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Published by Tracy Laury
Learning to navigate through relationships and friendships and loving who we are.
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Send us Fan Mail Here are the steps I followed after my divorce. I created a plan, which I carefully thought through—much of it was developed during the divorce process. My philosophy is to never wait for an ending to execute a new plan. https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show
Send us Fan Mail Sometimes, someone enters your life, and everything feels different. You may think they are finally the person you’ve been waiting for. But what if their purpose in your life is different from what you imagined? What if some relationships are not meant to last forever, but are instead meant to change you, heal something within you, and prepare you for what comes next? What if he stays? There may be a reason he showed up when he did. But the real question is: was he meant to stay? https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show
Send us Fan Mail Everyone sees the couple who never seems to argue. They look happy, peaceful, and easygoing. But what if there’s something happening behind the scenes that nobody knows about? What if the relationship only looks easy because someone has become very good at hiding what they feel? Sometimes the biggest sacrifice in a relationship is the one nobody sees. Sometimes the calm you see on the outside is covering a much deeper story. And the question is... https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show
Send us Fan Mail Yes, we all know before our friends break up. I know many of our friends think we don't notice, but we do. When a marriage ends, it’s obvious to us, to everybody in the circle. We just choose to stay silent. Another thing: we also know which person will move on and do better. https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show
Send us Fan Mail We naturally look for the closest people in our circle to support us in everything we do. That isn't uncommon, but what if the person closest to you is your biggest rival? What if it's the person that you married? https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show
Send us Fan Mail A relationship can end emotionally before it ends officially. Sometimes the ending doesn’t happen with an argument, a breakup, or someone walking out the door. Instead, it happens quietly—when communication fades, affection disappears, trust is lost, and two people slowly stop showing up for each other. So now you find yourself in the most difficult relationship you've ever been in. https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show
Send us Fan Mail Intimacy requires consideration. The bedroom should not be a place where one person’s needs matter more than the other’s. Consideration means paying attention to how your partner feels, making them feel wanted, and understanding what excites them. It means caring about their needs and making intimacy enjoyable for both of you. Also, when both people feel valued, heard, and cared for, intimacy can become a deeper expression of love. It's a win-win situation! https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show
Send us Fan Mail Never feel upset or let yourself get down when someone says something about you. Instead, look at the person who is saying it and consider who they are. What do they know about you? What is their intention? Not everything said about you deserves your attention, your energy, or your reaction. Sometimes, the best response is simply to consider the source, know who is talking, and keep moving forward. https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show
Send us Fan Mail I believe that 90 percent of the time, we should trust the universe to guide us toward our desires, our wants. We have a bad habit of trying to steer romance in the direction we want it to go, but most of the time, that leaves us broken-hearted and miserable. So, let's let go and see what happens. Honestly, what can we lose? https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show
Send us Fan Mail I believe that to have the life we want, the career and lover we desire, we must choose one or the other. But which one can give you all three? https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show
Send us Fan Mail Fall is fast approaching; we need a date. Plus, it's such a beautiful time of year. As the weather cools, routines shift, and people often become more social. This year, we don't want to be caught without a date. We promised last year we would do something different. So let's hold each other accountable. Support the show
Send us Fan Mail Taking a chance on love means accepting that there are no guarantees. Every relationship involves vulnerability, trust, and the possibility of both joy and heartbreak. But it's better to have known that feeling than not. Life is a gamble sometimes; just live it. https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show
Send us Fan Mail You all are so special to me! Support the show
Send us Fan Mail Ladies, we will allow the men to retain that role. We are more skilled at it, I must admit. However, we will let him keep it. We can provide input, and that's all. https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show
Send us Fan Mail Many women mistakenly believe that paying for affection will lead to earning love or commitment. This misconception needs to change. But what truly happens in these types of relationships? What happens when someone is attracted to what you provide rather than who you are? Do they even stick around? https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show
Send us Fan Mail Everyone has someone from their past whom they wonder about—the person they almost chose, the one they never forgot, and the one they still ask, “What if?” What if you had made a different choice? What if one conversation, one decision, or one moment could have changed the entire direction of your life? Sometimes the people we lose are not forgotten; they become the unanswered questions we carry with us. https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show
Send us Fan Mail There seems to be a growing movement of men returning to more traditional ideas of manhood. For many, this does not mean going backward—it means placing a greater emphasis on values such as responsibility, integrity, discipline, leadership, protecting and providing for their ladies, families, and keeping their word. Rather than chasing trends or seeking validation, these men are focusing on building stable careers, becoming emotionally mature, strengthening their character, and creating meaningful relationships. https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show
Send us Fan Mail There is always room to improve yourself. Growth is a lifelong journey, not a destination. Each year brings new experiences, new lessons, and new opportunities to become a wiser, stronger, and more compassionate version of yourself. None of us has all the answers, and that's okay. Life has a way of teaching us through both our successes and our setbacks. Every challenge offers a lesson, every mistake provides an opportunity to grow, and every season of life helps shape who we are becoming. The goal is not to be perfect. The goal is to keep learning, keep evolving, and keep making choices that align with the person you want to be. Strive to communicate better, love more deeply, make wiser decisions, and treat both yourself and others with greater understanding. As long as you are willing to learn, there is always another level of growth waiting for you. Become a little better than you were yesterday, and let each year reflect the progress you've made—not because you never failed, but because you never stopped growing. https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show
Send us Fan Mail Yesterday's podcast resonated positively with everyone. This has become more common lately. We believe they want to connect, but ultimately it's about what we can provide, and then they move on. https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show
Send us Fan Mail Let's remember to keep our plans discreet and work quietly. While it might be tempting to share, given the current climate of friendships—whether old or new—it's best to stay cautious. https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show
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