoutfinance Pre-order “Generation Anxiety” and Find more of Dr. Lauren’s Work: https://www.drlaurencook.com/generation-anxiety https://www.instagram.com/dr.laurencook/ https://www.tiktok.com/@dr.laurencook Follow Pattie: Website TikTok Instagram

In the fifth episode of "No Romance Without Finance," Pattie welcomes special guest Dr. Jenn Mann, a renowned psychotherapist and expert in relationship dynamics. They explore the effects of money on the dynamics of romantic relationships, discussing the challenges and opportunities it presents. Dr. Jenn breaks down the intricate ways in which money can shape relationships and influence power dynamics, and shares practical advice and strategies for fostering a healthy and fulfilling relationship that addresses the needs and concerns of both partners. Produced by Citizens of Sound . Links: Follow NRWF on TikTok and Instagram https://www.instagram.com/_noromancewithoutfinance/ https://www.tiktok.com/@noromancewithoutfinance Find more of Dr. Jenn’s Work: https://www.instagram.com/drjennmann/ https://doctorjenn.com/ Follow Pattie: Website TikTok Instagram