Adulting with Horses

Hey horse girls, happy bonus day! In this episode of AWH Clubhouse LIVE, we (Heather Wallace, Natalie Keller Reinert, and Ashley K. Winch) dive into the whirlwind of life that comes with juggling responsibilities, friendships, and, of course, our beloved horses. Heather shares the chaos of her kids starting school, with sports activities colliding in a perfect storm of scheduling madness. We're joined by special guest and IRL author and podcast bestie, Sarah Welk Baynum! Introducing the Not So Safe Word Before bringing in their guest, the trio introduces a fun twist: a not-so-safe word. "Our not so safe word for today's episode is bestie ," Ashley announces, prompting laughter and a toast. Every time the word is mentioned, a sip is taken, adding a playful element to the discussion. In a world where life can feel overwhelming, this episode serves as a reminder to cherish the moments of joy, laughter, and companionship. Take a moment to unwind, sip your drink, and join us for this delightful chat. Until next time, keep celebrating the beautiful mess that is life! For more hearty laughs and engaging stories, tune into the full video episode on our Patreon! Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Heather and Natalie dive into the unexpected challenges of equestrian adventures, particularly during Heather's recent trip to Iceland. From tech mishaps to the trials of riding a particularly wide horse, their conversation is both humorous and relatable. The episode kicks off with a lighthearted exchange about the absurdities of AI giving personal advice to Natalie. Heather describes her recent tour in Iceland, where she found herself leading a group of riders of all skill levels. "It was like an adrenaline rush, such a good group of people," she shares. However, day two brought unexpected challenges when she encountered a horse that was a bit too wide for comfort. The Dangers of Riding a Potato Heather humorously refers to her horse as a "potato" due to its wide saddle, which led to some intense muscle spasms. "I was struggling to breathe... my muscles locked up," she recalls. The conversation shifts to the broader issue of horse breeding, with Natalie chiming in about the discomfort that wide horses can cause for riders. For more stories and insights, tune into the full episode where laughter and learning abound! Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Join Heather and Natalie in this episode presented by Farnum Endure Gold Killer Fly & Mosquito Control as they battle the heat (and the hum of the emergency AC unit) during Natalie's trip to New Jersey. Ferrous gets a fan club of one, Natalie confuses the horses, and Heather makes Natalie question whether she might need a barn family of her own. To be fair, she is quite good and getting people to question their lives. In this episode: Heather's unexpected guest (a.k.a. her horse Ferrous) and their humorous antics The hilarious misunderstanding about horse names and personalities Pony meeting tales and the surprises of horse personality quirks Behind the scenes of a Maryland book signing and the vibrant local market scene The charm and chaos of pet care, including cats' independence and horses' sensitivities Practical tips on managing animal health and environmental concerns The joy of sharing farm and horse life with friends and future plans Lighthearted banter about household chores, laundry fails, and favorite adulting wins The episode concludes with garden fantasies, flower updates, and estate zonings Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

On this episode of the Adulting with Horses podcast, join us as we share hilarious stories from garden mishaps, epic travel adventures from Saratoga to Saugerties, and behind-the-scenes tales from the HITS horse show circuit. This episode will keep you laughing while offering insights into our crazy equestrian life. Main Topics: Personal stories of accidents and recovery Travel adventures including wildfires, storms, and cross-border escapes Insights into horse show experiences, trainer quirks, and rider tips Adulting wins—celebrating small victories amidst chaos Upcoming book signings, fairs, and the upcoming cruise Resources & Links: Maryland Equestrian Book & Market Fair Cruise to the Caribbean - Book Today Connect with the Hosts: Natalie Keller Reinert - Twitter | LinkedIn Heather Wallace - Instagram | Website Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

In this episode brought to you by Farnum Endure Gold Killer Fly & Mosquito Control , Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert explore the challenges and opportunities in the equestrian industry, focusing on boarding facilities, costs, sustainability, and innovative solutions to keep the sport accessible and thriving. Keywords equestrian industry, boarding facilities, horse boarding costs, sustainability, horse sport economics, horse community, equestrian business models Key Topics The rising costs of horse boarding and its impact on riders Innovative boarding models like dry stalls and self-care options The importance of community and collaboration in the horse industry Economic challenges faced by large and small barns Potential for nonprofit and grassroots initiatives to support amateurs The influence of real estate and land ownership on facility sustainability The role of regulation, licensing, and legal issues in boarding facilities Strategies for affordability and accessibility in horse sports Upcoming Events: August 1, 2027, Equestrian Book Market and Fair with Natalie and Heather. August 1, 2026 from 11am to 2pm. Rutledge Ridge Farm: 2301 Rutledge Road, Fallston, MD 21047. Join us and other amazing authors! November 12-15 Equine Affaire, MA . Adulting with Horses Podcast booth in the Better Living Center. August 20, 2027 "Hijinks on the High Seas" Cruise with Heather and Natalie. Register here . (Horse husbands very welcome!) Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

On this LIVE bonus episode of the Adulting with Horses podcast, Heather and Natalie join with their podcast bestie, Ashley K. Winch and Sandy and Cara from Saddle Talk, newly on the HRN network. Buckle up, folks! Today's episode is a cocktail of hilarious adulting adventures, horse tales, ghost exorcisms, and enough sarcasm to keep your spirits high. If laughter, good friends, and a little bit of horse chaos sound like your jam, this one's a must-listen. In this episode: The chaos of Thursday night with kittens and cats conspiring against productivity Secret game reveal: drink every time someone says the magic word "hint it begins with an 'F'" Horse talk, Mustangs, and the art of turning bad decisions into epic adventures Spooky ghost tales and haunted houses, complete with flaming tornadoes and uninvited spirits Drinking, dating, and the hilarious truths about podcasting and friendship goals How to build a community without buying followers, just pure authenticity The scoop on upcoming horse radio network cruises and plans for Montana dude ranches The art of social media burnout and how to keep it real while promoting your passion Special Note: Stay tuned for that upcoming cruise! Book now, bring your friends, and prepare for two days at sea, Bimini, and plenty of margaritas.<|endofshow_notes|> Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Show Notes: The Canter Is a Four-Letter Word This episode is brought to you by pure chaos, cruise dreams, and the emotional journey back into the canter. Natalie and Heather kick things off with the kind of live, slightly unhinged energy only horse people can sustain before coffee fully kicks in. They share big news about their upcoming “Hijinx on the High Seas” cruise, a five-night adventure packed with theme nights, happy hours, games, prizes, and all the shenanigans a horse-loving adult could want away from the barn. Then the conversation turns to the real beast of the episode: cantering. Why does it suddenly feel scarier in adulthood than it ever did before? Natalie and Heather unpack the mental blocks, balance issues, fitness struggles, horse behavior, and the deeply relatable experience of feeling like your body and your brain are both negotiating terms with gravity. They also remind us that sometimes the horse is doing exactly what they should be doing, and we’re the ones falling apart at the seams. In this episode: Cruise announcement: “Hijinx on the High Seas” Why cantering feels harder as an adult amateur Balance, confidence, and rebuilding riding fitness Adulting wins: AC survival, dinner mishaps, and bargain burgers If you’ve ever thought, “I used to love this gait, why am I suddenly terrified of it?” this one’s for you. Upcoming Events: July 15, 2027 Impressions of Saratoga with Natalie. Learn more . August 1, 2027, Equestrian Book Market and Fair with Natalie and Heather. August 1, 2026 from 11am to 2pm. Rutledge Ridge Farm: 2301 Rutledge Road, Fallston, MD 21047. Join us and other amazing authors! November 12-15 Equine Affaire, MA . Adulting with Horses Podcast booth in the Better Living Center. August 20, 2027 "Hijinks on the High Seas" Cruise with Heather and Natalie. Register here . (Horse husbands very welcome!) Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Behind the Scenes of a Writer’s Life: One Coffee Spill at a Time Ever tried writing a novel between horse quarantines and housekeeper surprises? Welcome to the anthology of chaos, caffeine, and creativity! In this bonus episode of Adulting with Horses, you’ll learn how two authors navigate the wilds of writerly life — from the perils of distraction to the magic of whimsical garden spaces. In this episode, we discuss: How daily distractions — dogs, housekeepers, and the ocean — fuel or hinder writing progress The importance of hobbies outside of writing, from craft projects to garden adventures How to carve out those rare, precious two-hour writing blocks in a busy life The mental and physical toll of juggling multiple projects, from books to Cruise Ship gift exchanges The power of whimsy to keep creativity alive when life gets real Real talk about the grind, including timelines for books and the realities of editing and revisions Upcoming Events: July 15, 2027 Impressions of Saratoga with Natalie. Learn more . August 1, 2027, Equestrian Book Market and Fair with Natalie and Heather. August 1, 2026 from 11am to 2pm. Rutledge Ridge Farm: 2301 Rutledge Road, Fallston, MD 21047. Join us and other amazing authors! November 12-15 Equine Affaire, MA . Adulting with Horses Podcast booth in the Better Living Center. August 20, 2027 "Hijinks on the High Seas" Cruise with Heather and Natalie. Register here . (Horse husbands very welcome!) Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Ready for a wild ride through the mundane and the magnificent? In this episode, Heather and Natalie explore everything from garden surprises to the joys (and chaos) of horse shows. Plus, how to survive the wild world of adulting without losing your mind. Expect laughs, lightbulb moments, and plenty of equine insights sprinkled with a healthy dose of humor. Key Topics Covered: The joys of chaos gardening and accidental plant discoveries Real talk about horse show anxiety and the magic of persistence Balancing responsibilities, passions, and social lives as adult horse enthusiasts The surprisingly meditative nature of horses' daily routines Why daydreaming about trips and horse shows is actually good for mental health The absurdity (and necessity) of braiding and show prep How to manage anxiety, expectations, and maintaining authenticity around horses Offbeat insights into the lives of cats, dogs, and other beloved companions while traveling Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Ever wonder what your horses really think? Or how a trip to Alaska turned into a real-life reality show? Buckle up, because this episode is part confessional, part how-to, with a healthy sprinkle of "wait, did that really just happen?" In this episode: The power of authenticity and ditching "book event Heather" for your real self The wild, weird, and wonderful world of horse care, from hoof drama to boundary setting The importance of book cover control and keeping your sanity in the horse world Timestamps: 00:00 - Why the first words out of your mouth matter more than you think 00:10 - From Patreon to OnlyFans: the weird world of online content 00:45 - Authenticity wins: lessons from trips, conferences, and real life 01:55 - How I turned a tired horse trip into a confidence booster 05:52 - You’re not a celebrity, but you can feel like one (sometimes) 09:05 - When books, booties, and beefy men all collide: the art of cover veto rights 11:00 - Shopping, leather jackets, and feeling fabulous (horse included) 13:00 - Alaska adventures: wildlife, native tribes, and being Raven or Eagle in the clan 15:00 - Land clearing chaos: the truth about debris, permits, and wildlife disturbances 17:00 - The surprising mental health benefits of a simple 20-minute walk with your horse 19:30 - The crazy stalker stories that remind us: horse world is full of surprises 22:00 - Horse care horror stories: hoof abscesses from crazy weather and fill-in vets 24:00 - How to handle unresponsive farriers and landmines in your schedule 28:00 - Why regulation matters and how to maintain control over your horse’s image 33:00 - The race for the perfect horse cover (with a pee picture to prove it) 37:00 - Protect your horses from chaos: the importance of boundaries & leadership 42:00 - The dark side of horse community: stalking, abuse, and the need for better rules 48:00 - Rethinking horse training: the importance of rest, recovery, and smart work routines 54:00 - Liberty work fun: making your own rules and avoiding overcomplication 58:00 - Building trust through consistent signals and energy—no fancy gestures needed 63:00 - How to handle naughty or anxious horses—chances are, they’re just trying to tell you something 66:00 - Why a good horse is a reflection of a good human And remember: Be authentic, set boundaries, and never underestimate the power of a well-timed “Whoa”! Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

On this episode of the Adulting with Horses podcast, Heather and Natalie embrace the chaos of modern life: they dish on everything from DVDs on a nostalgia kick to the madness of Kentucky cross country and barn cat obsession, all with their signature wit and humor. The lost art of DVDs and the nostalgia of physical media. Generational shifts: Elder Millennials, Gen Z, and the decline of patience. The wild world of Kentucky cross country — rain, retirements, and unruly dogs The chaos of balancing book launches, vacations, and pet rescue missions. Social media authenticity vs AI-generated content — how to stay real in a digital age. Kentucky's trade fair finds — from quirky product finds to the latest in equestrian gear. For our special videos episode and bonus content, make sure to join our Patreon! Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Join Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert for a lively and insightful conversation covering horse tack hoarding, saddle fitting, personal growth, and upcoming events. Discover practical tips, humorous anecdotes, and inspiring stories from the world of equestrian life. Key topics Horse tack hoarding and organization Saddle fitting and maintenance Personal growth and self-awareness in riding Upcoming equestrian events and book launches Chapters 00:00 Morning Conversations and Caffeine Fixes 02:52 Unpacking and Tack Hoarding 05:57 Saddle Pads and Comfort in Riding 08:57 Fashion and Functionality in Equestrian Gear 12:03 The Emotional Connection to Tack and Gear 14:57 Saddle Fit and Horse Comfort 19:35 Regular Care for Horses 22:07 The Joy of Matching Outfits 26:29 Teenage Lessons in Authority 30:51 The Influence of Horses on Youth 34:59 Building Confidence Around Horses 38:42 The Magic of Night Gardens 41:06 Meeting the Horses: A Special Moment 42:29 Embracing Our Dark Sides 45:20 Traveling and Parenting: The Balancing Act 49:33 Creative Processes and Writing Updates 55:54 Upcoming Events and Exciting Plans Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert discuss on their 80th episode, their recent travel adventures, book tours, riding experiences, and the importance of self-care and strategic planning in life and equestrian pursuits. Join Heather and Natalie as they explore the joys and challenges of horse training, the magic of social media connections, and their personal adventures in travel and gardening. This episode offers practical insights, heartfelt stories, and a celebration of community and self-care. Keywords Travel, Book Tour, Equestrian, Riding, Self-Care, Planning, Family, Vacation, Book Promotion horse training, social media community, travel, gardening, horse training techniques, friendship, self-care, outdoor living, horse behavior, personal growth Topics Travel and vacation experiences Book tour and promotion strategies Riding and horse training updates Horse training techniques and philosophies The role of social media in creating community Personal growth through travel and hobbies Chapters 00:00 Vacation Adventures and Family Dynamics 02:58 Travel Tips and Tricks 06:02 Hormonal Conversations and Health Insights 08:59 Book Tour Experiences and Author Insights 12:00 Community Engagement and Reader Connections 15:03 Self-Promotion and Balancing Work-Life 20:58 Riding and Equestrian Reflections 21:41 Navigating Change: Moving to a New Barn 23:01 First Ride Back: Overcoming Fear and Trusting Your Horse 25:32 Finding Balance: The Dynamics of Horse and Rider 27:50 Jumping Back In: The Excitement of Training 30:00 The Joy of Sharing: Introducing New Riders to Horses 31:57 The Thrill of Thoroughbreds: Rediscovering Athleticism 34:03 Engaging Training: Keeping Horses Interested 35:46 Innovative Training Techniques: Learning from Others 38:56 Building Trust: The Importance of Communication with Horses 41:57 Understanding Horse Behavior: The Pecking Order in the Barn 44:43 The Chaos of Horse Routines 47:15 Childhood Memories and Horse Barn Antics 51:08 Cruising Adventures and Culinary Experiences 54:40 Friendship and Community in the Digital Age 01:00:12 Balancing Travel and Relaxation 01:01:37 Gardening Dreams and Nature's Wonders 01:05:38 Bats, Mosquitoes, and Nature's Balance Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Most of us are terrible at setting boundaries around our time, body, and energy—until we realize the chaos we're avoiding by not doing it. Heather and Natalie share hilarious, brutally honest stories about life’s little emergencies, travel mishaps, and the unspoken truths of adulting that no one tells you. From DIY house fixes gone wrong, to the chaos of managing horses, kids, and career, they reveal how even the smallest wins—locking the door on time, sneaking out early from a concert, or saying no to a late-night meeting—are real acts of self-care. In this episode, you'll discover: how to handle unexpected house emergencies without losing your mind, the surprising science behind regaining muscle after a break from riding, and why managing your energy—not just your schedule—is the key to feeling unstoppable. Heather and Natalie laugh through tales of travel chaos, barn battles, and the hilarious truths of juggling motherhood, horses, and personal growth. They break down simple routines to avoid disasters like plumbing leaks or missed flights, and share tips for prioritizing your well-being when life seems to conspire against you. Perfect for overwhelmed women striving for balance, this episode offers practical, no-nonsense strategies to turn chaos into calm and guilt into grace. Whether you're trying to get back in the saddle, escape the morning rush, or simply find moments of peace in a busy life, Heather and Natalie remind you: you’re not alone, and a little adulting wins go a long way. Tune in for a dose of humor, honesty, and inspiration—because sometimes, just surviving the week is a victory in itself. Get ready to laugh, learn, and feel empowered to take control of your chaos before it takes control of you. Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

In this engaging conversation, Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert explore the emotional journey of homeownership, the chaos of book events, and the burdens of adulting. They share personal anecdotes about their experiences in the equestrian world, the importance of self-care, and the struggles of meeting deadlines in their creative pursuits. The discussion highlights the balance between work and passion, the impact of weather on riding, and the common excuses that arise in their lives. Through humor and relatability, they navigate the complexities of their journeys as equestrians, authors, and individuals. Chapters 00:00 Navigating Homeownership and Personal Growth 02:58 The Chaos of Book Events and Author Life 08:51 Adulting and the Burden of Responsibilities 11:56 Excuses and Justifications in Equestrian Life 14:56 Finding Balance Between Work and Passion 18:05 The Impact of Weather on Riding 29:55 The Reality of Work-Life Balance 33:09 Networking and Collaboration in the Equine Community 36:15 Exciting Events and Opportunities in Lexington 47:11 Pursuing Education and Personal Growth 01:01:04 Travel Adventures and Future Plans Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Keywords homeownership, personal growth, book events, author life, fame, recognition, adulting, responsibilities, equestrian life, excuses, self-care, time management, writing, creative process, deadlines, work-life balance, equine community, networking, personal growth, education, parenting, time management, creative inspiration, travel, events, Lexington Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

In this live episode, Heather Wallace, Natalie Keller Reinert, and Ashley Winch come together for a fun and chaotic discussion about their lives, adulting, and the equestrian world. They kick off the conversation with a humorous introduction, referencing their previous holiday hijinks episode and the idea of bringing chaos to their listeners through a live stream. The trio shares personal anecdotes, including Heather's recent experiences with Rice Krispie treats for dinner and the stress of closing on a house while preparing for the Westminster Dog Show. They also touch on the challenges of adulting, the weather, and the quirks of their horses, leading to a light-hearted exploration of their lives as horse enthusiasts. As the conversation unfolds, the group welcomes surprise guest Nichole Chiciro of Horse & Rider, and dives into various topics, including the differences in their living situations, the absurdity of horse names, and the unique personalities of their equine companions. They share laughs over their horses' antics and the challenges of managing them in unpredictable weather. The episode captures the essence of friendship, humor, and the relatable chaos of adulting, all while celebrating their love for horses and the equestrian lifestyle. In this lively episode, the hosts engage in a humorous and candid discussion about their experiences with horses, personal anecdotes, and the quirks of adulting. They share stories about their horses' personalities, particularly focusing on a mare who has strong opinions about her companions and life in general. The conversation flows into light-hearted banter about travel mishaps, the challenges of social media, and the joys of drinking and shopping. As they navigate through various topics, the camaraderie among the hosts shines through, making for an entertaining and relatable episode. Keywords adulting, horses, equestrian, podcast, humor, chaos, horse names, weather, friendship, lifestyle, horses, adulting, travel stories, equestrian life, humor, personal anecdotes, horse personalities, social media, friendships, podcast Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Holiday Hijinks 01:52 Adulting Adventures and Chaos 05:55 Introducing Nichole and Her Background 10:01 Food, Drinks, and Equestrian Stories 13:59 Horse Mishaps and Personal Anecdotes 15:47 Horse Transformations and Quirky Names 19:32 Superstitions Around Changing Horse Names 21:02 Barn Fitness vs. Gym Fitness 26:01 Weather Woes and Equestrian Life 33:19 The Opinionated Mare 34:44 Travel Tales and Packing Tips 38:23 Nostalgia and Old Photos 41:10 Traveling with Style 48:41 Never Have I Ever: Equestrian Edition 49:23 Playing Never Have I Ever 52:11 Horse-Related Anecdotes 56:09 Caffeine and Cold Brew Conversations 01:00:26 Adulting Wins of the Week 01:01:39 Closing Thoughts and Where to Find Us Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

In this engaging conversation, Natalie and Heather explore various themes related to self-care, equine care, and personal growth. They discuss the challenges of equine expos, the importance of morning routines, and the balance between work and personal life. The conversation also delves into riding techniques, understanding horse behavior, and the significance of setting boundaries. With a light-hearted tone, they share personal anecdotes and insights, emphasizing the joy found in simple things and the power of authenticity. Keywords self-care, equine expos, horse riding, personal growth, boundaries, adulting wins, bitless riding, mare energy, confidence, sleep, work-life balance Takeaways Morning routines set the tone for the day. Equine expos can be overwhelming but rewarding. Riding techniques can improve with practice and patience. Balancing work and personal life is essential for well-being. Sleep is crucial for productivity and mental health. Understanding horse behavior enhances riding experience. Confidence in riding comes from practice and self-awareness. Adulting wins can be found in small achievements. Setting boundaries is important for personal growth. Embracing the energy of mares can inspire strength and determination. Chapters 00:00 Morning Routines and Self-Care 02:57 The Challenges of Equine Expos 06:01 Understanding Horse Behavior and Circadian Rhythms 09:03 Balancing Work and Personal Life 12:05 Planning for Family Adventures 14:57 Exploring Bitless Riding and Training Techniques 19:57 Understanding Riding Dynamics 27:55 The Importance of Body Positioning 32:15 Managing Anxiety and Riding Confidence 40:53 Living Arrangements and Personal Space 41:49 Building Confidence Through Horses 42:18 Learning Boundaries from Horses 43:24 Listening to Horses: A Case Study 44:48 Embracing Mare Energy 47:31 The Power of Mares in Performance 49:58 Adulting Wins and Personal Growth 52:00 Exciting Life Updates and Future Plans 54:38 Finding Joy in Simple Pleasures 56:56 Authenticity in Podcasting Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

On this special episode of the Adulting with Horses podcast, "The Balanced Horse," Heather Wallace shares her journey and insights into becoming an equine massage therapist. She discusses the challenges and rewards of the profession, the importance of proper education and certification, and the realities of running a small business in this field. Heather emphasizes the need for passion, dedication, and professionalism, while also providing practical advice for those considering this career path. Tune in to learn about the intricacies of equine massage therapy and what it truly takes to succeed. Follow Heather on Facebook and Instagram @animalbodyworknj and make sure to subscribe to Adulting with Horses on your favorite player!

In this conversation, Heather and Natalie discuss the chaos of the holiday season, the importance of giving attention to horses, and the challenges of managing horse health issues, particularly abscesses. They explore unconventional remedies, including the surprising suggestion of using sauerkraut for treating abscesses. The discussion highlights the community aspect of horse care, the learning journey involved in healing, and the personal wins they experience in their lives. They conclude with reflections on adulthood and the joys of being in their 40s. Takeaways The holiday season can be chaotic, especially for horse owners. Horses crave attention and can exhibit health issues when neglected. Abscesses in horses can be tricky to diagnose and treat. Community support is vital in managing horse health. Unconventional remedies can sometimes yield surprising results. Learning about horse care is a continuous journey. Sauerkraut may have unexpected benefits for treating abscesses. It's important to stay proactive in horse health management. Adulting brings its own set of challenges and victories. Being in your 40s can bring a sense of freedom and confidence. Keywords horses, health, abscess, remedies, community, care, attention, lameness, holiday chaos, healing Chapters 00:00 Navigating the Holiday Chaos 03:01 The Challenges of Horse Care 06:05 Abscess Adventures 09:01 Exploring Home Remedies 12:01 The Surprising Science of Sauerkraut 14:57 Lessons Learned from Lameness 18:03 The Journey to Recovery 22:06 Understanding Hoof Health and Bruising 24:10 The Importance of Daily Care and Treatment 25:40 Exploring Home Remedies for Abscesses 27:40 The Role of Ground Conditions in Hoof Health 29:32 Natural Remedies and Their Effectiveness 32:10 Learning from Experience: The Journey of Horse Care 35:30 Adulting Wins and Personal Growth 39:44 Celebrating Small Victories in Animal Care Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

In this lively conversation, Heather and Natalie discuss their holiday traditions, including the creation of new family customs and the fun game of wig snatching. They share their experiences living in Florida, the challenges of horse care, and the joy of embracing creativity during the holiday season. Special guests join the fun, and the group reminisces about their favorite Muppets and holiday movies, all while planning future gatherings and celebrations. In this lively conversation, the hosts discuss a variety of topics ranging from Hollywood props sales to the authenticity of horse whinnies in media. They share humorous anecdotes about Christmas sweaters and live shows, while also touching on the dynamics of podcasting and the balance between seriousness and fun. The conversation also delves into horse care, training insights, and the importance of language and communication. They celebrate achievements and awards, all while maintaining a light-hearted and engaging atmosphere. Keywords holiday traditions, family, creativity, wig snatching, Florida life, horse care, Muppets, special guests, personal growth, festive games, Hollywood, props, horse training, podcasting, Christmas, authenticity, language, communication, awards, humor Chapters 00:00 Holiday Cheer and Festive Traditions 02:55 Creating New Family Traditions 06:04 Wig Snatching: A Unique Holiday Game 09:00 Florida Life and Holiday Experiences 12:11 Embracing Creativity and Personal Growth 15:01 Horse Care and New Adventures 18:00 Special Guests and Holiday Celebrations 20:59 Holiday Traditions and Muppet Memories 24:03 Casting Dreams and Future Plans 42:05 Hollywood Props and Wigs 43:40 The Reality of Filming and Props Sales 44:43 Horse Whinnies and Authenticity in Media 46:00 Christmas Sweaters and Live Shows 47:58 New Roles and Responsibilities 48:58 Podcast Dynamics and Humor 50:59 The Balance of Seriousness and Fun 54:00 Horse Care and Training Insights 01:00:00 The Importance of Language and Communication 01:04:02 Celebrating Achievements and Awards Links: www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast Twitter @AdultingHorses Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/ Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time! If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast