Let's be perfectly Queer Podcast

Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast , your go-to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer In this episode of Let’s Be Perfectly Queer , we talk about the reality of constantly coming out as LGBTQIA+ and the mental load that comes with it. Coming out is often portrayed as one big conversation with your family or friends. But what happens when you start a new job? Meet a new doctor? Make new friends? Or a complete stranger makes an assumption about your partner? Suddenly, you're faced with the same question again: Do I say something? Do I correct them? Do I let it go? Is this actually a safe space? In this episode: The never-ending reality of coming out The mental load of constantly deciding whether to come out The everyday assumptions about being straight and cisgender Protecting your energy vs making something a teaching moment The pressure to explain your relationship and identity Why using the word "partner" can be more inclusive Coming out is a choice, not an obligation= Join us as we talk about the never-ending process of coming out, queer identity, LGBTQIA+ safety and the mental exhaustion that can come with constantly explaining who you are . And until next time... stay perfectly queer! Much love Archie & Katie 🌈 If you have found anything we have spoken about in this episode difficult or triggering, you can reach out to the following services: AUSTRALIA: Phone: Lifeline is available 24/7 – 13 11 14 QLife (LGBTQI+ support): 1800 184 527 Beyondblue is available 24/7 - 1300 224 636 Crisis Care Helpline is available 24/7 – 1800 199 008 Kids Helpline (ages 5–25): is available 24/7 – 1800 55 1800 RUAH Community Services is available 24/7 - 13 78 24 Online: Head to health online chat - headtohealth.gov.au RUAH Community Services - ruah.org.au or connect@ruah.org.au AROUND THE WORLD: Trevor Project (US) : 866-488-7386 or www.thetrevorproject.org Trans Life Line (Canada): (877) 330-6366 Trans Life Line (US): (877) 565-8860 OutLine Aotearoa: 0800 688 5463 or online https://outline.org.nz/chat/ LGBT Ireland: Find more resources: https://safeinourworld.org/news/global-lgbtq-support/ Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going. A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈

Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast , your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer . Small talk is BACK!.. Kind of.. we chatted more than I thought! In this episode of Let’s Be Perfectly Queer, we dive into some of the LGBTQIA+ topics, conversations and headlines that have caught our attention recently. First up: the Australian Census. Are the new LGBTQ+ questions enough to give us an accurate picture of Australia's queer community? And what happens when people are still living at home or aren't in a position where it feels safe to be openly LGBTQIA+? Then, we're talking about that phrase we're all sick of hearing: "Stop shoving your sexuality down our throats." Is queer representation really being forced on people or are people simply uncomfortable seeing LGBTQIA+ lives represented in the same way heterosexual relationships always have been? We also discuss rainbow capitalism and why some major brands appear to be scaling back their Pride support. Were they ever genuine allies, or was supporting the LGBTQIA+ community only worthwhile when there was money to be made? Plus, Japan is introducing a nationwide LGBTQ+ education program but can education alone create genuine inclusion when same-sex marriage still isn't legally recognised? And finally, we talk about the songs that hit a little differently when you're queer. Is Part of Your World secretly a queer anthem? Why does Reflection resonate so strongly with so many trans and queer people? And what Disney song meant something completely different to you when you were growing up? In this episode: LGBTQIA+ questions in the Australian Census Being queer while living at home and staying in the closet Is LGBTQ+ representation really being "shoved down our throats"? Pride, backlash and rainbow capitalism Brands scaling back their LGBTQIA+ support LGBTQ+ education in Japan Can education change attitudes without equal legal rights? Is Part of Your World a queer anthem? The queer meanings we find in Disney songs Reflection , Go the Distance and the songs that helped shape us Join us as we chat about a range of queer topics.. and until next time... stay perfectly queer! Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going. A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈

Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast , your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer . If you ever watched a childhood cartoon and thought “Hang on… were they queer?” , this episode is for you. This week on Let’s Be Perfectly Queer Podcast , Archie and Katie dive into one of the most fascinating and complicated parts of LGBTQIA+ representation in media: queer coding . From the age-old debate over Bert and Ernie to Tinky Winky and Ursula , we explore the childhood characters that generations of queer people have seen themselves in, even when those characters were never officially LGBTQIA+. But why did queer coding happen in the first place? We go back to the Hays Code and a time when openly queer characters were rarely allowed on screen, forcing writers and filmmakers to communicate queerness through mannerisms, relationships, fashion, personality and subtext. We also unpack the darker side of queer coding, particularly the long history of queer-coded villains and what happens when the only characters who seem to reflect you are the bad guys. And then there's the big question: does it matter what the creators intended if queer audiences found genuine representation in those characters? In this episode we discuss: Whether Bert and Ernie were actually queer What queer coding really means The history of the Hays Code and LGBTQIA+ censorship The childhood characters we may have completely missed were queer coded Why so many Disney villains have queer-coded traits Ursula, Scar, Jafar, Captain Hook and the history of the queer-coded villain Tinky Winky, SpongeBob, Velma, Shego, Elsa and more What happens when queer representation is associated with villains, outsiders and "the other" Why positive LGBTQIA+ representation in children's media matters Whether you're LGBTQIA+, an ally, a cartoon lover, or someone who has ever looked back at a childhood character and thought “OH… I get it now” , this episode will have you questioning everything you watched growing up. So… who was your queer-coded childhood character? 👀 🎧 Listen now, and let us know who you saw yourself in growing up... And until next time, stay perfectly queer! 🌈 Links we found useful when researching this episode: Liberal Arts Emerging Scholars Queer coded characters paper Queer coded characters journal NBC - Bert and Ernie are a gay couple First they came for Bert and Ernie Bert and Ernie don't have a sexual orientation Queering my childhood The importance of lgbtq+ representation in childrens media Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going. A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈

Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast , your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer . If you've ever heard someone say being LGBTQIA+ is "unnatural," this episode is for you. This week on Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast , Archie sits down with Lee Pivnick and Nicolas Baird , co-founders of the Institute of Queer Ecology , to unpack one of the most fascinating intersections of science, nature and queerness. From gay swans and bonobos to trans clownfish (yes, Finding Nemo got it wrong), we explore the incredible diversity of sexuality, gender and relationships found throughout the natural world. But this conversation goes far beyond animal facts. We dive into what queer ecology actually is, how science has historically overlooked queer perspectives, why biodiversity matters, and how viewing nature through a queer lens can change the way we think about ourselves, our communities and the planet. In this episode we discuss: What queer ecology actually means Same-sex relationships throughout the animal kingdom Gender-changing fish and the real story behind Finding Nemo Bonobos, gay swans and surprising animal behaviour Climate change, biodiversity and conservation Why "it's not natural" is one of the weakest arguments against LGBTQ+ people Whether you're LGBTQIA+, an ally, a science nerd or simply curious, this conversation will completely change how you think about nature 🎧 Listen now to learn about more than just gay swans... And until next time, stay perfectly queer! Follow the Institute of Queer Ecology: https://www.queerecology.org Instagram: @queerecology Instagram: @instituteforpostnaturalstudies Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going. A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈

Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast , your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer . This week we're joined by Tay from Australia's queer indie band FVNERAL to chat about their new EP Chosen Family , what it means to find community, and how music can connect LGBTQ+ people. We dive into Tay's journey as a trans non-binary person, the fear of coming out, finding the language to understand yourself, and why chosen family can be one of the most powerful forms of resistance. We also talk about building a proudly queer band, collaborating with other LGBTQ+ artists, the importance of visibility, and the musicians who helped shape Tay's identity, from My Chemical Romance and Laura Jane Grace to SOPHIE , boygenius , and MUNA . Whether you're queer, questioning, an ally, or simply love hearing honest conversations about identity and creativity, this episode is packed with heartfelt stories, laughs, and reminders that you don't have to figure everything out alone. In this episode we discuss: What "chosen family" really means Coming out as trans and non-binary Building a queer-led band The importance of LGBTQ+ representation in music Why visibility still matters The artists who inspired Tay's journey Advice for young queer and trans people 🎧 Listen now to Tay's journey through music... And until next time, stay perfectly queer! Links to FVNERAL: Instagram: @fvneralworld Tiktok: @fvneralworld Youtube: @fvneralworld Facebook: @fvneralworld Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going. A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈

Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast , your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer . Why do so many LGBTQ+ people walk into a doctor's office already expecting to feel dismissed, misunderstood, or unsafe? This week on Let's Be Perfectly Queer , we're joined by physician, educator, advocate and proud parent Dr. Lulu to unpack the realities of LGBTQ+ healthcare. From growing up in Nigeria surrounded by homophobia, to navigating her own queer identity, raising a transgender daughter, and becoming one of the leading voices in affirming healthcare education, Dr. Lulu shares an honest and deeply personal conversation about bias, allyship, and what truly inclusive care looks like. Together we discuss: Why many LGBTQ+ people avoid medical care The experiences transgender people face in healthcare settings How doctors can unintentionally harm queer patients The power of asking questions with compassion and consent Dr. Lulu's "Find Me, Feel Safe, Trust Me" framework for affirming care Her upcoming book First Do No Further Harm: Becoming Allies in White Coats Why there is still hope for families, parents, and healthcare providers to learn, grow and become better allies Whether you're LGBTQ+, a parent , healthcare worker, educator , or simply want to understand how to create safer spaces for queer people , this conversation is full of insight, empathy, and practical ways we can all do better. 🎧 Listen now to hear Dr Lulu's experience... And until next time, stay perfectly queer! How you can connect with Dr Lulu Websites Dr. Lulu’s Pride Corner: https://drluluspridecorner.com Angels Haven Incorporated: https://angelshaveninc.org Social Media Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1CypCwaSvB/?mibextid=wwXIfr LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drlulu?utm_source=share&utm_campaign=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=ios_app Instagram (Dr. Lulu’s Pride Corner): https://www.instagram.com/drluluspridecorner?igsh=MXE1M2IwNWhyMG9paQ== Instagram (Coach Udaku): https://www.instagram.com/coachudaku?igsh=MWF6dGYwb2VicWxmYg== Podcasts Ask A Black Woman Podcast (YouTube): https://www.youtube.com/@AskABlackWomanPodcast Moms 4 Trans Kids (Apple Podcasts): https://podcasts.apple.com/ng/podcast/moms-4-trans-kids/id1708676679 YouTube Dr. Lulu’s Pride Corner: https://youtube.com/@drluluspridecorner?si=WSAVPycmgU5QVLn- Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going. A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈

Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast , your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer . Have you ever noticed how many LGBTQ+ people also seem to be neurodivergen t? In this episode of Let's Be Perfectly Queer , Archie and Katie explore the growing research showing a significant overlap between queer identities and neurodivergence . From autism and ADHD to gender diversity , bisexuality , asexuality, and transgender identities, researchers are discovering connections that challenge traditional ideas about identity and what society considers "normal." We unpack: Why autistic people are more likely to identify as LGBTQ+ The connection between ADHD, gender diversity, and sexuality What the latest research says about being "neuroqueer" The Double Minority Effect and its impact on mental health Personal experiences of being queer and neurodivergent Why support, understanding, and community matter more than ever While researchers are still exploring why this overlap exists, one thing is clear: nobody should have to hide who they are to fit into society's expectations. Whether you're queer, neurodivergent, both, or simply curious, this episode offers insight, lived experience, and an important conversation about identity, belonging, and acceptance. 🎧 Listen now to learn about the overlap of neurodiversity and queerness... And until next time, stay perfectly queer! Trigger Warning: Discussion of mental health, suicidality, discrimination, and healthcare experiences. If you have found anything we have spoken about in this episode difficult or triggering, you can reach out to the following services: Phone: Lifeline is available 24/7 – 13 11 14 Beyondblue is available 24/7 - 1300 224 636 Crisis Care Helpline is available 24/7 – 1800 199 008 Kids Helpline is available 24/7 – 1800 55 1800 RUAH Community Services is available 24/7 - 13 78 24 Online: Head to health online chat - headtohealth.gov.au RUAH Community Services - ruah.org.au or connect@ruah.org.au Links we found useful when researching for this episode: https://www.audhdpsychiatry.co.uk/queerness-and-neurodivergence/ https://neurodivergentinsights.com/trans-autism/ https://www.thetrevorproject.org/research-briefs/mental-health-among-autistic-lgbtq-youth-apr-2022 https://learnfully.com/the-link-between-neurodiversity-and-the-lgbtqia-community https://sparkforautism.org/discover_article/autism-lgbtq-identity/ https://nhsdorset.nhs.uk/neurodiversity/living/lgbtq/ https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/eating-disorders-among-gender-expansive-and-neurodivergent-individuals/202506/the-link-between https://www.audhdpsychiatry.co.uk/queerness-and-neurodivergence/ https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/attention-deficit-disorder-add-or-adhd Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going. A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈

Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast , your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer . In this episode of Let's Be Perfectly Queer , Archie sits down with bisexual horror author and poet Henry Corrigan to explore the fascinating connection between queer identity, horror fiction, mental health and self-acceptance. Henry shares how writing queer horror helped him come to terms with his own sexuality, why horror can be a powerful tool for understanding fear and trauma, and how LGBTQ+ readers often experience horror differently from straight audiences. We also dive into the history of queer representation in horror, the harmful stereotypes that shaped the genre, and how modern queer horror writers are reclaiming those narratives. Plus, Henry discusses his new novel Party of a Lifetime , a supernatural queer horror story about four friends trying to reclaim the prom experience they never got to have. In this episode: How horror helped Henry accept his bisexual identity LGBTQ+ representation in horror fiction Horror and mental health Why queer audiences experience horror differently Reclaiming queer stories and identity Henry's new novel Party of a Lifetime The hidden history of queer literature and horror If you love LGBTQ+ stories, horror books, queer authors, mental health discussions and thought-provoking conversations, this episode is for you. 🎧 Listen now to learn a bit of queer horror history... And until next time, stay perfectly queer! Henry's Links: Instagram: @Henrycorrigan08 Good reads: Henry Corrigan Bloodhound Books: Henry Corrigan Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going. A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈

Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast , your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer . In this episode Archie sits down with Wade Belair to unpack the “golden cage” of privilege, masculinity, and being a gay man in environments where fitting in feels like survival. Wade shares how growing up in wealthy, hyper-masculine country club culture shaped his understanding of masculinity, relationships, and self-worth. Even with loving parents and stability, the pressure to be “one of the boys” left him battling deep internalised shame and fear. In this episode we discuss: The hidden mental health struggles that comes with being gay and privileged. Hyper-masculinity and “boys will be boys” culture Internalised homophobia and self-loathing Toxic relationships and emotional addiction Why privilege doesn’t protect you from shame The pressure to perform masculinity Healing, therapy, and self-acceptance This episode explores a side of queer identity that often gets overlooked, the reality that pain, shame, and identity struggles can exist even when life looks “perfect” from the outside. 🎧 Listen now to to hear Wades honest and vulnerable story... ... And until next time, stay perfectly queer! Links: Instagram: @georgewbelair Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going. A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈

Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast , your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer . In this episode, Katie is back for a chaotic, funny, and surprisingly educational episode full of queer facts, hidden history, and conversations that spiral beautifully out of control. From the accidental creation of San Francisco as a global queer capital to female samurai warriors erased from history, this episode dives into the stories we definitely didn’t learn in school. We also unpack: The rise of homophobic language in schools Australia’s queer animal kingdom Why clownfish completely destroy anti-trans arguments LGBTQ+ history hidden in ancient cultures The Budapest mayor charged for supporting Pride Why language and gender have always evolved And the very important question… does Kirby have a gender? Theres a bit of queer education, and a lot of chaotic conversation, like... “how did we end up talking about monkey arms?” If you love queer history, LGBTQ+ culture, random facts, social commentary, and laughing while learning, this episode is for you. 🎧 Listen now and learn some wonderful facts with us... And until next time, stay perfectly queer! Links that were useful for this episode: Lgbt History Months Facts Stone Age Woman buried like a man Word origin History of the word Girl Gay lovers in Egyptian Tomb Egyptian Tomb Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going. A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈

Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast , your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer . In this episode of Let’s Be Perfectly Queer , we sit down with Heather Hester author, speaker, and host of More Human, More Kind, to talk about something a lot of parents and allies struggle with… fear. Fear of saying the wrong thing. Fear of not understanding. Fear of getting it “wrong.” Heather shares three powerful mindset shifts that can completely change how parents and allies show up for their LGBTQ+ loved ones especially in a world that often feels loud, divided, and overwhelming. We explore:: Why silence can be more harmful than saying the wrong thing The shift from judging to curiosity Why trying to control your child doesn’t work (and what does instead) The game-changing difference between fixing vs validating How to support your child without expecting them to educate you What allyship actually looks like in real, everyday life This episode is honest, practical, and full of those “oh wow… I do that” moments. Whether you’re a parent, partner, or just trying to show up better for the queer people in your life. 💬 If you’ve ever thought “I want to support… but I don’t know how” — this one’s for you. 🎧 Listen now and learn how to be a better ally... And until next time, stay perfectly queer! Heather Hester links: Website: https://www.heatherhester.net/ Podcast: More Human, More Kind Book: Parenting with Pride Substack: https://heatherhester.substack.com/ Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going. A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈

Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast , your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer . In this episode Archie sits down with wellness coach and licensed social worker Devin Scott to unpack something so many LGBTQ+ people experience, but rarely talk about: the exhaustion of masking, code switching, and trying to “belong.” With Devin we unpack what it really means to play the “game of belonging”… and why even when you “win,” it can still feel like something’s missing. If you’ve ever felt exhausted from being “on,” struggled to feel seen even when your life looks successful, or questioned who you really are underneath it all, this conversation is for you. We explore: Why masking and code switching are survival tools for LGBTQ+ people The mental health impact of long-term masking (burnout 👀) Queer perfectionism and the pressure to “fit” everywhere How shame shows up and why it’s not always the enemy The difference between being accepted and actually being seen Where to start if you’re realising you’ve been “playing the game” Because the truth is a lot of us were never taught how to exist as ourselves safely. So we adapted. We performed. We survived. 🎧 Listen now and ask yourself… are you being yourself, or just playing the game of belonging? And until next time, stay perfectly queer! Get in touch with Devin: Email: devin@findyourmeaning.coach Website: https://findyourmeaning.coach/ Instagram: @devinscott.nyc Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going. A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈

Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast , your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer . This week, we’re diving into one of the biggest literary debates of all time: was William Shakespeare gay… or at least queer? From secret lovers to “queer-coded” sonnets, we unpack the theory that Shakespeare may have had romantic or sexual relationships with men, particularly the mysterious “Fair Youth” featured in 126 of his sonnets. We explore: The Fair Youth and who he might have been Shakespeare’s sonnets and their surprisingly queer themes The dramatic portrait theory (involving vandalism and possible heartbreak) Queer themes in plays like Twelfth Night and The Merchant of Venice Why we can’t label historical figures the way we do today We also touch on: Are we uncovering hidden queer history or projecting modern identities onto the past? Because while we may never know Shakespeare’s sexuality for sure, one thing is clear: his work is filled with passion, desire, gender fluidity, and relationships that don’t fit neatly into boxes. Whether you’re a Shakespeare fan, a queer history nerd, or just here for the drama, this episode is packed with fascinating insights, chaotic theories, and a little bit of queer speculation. 🎧 Listen now and decide for yourself, did Shakespeare have a secret gay lover?... and until next time, stay perfectly queer! Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going. A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈

Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast , your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer . In this powerful episode, we sit down with Dr. Anna Baeth and Ellie Roscher , co-authors of Fair Game: Trans Athletes and the Future of Sports , to unpack one of the most heated debates in the world right now: trans athletes in sport . Are transgender athletes “taking over” women’s sports? Are they stealing scholarships and medals? Is it really about fairness and safety, or is something else going on? We break down the biggest lies circulating in the media and politics, and look at what the actual research says. Spoiler: trans athletes make up less than 1% of participants, yet hundreds of laws have been proposed to exclude them. In this episode we explore: The data behind trans athlete participation Why the “fairness” argument doesn’t hold up How moral panic is manufactured The role of patriarchy and capitalism in sport Why controlling trans bodies is part of a bigger political agenda How trans athletes can actually help create a better, more inclusive sporting future We also talk about lived experience, what it feels like to move through sport in a transitioning body, the anxiety around locker rooms, and why movement and play are a human right. This episode is about more than sport. It’s about bodily autonomy, media misinformation, political fear-mongering, and what happens when we actually listen to trans athletes instead of talking about them. If you care about transgender rights, women’s sport, LGBTQIA+ inclusion, or the future of athletics, this is a conversation you need to hear. 🎧 Listen in and find out the truth about trans atheletes in sports... and until next time, stay perfectly queer! ELLIE ROSCHER Social Media Links: Purchase the book: https://thenewpress.org/books/fair-game/?v=eb65bcceaa5f Website: www.ellieroscher.com Instagram: @ellieroscher , https://www.instagram.com/ellieroscher DR. ANNA BAETH Social Media Links: Purchase the book: https://thenewpress.org/books/fair-game/?v=eb65bcceaa5f Website: www.annabaeth.com Instagram: @dr.bae.phd , https://www.instagram.com/dr.bae.phd/ Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going. A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈

Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast , your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer . In this episode of Let’s Be Perfectly Queer , we sit down with playwright, composer and performer Cassie Hamilton , creator of the bold new hyperpop musical A Transgender Woman on the Internet Crying. We dive into what it means to create trans stories for the stage ; loudly, proudly and without compromise. Cassie shares how her own transition shaped her journey in musical theatre, why traditional theatre spaces often exclude trans performers, and how she decided to build the kind of work that showcases transgender people and performers. We talk about: Creating a fully trans cast musical Why hyperpop and trans culture are deeply connected The realities of transitioning as a singer and performer T4T relationships and trans love stories Letting go of perfection and embracing trans joy This is a joyful, honest and funny conversation about art, identity, and making space for trans voices on stage. Whether you love musical theatre, queer art, or want to hear from trans creators changing the industry, this episode is for you. 🎧 Listen in and find out more about this hyperpop hit musical... and until next time, stay perfectly queer! Want more of Cassie Hamilton: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cassievehamilton/ Website: https://cassie-hamilton.com/ Pretty Perfect Track: https://open.spotify.com/track/37iZ0XGomDXAPxvd75qX0J?si=012ab3973bbf45a9 Melbourne tickets (concert preview version: https://www.ticketmaster.com.au/a-transgender-woman-on-the-internet-crying-in-concert-melbourne-26-02-2026/event/25006397E8A96970 Sydney tickets (From $29.70): https://tickets.iwannaticket.com.au/event/fair-play-copy-txnbty?eventId=691bc02fcd7b825a613f790f Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going. A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈

Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast , your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer . In this episode, we dive into a fascinating and often forgotten part of queer history: female husbands of the 18th and 19th centuries. These were people assigned female at birth who lived as men, married women, and built lives that challenged the rigid gender norms of their time. We explore real historical cases, what the term “female husband” meant in its historical context, and how these stories connect to modern conversations about gender identity, trans history, and queer survival. And what can their lives teach us about how gender has always been more complex than society admits? This episode unpacks: What “female husbands” were in historical records How people navigated gender and identity before modern labels The risks and consequences they faced How queer and trans history has been recorded (and erased) Why these stories still matter today If you love queer history, transgender history, and LGBTQIA+ stories that challenge what we think we know about the past, this episode is for you. Because queer history didn’t start recently, it’s always been here. 🎧 Listen in and find out more about the female husbands... and until next time, stay perfectly queer! Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going. A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈

Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast , your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer . In this bonus recap episode of Let’s Be Perfectly Queer , Archie revisits our earlier episode on queer-friendly travel destinations and asks the big question: where is actually safe for LGBTQ+ travellers in 2026? Using updated global data, we break down the top 10 safest countries , the 10 most dangerous places to visit. This episode also explores: The safest countries for LGBTQ+ travellers in 2026 Countries where queer travellers face serious legal danger Why some popular destinations fall into the “yellow zone” LGBTQ+ friendly cities vs. national laws Real-world travel safety experiences (including airports and stopovers) Resources every queer traveller should check before booking a trip Whether you’re planning an overseas holiday, travelling for work, or just curious about how LGBTQ+ rights are shifting globally, this episode is for you. 🎧 Listen in and find out how the ranking has changed in the last 2 years... and until next time, stay perfectly queer! List of resources we found helpful this time: https://spartacus.gayguide.travel/gaytravelindex.pdf https://spartacus.gayguide.travel/blog/spartacus-gay-travel-index-2025/ https://www.lonelyplanet.com/articles/most-gay-friendly-cities List of resources we found helpful last time: https://www.asherfergusson.com/lgbtq-travel-safety/ https://www.dw.com/en/top-10-most-queer-friendly-travel-destinations/g-60946425 https://www.lonelyplanet.com/articles/most-gay-friendly-countries https://www.forbes.com/sites/laurabegleybloom/2023/03/07/most-homophobic-countries-lgbtq-friendly-gay-travel-dangerous-places/?sh=42337be72276 https://www.iglta.org/ - LGBTQ+ Travel friendly guides Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going. A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈

Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast , your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer . To wrap up a huge season, we ditch the script entirely and spin a wheel of random, funny, and unexpectedly deep queer questions . From pop culture hot takes to queer nostalgia, internet debates, and reflecting on our own experiences, this episode is about ending the season on a lighter, more playful note, without ignoring the real conversations that matter. In this finale episode, we chat about: Whether you can be queer and still support JK Rowling If Taylor Swift is a queer icon or just brilliant at marketing Straight actors playing queer roles, does it matter? Queer childhood crushes and why they say so much about us Why lesbians love carabiners The queerest animals, drag names we never used, and chaotic pop culture opinions After a year filled with big conversations about queer history, trans rights, misinformation, media narratives, and politics, this episode was a lighter take on everything that is happening out there right now. No prep. No rules. Just two queer hosts, a spinning wheel, what could possibly go wrong? Thank you for supporting us through Season 3...and until next time, we hope we’ve been perfectly queer 🌈 Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going. A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈

Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast , your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer . In this week’s episode of Let’s Be Perfectly Queer Podcast , we dive into Polari , the secret language used by gay men, drag performers, theatre performers and queer communities across Britain before homosexuality was decriminalised. This hidden language wasn’t just camp fun, it was a tool for safety, identity, and resistance in a world where being queer could land you in prison. Polari wasn’t just slang, it was survival! We explore: Where Polari came from — from theatre slang to sailor speak to criminal cant How queer people used it to avoid police and persecution Iconic Polari words (vada, bona, eek, nanti, zhoosh) and what they actually mean Why queer-coded languages appear in oppressed communities worldwide Why Polari matters today — and how it keeps resurfacing in pop culture, drag, and queer history This episode is a fun, campy, heartfelt celebration of queer resilience, language, and the ways LGBTQ+ communities have always found ways to stay connected even in the shadows. If you’re a history nerd, a linguistics lover, or just fabulosa at heart… this one’s for you. 🎧 Listen in and learn a secret language with us... and until next time, stay perfectly queer! Links we found useful when creating this episode: https://www.lancaster.ac.uk/staff/bakerjp/polari/home.htm https://www.liverpoolmuseums.org.uk/stories/polari-and-hidden-history-of-gay-seafarers https://www.bbc.com/culture/article/20180212-polari-the-code-language-gay-men-used-to-survive https://www.out.com/media/polari-secret-gay-language-explained-words-list-definitions https://lithub.com/the-feints-and-jabs-of-polari-britains-gay-slang/ https://yourdandi.co.uk/polari-the-secret-gay-language/ https://wp.lancs.ac.uk/fabulosa/whats-polari/ Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going. A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈

Send us a message Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast , your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer . In this episode, we sit down with advocate, author and podcaster Todd Rennebohm to unpack one of Canada’s most heated political battlegrounds: Saskatchewan’s so-called “trans agenda.” Todd, a white cisgender straight man walks us through the province’s recent policies targeting transgender students, the backlash against queer-inclusive education, and how far-right rhetoric is shaping school environments across Canada. We dig into what’s actually happening on the ground, the dangerous myths driving these laws, and why families, teachers, and allies are pushing back. From lawsuits and “parental rights” arguments to the weaponisation of misinformation, Todd discusses who is really behind this movement and his podcast series Transgression - My Search For the REAL Trans Agenda in Saskatchewan. 🌈 We also explore: Saskatchewan’s pronoun policies and their real impact on students How anti-trans narratives mirror global political strategies Why “protecting children” is being used to harm queer youth What allies can do to support trans students in hostile school systems The power of local activism & queer community resilience This conversation isn’t just about Saskatchewan, it’s about a global tactic to erase trans lives. And Todd is here to help us understand it, challenge it, and build something better. 🎧 Listen in and learn how misinformation becomes policy and how we can stop it... and until next time, stay perfectly queer! Archie & Katie 🌈 Todd Rennebohm's Links: Transgression My Search For the REAL Trans Agenda in Saskatchewan Bunny Hugs and Mental Health Podcast Sometimes Daddy Cries Book Transgression Series Instagram Bunny hugs podcast instagram Support the show Patreon: If you love what we would do and would like to support the show it is only $1.13 Aud a month to help keep this podcast going. A big heartfelt thank you from us for all your support! It means the world to us. Much love Archie & Katie 🌈