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Send us Fan Mail What if the life you want isn’t something you need to chase—but something you become available for? In this episode, we bring together identity, nervous system regulation, confidence, attention, embodiment, and conscious action. This episode explores the difference between chasing from a place of “not enough” and creating from alignment, purpose, and self-trust. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why growth often requires letting go of an old identity The difference between trying and practicing How confidence is built by collecting evidence Why courage doesn’t require fear to disappear What authentic, embodied leadership really looks like Why congruence creates trust and magnetism How your perception shapes your choices—and your life Why transformation happens one conscious decision at a time The life you’re looking for isn’t waiting somewhere in the future. It begins with the person you choose to be today. GET COACHED RETREAT WITH ME HANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHING FOLLOW: @eleonora.gendelman @bendingreality.pod @elevert.coaching @elevert.method @elevision.retreats If this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further! Let’s bend reality together! Web Instagram Facebook YouTube

Send us Fan Mail What if your attention is one of the most powerful forces shaping your life? In this episode of Bending Reality , we explore how the people, conversations, content, thoughts, and environments you repeatedly expose yourself to become part of your inner world—and why protecting your attention is essential for clarity, confidence, creativity, and growth. From Vipassana meditation and neuroscience to handstands, coaching, and everyday habits, this episode is an invitation to become more intentional about what you allow to shape you. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why your attention is one of your most valuable resources How repeated thoughts and experiences strengthen neural pathways Why constant stimulation can disconnect you from your own intuition How observation creates space between thoughts and reactions Why familiarity can make limiting beliefs feel true How your environment influences your identity and nervous system Why silence creates space for creativity and clarity How to consciously choose what deserves your energy Where your attention goes, your energy follows. And where your energy goes, your life follows. GET COACHED RETREAT WITH ME HANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHING FOLLOW: @eleonora.gendelman @bendingreality.pod @elevert.coaching @elevert.method @elevision.retreats If this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further! Let’s bend reality together! Web Instagram Facebook YouTube

Send us Fan Mail What if confidence isn’t something you need before you take action—but something you build because you take action? In this episode of Bending Reality , we explore why waiting until you feel ready can keep you stuck, and how confidence is created through repetition, courage, visualization, and small daily actions. From handstands and neuroplasticity to career changes, business, movement, and identity, this episode is about becoming the person capable of creating the life you want. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why readiness is something you create, not something you wait for How confidence is built through action and repetition How neuroplasticity helps your brain adapt to new experiences Why visualization can prepare your nervous system for possibility How you may be unconsciously rehearsing fear and failure Why your physiology influences your psychology How small actions become evidence for a new identity Why the person you become matters more than the goal itself You don’t become confident before you begin. You become confident because you begin. GET COACHED RETREAT WITH ME HANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHING FOLLOW: @eleonora.gendelman @bendingreality.pod @elevert.coaching @elevert.method @elevision.retreats If this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further! Let’s bend reality together! Web Instagram Facebook YouTube

Send us Fan Mail What if the reason you keep repeating the same patterns isn’t a lack of motivation or discipline—but your nervous system returning to what feels familiar? In this episode of Bending Reality , we explore how your nervous system shapes your perception, reactions, decisions, and ultimately the reality you create. From handstands and coaching to breathwork, embodiment, stress, and a 10-day Vipassana retreat, this episode is about learning to regulate your state so you can respond consciously instead of automatically repeating old patterns. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why familiar doesn’t always mean safe or good How your nervous system can resist change and uncertainty Why mindset alone isn’t always enough How stress changes your perception and decision-making Why breath can create space between stimulus and response How embodiment helps you access clarity Why your internal state is trainable Three questions to help you become more intentional about the state you practice every day You don’t create your life from your thoughts alone. You create it from the state you live in most consistently. GET COACHED RETREAT WITH ME HANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHING FOLLOW: @eleonora.gendelman @bendingreality.pod @elevert.coaching @elevert.method @elevision.retreats If this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further! Let’s bend reality together! Web Instagram Facebook YouTube

Send us Fan Mail What if your current reality isn’t actually reality—but a reflection of who you believe yourself to be? In this episode of Bending Reality , we explore how identity shapes perception, decisions, confidence, and ultimately the life we create. From leaving the fashion industry and travelling the world to handstands, coaching, nervous system regulation, and a 10-day Vipassana retreat, this episode is about learning to outgrow old versions of yourself and consciously choose who you’re becoming. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why your identity shapes what you notice and believe is possible How your brain filters reality through your existing beliefs Why changing your environment doesn’t necessarily change your life How your body and nervous system reinforce identity Why confidence can begin before you have evidence How to create space between stimulus and response Three powerful questions to help you consciously shape your next chapter Your life changes twice: first internally, then externally. GET COACHED RETREAT WITH ME HANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHING FOLLOW: @eleonora.gendelman @bendingreality.pod @elevert.coaching @elevert.method @elevision.retreats If this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further! Let’s bend reality together! Web Instagram Facebook YouTube

Send us Fan Mail Body Intelligence How Your Physical Mastery Reveals Your Leadership Patterns Your body reveals how you respond to pressure, fear, uncertainty and challenge—often before your mind does. In this episode of Bending Reality , Eleonora explores how movement, breath, posture and tension can expose your leadership patterns. A handstand may reveal where you rush, hesitate, freeze, hold back or struggle to trust yourself. You will learn: Why the body tells the truth How movement mirrors the way you live Why balance is often about trust How changing your body can change your mind Why failure is feedback, not identity How physical practice builds self-leadership Your body is not your limitation. It is your teacher. Your body isn’t just carrying your story. It’s showing you how to rewrite it. GET COACHED RETREAT WITH ME HANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHING FOLLOW: @eleonora.gendelman @bendingreality.pod @elevert.coaching @elevert.method @elevision.retreats If this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further! Let’s bend reality together! Web Instagram Facebook YouTube

Send us Fan Mail Episode 118: The Art of Micro-Wins: Why Daily Physical Practice Shapes the High Performer What if the biggest transformation in your life started with the smallest daily action? In this episode of Bending Reality , I explore why lasting success isn't built through motivation or giant breakthroughs—it's built through micro-wins . Learn how daily physical practice shapes your identity, rewires your brain, builds self-trust, and helps you become the person you want to be, one small promise at a time. In this episode: Why micro-wins create extraordinary results How movement builds discipline and confidence The power of consistency over motivation Why today's practice becomes tomorrow's identity GET COACHED RETREAT WITH ME HANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHING FOLLOW: @eleonora.gendelman @bendingreality.pod @elevert.coaching @elevert.method @elevision.retreats If this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further! Let’s bend reality together! Web Instagram Facebook YouTube

Send us Fan Mail Fear isn't what holds us back—it's the meaning we attach to it. In this episode of Bending Reality , Eleonora explores how learning handstands became a powerful lesson in self-trust, courage, and personal growth. She shares why we're often more afraid of what failure says about us than failure itself, how the nervous system responds to uncertainty, and why courage is built through action rather than overthinking. In this episode, we cover: Why fear is often psychological, not physical What handstands teach us about self-trust and resilience How the nervous system responds to uncertainty Why identity is stronger than motivation Reframing failure as feedback and growth The connection between fear, excitement, and mindset How curiosity helps us move beyond fear and create lasting change GET COACHED RETREAT WITH ME HANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHING FOLLOW: @eleonora.gendelman @bendingreality.pod @elevert.coaching @elevert.method @elevision.retreats If this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further! Let’s bend reality together! Web Instagram Facebook YouTube

Send us Fan Mail Episode 116: Upside Down Leadership – How Handstands Build Fearless Decision-Makers What if the greatest leadership lesson isn't found in a boardroom—but upside down? In this episode, Eleonora explores how learning handstands became a masterclass in courage, consistency, emotional regulation, and self-leadership. Discover the neuroscience of fear, why confidence is built through repetition, and how every challenge shapes the person you're becoming. Because it's never just about the handstand. It's about becoming someone who keeps promises to themselves. In this episode: Why leadership begins with leading yourself The neuroscience of fear and uncertainty How consistency creates confidence Identity over achievement What handstands reveal about your mindset Why returning to the basics is often the fastest way forward The impossible isn't something you wait for. It's something you practise. GET COACHED RETREAT WITH ME HANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHING FOLLOW: @eleonora.gendelman @bendingreality.pod @elevert.coaching @elevert.method @elevision.retreats If this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further! Let’s bend reality together! Web Instagram Facebook YouTube

Send us Fan Mail The Truth About Sales Nobody Taught You: Service, and the Art of Changing Lives with Joe Marcoux. What if sales isn't about convincing people? What if it's about curiosity, connection, and helping people make decisions that are aligned with what they truly want? In this episode, I sit down with Joe Marcoux, founder of SOS Dojo, to challenge some of the biggest misconceptions around sales, money, communication, and service. In this episode, you will learn: • Why you're already selling every day • How communication creates opportunities, relationships, and income • Why curiosity is one of the most powerful skills you can develop • How emotions drive decisions and human behavior • The difference between influence and manipulation • Why talented people struggle to communicate their value • How sales can become an act of service • The mindset shifts that create more freedom, impact, and abundance If you're a coach, entrepreneur, creative, leader, or someone with something valuable to offer the world, this conversation is for you. Because the question isn't whether you're selling. The question is whether you're doing it consciously. Connect with Joe: https://www.instagram.com/realjoemarcoux/ https://sosdojo.com/ joe@sosdojo.com GET COACHED RETREAT WITH ME HANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHING FOLLOW: @eleonora.gendelman @bendingreality.pod @elevert.coaching @elevert.method @elevision.retreats If this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further! Let’s bend reality together! Web Instagram Facebook YouTube

Send us Fan Mail Your day does not begin with what happens to you. It begins with what you choose to believe. In this episode, we explore the power of your morning state, the role of assumption, and how your inner world quietly directs everything you experience. This is not about forcing outcomes. It’s about becoming the version of you for whom things already work out. You will learn in this episode: Why the first minutes of your morning are the most powerful part of your day How your state of being creates your external reality The difference between hoping for something and living from it Why assumption comes before proof — and how to use it intentionally How to stop reacting to circumstances and start directing your experience What it truly means to trust that everything is working in your favor How to embody fulfillment before it appears in your life Key Takeaways: Your reality reflects your inner state, not the other way around The feeling you accept in the morning sets the tone for your entire day What you assume to be true will eventually become your experience You don’t need evidence to feel aligned — alignment creates evidence Circumstances are echoes of past states, not permanent truths Living from the end removes pressure, doubt, and waiting Trusting the process stabilizes your mindset and elevates your actions You are not here to react to life. You are here to choose the state from which life unfolds. Decide it in the morning. Return to it throughout the day. And watch everything begin to align. GET COACHED RETREAT WITH ME HANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHING FOLLOW: @eleonora.gendelman @bendingreality.pod @elevert.coaching @elevert.method @elevision.retreats If this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further! Let’s bend reality together! Web Instagram Facebook YouTube

Send us Fan Mail This episode is a powerful reminder that your day — and your life — does not begin with circumstances. It begins within you. Before the world speaks to you, you are already setting the tone. Your state, your assumptions, and your inner dialogue quietly shape everything that follows. In this episode, we explore how to consciously step into the role of creator — instead of reacting to what is already a reflection of past thinking. You will learn in this episode: Why the first minutes of your morning define the entire trajectory of your day How your inner state becomes the cause, and your external reality the effect The difference between hoping for something and living from it Why assumption always comes before proof — and how to use it intentionally How to stop reacting to circumstances and start directing them The real meaning of “everything is working in your favor” — even when it doesn’t look like it How to shift from waiting for results to embodying them now Key Takeaways: Your reality is not created by what you see — it reflects what you believe The morning is your most powerful moment to choose your identity and state What you assume to be true will eventually harden into fact You don’t get what you want — you experience what you embody Circumstances are not fixed; they are echoes of past states Living from the end dissolves anxiety, pressure, and the need to control Trusting that everything works in your favor stabilizes your mindset and elevates your actions You are not here to react to life. You are here to decide the state from which life unfolds. Choose it deliberately. Persist in it. And watch reality align. GET COACHED RETREAT WITH ME HANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHING FOLLOW: @eleonora.gendelman @bendingreality.pod @elevert.coaching @elevert.method @elevision.retreats If this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further! Let’s bend reality together! Web Instagram Facebook YouTube

Send us Fan Mail Episode Overview What if the life you want isn’t something to chase, but something to become? In this episode, you’ll learn how shifting your internal state—from wanting to having—changes what you experience externally. Your reality is not the cause. It’s the reflection. You Will Learn Why your external world reflects your internal state The difference between wanting and being Why acting as if is an identity shift, not pretending How feelings drive results more than thoughts How to stop reacting to lack and start living from fulfillment How to shift your inner dialogue to support your reality Key Takeaways The outer world is an echo of your inner state Life responds to who you are, not what you say Feeling is what creates, not just thinking You must assume before you see evidence Fulfillment attracts, need pushes away Reflection Who would you be if everything was already done? Work With Me Book a complimentary coaching session to identify what’s holding you back and step into your next level. Link below: GET COACHED RETREAT WITH ME HANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHING FOLLOW: @eleonora.gendelman @bendingreality.pod @elevert.coaching @elevert.method @elevision.retreats If this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further! Let’s bend reality together! Web Instagram Facebook YouTube

Send us Fan Mail Your environment is shaping your life more than your willpower ever could. In this episode, we explore one of the most overlooked forces behind behavior, habits, and identity: your environment . Most people believe they struggle with discipline, motivation, or consistency. But the truth is often much simpler — and far more empowering. Your nervous system is constantly responding to the signals around you. The spaces you live in, the cues you see, and the energy of your environment quietly guide your decisions, habits, and emotional state. When your environment is designed for distraction, urgency, or stress, your behavior follows. But when your environment supports clarity, regulation, and intention, your behavior begins to align naturally with the life you want to create. In this episode, you will learn: • Why your environment influences your behavior more than motivation or discipline • How your nervous system scans your surroundings and shapes your daily decisions • Why habits follow design — not desire • How your space is reinforcing either your past identity or your future self • Practical tools to design an environment that makes your desired behaviors easier and more natural • Why nervous system regulation is the foundation of consistency and sustainable habits • How to stay aligned with your identity even when traveling or entering new environments You will also hear personal reflections from my recent travels and how being in unfamiliar environments revealed just how strongly our surroundings influence our habits, food choices, routines, and identity. Thriving people don’t fight their environment. They design it. And when you intentionally shape your surroundings, life begins to feel lighter — because the environment starts supporting the person you are becoming. GET COACHED RETREAT WITH ME HANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHING FOLLOW: @eleonora.gendelman @bendingreality.pod @elevert.coaching @elevert.method @elevision.retreats If this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further! Let’s bend reality together! Web Instagram Facebook YouTube

Send us Fan Mail We say we want freedom. But what if the way you define freedom is quietly keeping you stuck? In this episode, we dismantle the illusion that freedom means “no rules, no structure, no limits.” Because that version often leads to chaos, impulsivity, and exhaustion. You will learn: Why impulse is not freedom — and what real freedom actually is How discipline protects freedom instead of restricting it The difference between reacting and consciously choosing Why silence, boundaries, and structure increase your power How to redefine freedom in a way that expands your life True freedom is not escape. It’s self-trust. It’s sovereignty. It’s the ability to stay grounded in yourself — anywhere. This episode will challenge your definition of freedom — and help you build one that actually sets you free. GET COACHED RETREAT WITH ME HANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHING FOLLOW: @eleonora.gendelman @bendingreality.pod @elevert.coaching @elevert.method @elevision.retreats If this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further! Let’s bend reality together! Web Instagram Facebook YouTube

Send us Fan Mail Wouldn’t it be amazing to be disciplined all the time? Here’s the truth: you don’t actually want more discipline. You want to become the kind of person who no longer needs it. In this episode, you will learn : Why discipline is a temporary tool — not a personality trait How habits shape identity (and why identity shapes your entire life) Why resistance is a sign of growth, not weakness The difference between forcing yourself and training yourself How to design your environment so discipline becomes effortless The 5 practical tools to move from effort → habit → embodiment This episode will shift the way you see willpower, burnout, and motivation forever. Because discipline isn’t who you are. It’s how you become. GET COACHED RETREAT WITH ME HANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHING FOLLOW: @eleonora.gendelman @bendingreality.pod @elevert.coaching @elevert.method @elevision.retreats If this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further! Let’s bend reality together! Web Instagram Facebook YouTube

Send us Fan Mail Step into the most elevated, expanded version of yourself. This guided meditation is designed to help you embody your future self through visualization, emotion, and presence. Allow your body to become the vessel of that transformation. This meditation goes beyond mindset — it taps into identity-level transformation . You’re not just imagining your future self. You’re becoming her. Feeling as her. Breathing as her. Stepping into her world and letting her world become yours. Perfect for mornings, before important decisions, during transitions, or anytime you want to realign with the version of you who leads, expands, and creates from possibility. Take a breath. Step into your vision. Become the woman your future self already knows you are. GET COACHED RETREAT WITH ME HANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHING FOLLOW: @eleonora.gendelman @bendingreality.pod @elevert.coaching @elevert.method @elevision.retreats If this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further! Let’s bend reality together! Web Instagram Facebook YouTube

Send us Fan Mail Patience isn’t passive—it’s one of the most active forces in the universe. Every moment you’ve chosen faith over doubt, gratitude over worry, and vision over circumstances has been reshaping your reality beneath the surface. Now, the floodgates of your manifestations are opening—and who you’ve become through patience is the true masterpiece. In this episode, you will learn: Why patience is not waiting but active creation in disguise How to recognize subtle signs that your manifestations are already unfolding The difference between forcing outcomes vs. becoming someone who naturally attracts them How to maintain alignment when opportunities, challenges, or doubts arise Why gratitude, consistency, and living as your future self accelerate your manifestations This is your guide to transforming patience into power and stepping into the state where you don’t just manifest—you become manifestation itself! GET COACHED RETREAT WITH ME HANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHING FOLLOW: @eleonora.gendelman @bendingreality.pod @elevert.coaching @elevert.method @elevision.retreats If this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further! Let’s bend reality together! Web Instagram Facebook YouTube

Send us Fan Mail 95% of your day is lived on autopilot—thinking the same thoughts, feeling the same emotions, and repeating the same habits. Real transformation begins when you break free from these unconscious programs and start living as your future self, not your past. In this episode, you will learn: How to catch yourself in the act of being your old self The role of the Observer Self in rewiring thoughts, emotions, and behaviors Why gratitude and heart coherence are powerful tools for transformation How to align your energy frequency with love, success, and abundance Why small, consistent choices create compound transformation over time This is your guide to stepping out of autopilot and consciously creating a new personal reality! GET COACHED RETREAT WITH ME HANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHING FOLLOW: @eleonora.gendelman @bendingreality.pod @elevert.coaching @elevert.method @elevision.retreats If this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further! Let’s bend reality together! Web Instagram Facebook YouTube

Send us Fan Mail Real transformation doesn’t come from imitation and copying someone's formula for success. It comes from creating new neural pathways, reshaping your beliefs, and embodying the future version of yourself today. In this episode, you will learn: Why copying others keeps you stuck in the same patterns How your brain rewires itself through thoughts, emotions, and behaviors The difference between your survival brain and your creative brain How to use mental rehearsal to install the “software” of your future self Why elevated emotions like gratitude and love are the key to transformation This episode is your reminder that you don’t need permission, validation, or someone else’s system—you already carry the most powerful technology in the universe: your consciousness! GET COACHED RETREAT WITH ME HANDSTANDS & INVERSIONS COACHING FOLLOW: @eleonora.gendelman @bendingreality.pod @elevert.coaching @elevert.method @elevision.retreats If this episode lit something up in you — please share & leave a review—it helps amplify the message and ripple the magic further! Let’s bend reality together! Web Instagram Facebook YouTube