Tea at Four

What does it actually take to make a marriage last for over 20 years? This week on Tea At Four, hosts Billy and Christie sit down with UK power couple Matt and Emma Willis for an incredibly honest conversation about the realities of long-term love, communication, and modern relationships. Emma opens up about why she initially resisted couples therapy - admitting she thought she "didn't have trauma" - and how a single neutral session transformed the way they communicate. They also share why you should stop trying to change your partner and the truth behind those wild internet headlines (including a fake hot tub row and a proposal interrupted by Busted fans). Plus, we ask them to play Agony Aunt and Uncle to answer your relationship dilemmas: Should you care if your partner won't post you on social media? And how do you handle a partner who is reluctant to go to therapy? Finally, Matt and Emma give us the inside scoop on hosting the highly anticipated series of Love Is Blind UK on Netflix, what to expect from the couples, and the release schedule details you need to know. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a comment with your thoughts on the "three-day rule," and share this with someone who needs to hear Matt and Emma's relationship wisdom. 00:34 - Matt and Emma Willis are back: What’s changed? 01:00 - Love Is Blind UK: Why this series is the best yet 01:51 - Do Matt & Emma have favorite couples? (The truth about Jack & Faye) 03:45 - The secret recipe behind a 20-year marriage 04:25 - Falling in love with "multiple people" over time 05:25 - Why you should stop trying to change your partner 07:00 - Debunking the headlines: The hot tub row live on air 10:50 - Debunking the headlines: Matt’s Venice proposal disaster 12:45 - How Emma made the first move (The Simon Webbe story) 14:07 - Debunking the "three-day" texting rule 15:15 - Agony Aunt: Should you worry if they won't post you on social media? 19:10 - Agony Aunt: How to talk to a partner who refuses therapy 19:25 - The therapy session that saved our communication 22:05 - Love Is Blind UK: Netflix release date and schedule details

Bo has lived with Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) for years, but before their diagnosis they thought they had narcolepsy because they would regularly "black out" with no memory of what had happened. In this episode of Tea At Four, hosts Lauren and Billy sit down with Bo to unpack the reality of living with DID, from the trauma that caused different parts of her identity to form, to the misconceptions they face every day online. They explains how many alters they live with, and how some of their alters have their own names, memories, ages, accents and even beliefs. Bo opens up about how their alters helped protect them from traumatic memories, what dating is like when different alters have different relationships, and why the internet needs to stop "fake claiming" people living with the disorder.This is one of the most honest and eye-opening conversations we've had about Dissociative Identity Disorder, trauma, memory and what it's really like to share your mind with different parts of yourself. This is one of the most honest and eye-opening conversations we've had about Dissociative Identity Disorder, trauma, memory and what it's really like to share your mind with different parts of yourself.

Please Gamble Responsibly Kelly Dighton went from a council house and recovering from addiction to winning an £11.5 million jackpot with her partner Arron, on a single £1.50 phone slot spin - the largest jackpot in 58 years. But the dream quickly turned complicated.In this episode of Tea At Four, hosts Lauren and Billy sit down with Kelly to discuss the reality of sudden, massive wealth: from receiving death threats and kidnap warnings to how her partner took his £5.5 million share and left for Colombia. Kelly shares her unfiltered story of staying sober through it all, dealing with family betrayal, and why she still stays humble and shops at Primark despite having millions in the bank. Follow the icon Kelly on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kelly.dighton

What is the reality of going undercover with some of the world's most dangerous gangs? In this episode of Tea At Four, hosts Lauren and Christie sit down with award-winning investigative journalist and documentary presenter Tir Dhondy to uncover the shocking, behind-the-scenes truth of criminal organisations. From surviving death threats and having a SWAT team kick her door down, to sitting in a car with a machete-wielding Rolex thief, Tir shares the heavy, unfiltered realities of her career. We dive into her undercover work in Ayia Napa exposing modern slavery and sexual harassment, the dangerous logistics of British drug mules smuggling weed out of Thailand, and how her team traced a high-stakes sextortion scam all the way to Lagos, Nigeria. We also discuss what it is genuinely like to navigate a high-risk, male-dominated industry as a female journalist, how criminals are disarmed by women, and why the future of investigative journalism is shifting directly to digital spaces like YouTube.

What are the sides to grief that nobody talks about? Lauren and Christie find out this week on Tea At Four. Nicky joins us to share her experience of losing her husband, and how her grief changed her reality. She tells us about 'Widow's Fire', why grief makes you crave you life, and how she turned this experience into a dating app for widows. In a completely candid chat, we break the taboo on intimacy after death, sex life in your 50's, and being aware of your dead partner watching you have fun...You can find Nicky at @nickywakewidow, and if you looking for dating help after loss be sure to look into WidowsFire and Chapter 2.If you want to suggest a guest for us to have on Tea At Four, let us know at @teaatfour@junglecreations.com, or DM us on Insta @teaatfourpod x

What really happens behind the red lights of one of Europe’s biggest legal brothels? This week on Tea At Four, Billy and Lauren sit down with Catherine De Noir, a psychology graduate turned manager of a massive, 100-room "ethical" brothel. From the strict “8-Second Rule” that keeps every woman safe, to the mind-blowing reality that top earners are making €50,000 per month, Catherine pulls back the curtain on an industry shrouded in stigma. Connect with Catherine:Instagram: @catherine_de_noire

In this unfiltered episode of Tea At Four, Mason shares how the "Chemsex" epidemic nearly cost him his life, the reality of "slamming" drugs, and the surprising way OnlyFans became his road to recovery and sobriety. We dive deep into the taboo side of the gay community that no one is talking about, from the "Tina" (crystal m*th) crisis to the dangers of GHB and the rise of breeder parties. Mason reveals the physical toll of a 4-year addiction, including the sepsis scare that changed everything, and how he retrained his brain to experience intimacy without substances. Follow Mason here: https://linktr.ee/masoncrossxxx

TRIGGER WARNING What happens when your own mind becomes your worst enemy? Today on Tea At Four, Billy and Christie are joined by Molly Lambert (@mollambert) for an unfiltered conversation about the side of OCD the world rarely sees.Molly opens up about her journey with POCD (Paedophilic Obsessive Compulsive Disorder), a theme of OCD characterised by distressing, intrusive thoughts. At 15, Molly believed she was a "monster," leading to a terrifying spiral of "suicide or prison."In this episode, we break down:⭐️ The difference between OCD and General Anxiety.⭐️ Why OCD isn't just about "being clean."⭐️ How Molly moved from "mental torture" to recovery.⭐️ The stigma men and women face when speaking about intrusive thoughts.

What’s life really like as a woman in the Royal Navy for 33 years? From staying fit and navigating life at sea, what cabin life is like and the challenges of being a woman in a male-dominated environment, Warrant Officer Angie Cheal MBE joins Lauren and Christie to share her experience! In this episode, we explore: The truth about "Military Discipline" How the Navy unlocks huge travel & sporting opportunities The "8% Woman" Ratio From "Coddled" to MBE: How the Navy makes you resilient. Inside the cabins: Wi-Fi, makeup, and "suitcases." Find out more about the roles in the Royal Navy here: https://www.royalnavy.mod.uk/careers?utm_source=fournine&utm_medium=paidsocial&utm_campaign=+Burst_2_2025&utm_content=VT_Carousel

What happens behind the closed doors of a "Dungeon Boudoir"? Today on Tea At Four, Billy and Lauren sit down with Spicy Saurora, a sexologist and dominatrix who is redefining what it means to be a "healer." From navigating sex with spinal cord injuries and muscular dystrophy to the viral world of inflatable fetishes, Saurora shares the unfiltered truth about her work. We ask the question; should intimacy be considered a part of human care?

Why are celebrities suddenly looking "natural" again, and what exactly is "Ozempic Face"? We’re joined by London’s top aesthetic doctor, Dr. Motox, to spill the tea on celebrity filler secrets, the dangers of backstreet procedures like penile filler, and the skincare that actually works. In this episode of Tea At Four, Lauren and Billy sit down with Dr. Mo (Dr. Motox) for an unfiltered look into the world of cosmetic procedures in 2026. From debunking the myth that filler "dissolves" to revealing the truth behind Kylie Jenner’s Golden Globes look and Molly-Mae’s lip transformation, no topic is off-limits.We dive deep into: The "Clean Girl" Aesthetic: Why celebrities are lying about being "natural." Ozempic & Weight Loss Jabs: How rapid weight loss is changing the face of beauty. The Risks: From blindness to lip necrosis - what your injector isn’t telling you. Taboo Procedures: The wild reality of penis filler and why Dr. Moe refuses to do it. The Prescription: The exact skincare brands (Medik8, Sarah V, La Roche-Posay) that actually produce results. 👇Follow Dr. Mo👇❤️ https://www.instagram.com/dr.motox/?h... ⭐️ https://www.tiktok.com/@dr.motox?lang=en

From 40 years of religious celibacy to becoming the UK’s most famous 73-year-old escort. Caroline Vee is pulling back the curtain on the things that usually stay in the group chat. In this episode of Tea At Four, Billy and Lauren sit down with the iconic "Busty Granny," Caroline Vee. After a lifetime in the church and struggling with her mental health, Caroline had a sexual awakening at 57 that changed everything. Now, at 73, she’s sharing the unfiltered truth about the escorting industry, her youngest clients, and the bizarre requests that even shocked us. We’re talking everything from "poo sandwiches" and "dead mother’s nighties" to why sex actually saved her life. This is a masterclass in confidence, pleasure, and living life on your own terms, no matter your age! Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to teaatfour@junglecreations.com. 💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod 💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine 💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’re back with Lauren and Billy, and joined by special guest Seana Momsen, a Trans Bengali woman who’s keen to share her journey from being born a boy in a culture that doesn’t accept her true self, to becoming the first Bengali Trans woman in a Bollywood film. We talk about whether you should reveal your identity on a first date, and how to deal with discrimination in day to day life. She has an inspiring story and outlook on life, and isn’t afraid to dive deep into how she found her chosen family through the world of online gaming. Seana opens up about the most invasive questions she gets asked ("What's between your legs?"), navigating intimacy with men who don't know, and the heartbreaking moment a man followed her around a club to expose her identity. We also dive into family dynamics, cultural expectations, and navigating the world of sex work. Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to teaatfour@junglecreations.com. 💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod 💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine 💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We're back! And today on Tea At Four we're spilling all the Married At First Sight UK tea with Leigh Harris. We're going past the edit to find out what happened when the cameras stopped rolling, why Leigh got so much hate and how she'd dealt with the backlash, and why people think she's 'not a real lesbian'. We also dive deep into toxic dating life, and the shortage of masc lesbians right now... Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to teaatfour@junglecreations.com. 💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod 💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine 💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's never too early for Christmas on Tea At Four, and Pixie Lott feels the same! The 00's pop icon joins Lauren and Billy to discuss her new Christmas film, Christmas Karma, and they get into the spirit by diving into Pixie's ghost of pop past, present and future. We talk about the nostalgia that Pixie's music brings up, from X-Factor to walking the school halls with the girls. Pixie tells us how she can't believe it's been so long, and who her pop icons were back in the day. We also cover Pixie's current Spotify playlist, and the TV show opportunities that almost were... Christmas Karma will land in cinemas 14th November across the UK & Ireland. Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to teaatfour@junglecreations.com. 💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod 💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine 💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we have loads of spilled tea, from Billy’s recent inside scoop about meeting icon Kim Kardashian, to uncovering David Harbour’s red flag letter that he sent to Lily Allen. We debate the Kourtney Kardashian’s latest lollipop release, is this helpful or is it anti-feminist? Are runners less annoying to date than smokers, and is it worse if someone checks your phone versus hides theirs? Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to teaatfour@junglecreations.com. 💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod 💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine 💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's a new week on Tea and we've got some new celeb goss to be yapping about - from Taylor Swift's new album (do we hate it or rate it?), to Sabrina Carpenter's new rumoured love-interest. Lauren, Billy and Christie also discuss The Celebrity Traitors fart-gate, which leads to a discovery of a rogue group chat with thousands of members... Our fan-favourite game of Don't Spill the Tea is back too, so stick around for lots of wild internet confessions and tea spilling. Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to teaatfour@junglecreations.com. 💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod 💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine 💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's officially spooooky season on Tea At Four - and Lauren, Billy and Christie are spilling all the haunted tea. We cover everything from debunking London ghost stories, involving a girl falling in love with a man she met in a past life, to a safeguarding ghost on the Night bus. We also question why there are never any modern ghosts, and what outfits we would pick to wear for eternity. Send us your own personal spooky stories! Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to teaatfour@junglecreations.com. 💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod 💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine 💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Energy Healer, Psychic and Medium, Katy Whyte joins Lauren and Billy today to unlock their inner magic. With Billy on the sceptic side, and Lauren as a believer, Katy helps us learn how to discover our spirit guides.... Ever wondered if you could be low-key Psychic? Katy reveals the signs to look out for and the ways to improve your abilities. We also go through the power of manifestation and what people get wrong when trying to manifest themselves a life partner. Katy also shares what it's like to be a Medium when walking through busy areas like London train stations, and how unsettling hospitals can be. Give it a listen to understand how to use the power of manifestation to it's true potential... Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to teaatfour@junglecreations.com. 💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod 💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine 💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today Lauren and Christie are joined by cult survivor, Rachel Reign, who wants to raise awareness of the horrible things going on in the Universal Church of the Kingdom of God. She describes being ‘recruited’ at age 13, having exorcisms every Friday and the dating rules that would keep you from falling into sin. From both a religious and non-religious perspective, we explore what makes a cult a cult, and what are the warning signs you should look out for. Follow @survivinguniversaluk for more information on cultic and spiritual abuse. Send us your dilemmas, tea or quite frankly anything you find funny to teaatfour@junglecreations.com. 💖 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Teaatfourpod 💖 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@four.nine 💖 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fournine/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.