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Sex Upgraded

Published by Taylor Johnson - Sex Coach for Men

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Helping men and their lovers experience the best sex and relationship lives possible. You'll hear wild personal stories, interviews with guest experts, and practical how-to episodes as well. TLDR: In each episode you'll get practical tools & insights you can start using today to improve your sex life AND entire life. Why? Because I (Taylor) used to struggle massively with sex. I never had a good mentor, and my struggle negatively impacted my entire life. Now after a huge journey studying sex around the world, I'm thriving, and I want to help you thrive in your sex life too. Why? Because it feels amazing! AND because the world needs more men who can embody their sexual power with confidence and integrity. Thank you for being here! -Taylor • Web: www.taylorjohnson.life • Insta: www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson • Youtube: www.youtube.com/@taylorclarkjohnson

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  1. My Understanding of Women’s Sexuality Just Cracked Wide Open

    Mar 6, 202632 min

    My entire perspective on women’s sexuality recently shifted — especially around the idea of containment. In this episode I share a personal realization that changed how I understand arousal, dominance, submission, deep pleasure, and the layers of shame many of us carry around sexuality. This is NOT meant to be a teaching episode. It’s more of a reflection on my own personal revelations and new practices that have changed how I relate to women and sex. I’m still actively learning and integrating these ideas, so take this as a window into my process - rather than a polished explanation of everything. If you're a man who loves women, what I share here could be one of the most important things you learn about sex. I would genuinely love to hear your thoughts and reactions - please let me know what you're thinking in the comments section of this episode on youtube , so we can explore this and learn together. Thank you. — Taylor TOPICS DISCUSSED: Containment in relationships, women's arousal, masculine leadership in intimacy, sexual polarity, dominance and submission, shame around sexuality, and how to get your wildest fantasies met as a man. **NOTE: You can expect more videos from me about the concept of containment, because I believe it's one of the most important ideas when it comes to sex and relationships. Upcoming topics may include: • how to contain a woman sexually • how to contain yourself • why YOU need containment • why offering containment matters as a man • and much more. CONNECT: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/ https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson 🔸 UPCOMING SEXUAL LEADERSHIP TRAINING: Applications for The Embodied Sexual Leadership Training will open mid-march. The retreat will be held in Asheville, NC, on the days of July 8-12. Learn more and get on the waiting list to apply here. Support the show

  2. 7 Days at a BDSM Training - It Went Deeper Than I Expected...

    Feb 18, 202620 min

    I just completed the “Tantra Meets BDSM” 7-day training with Om Rupani and Laurie Handlers. And wow... This episode is a personal integration — what I experienced, what blew me away, and what I’m still unpacking. If you listened to my previous episode before attending, this is the follow-up. And if you’re new here, this is a candid look into my own personal growth as a sexual human. Welcome. *NOTE: The background noise is the ocean. I recorded this with the intention of publishing the video to youtube. You can watch it here. TOPICS: 0:00 A Turning Point in My Life 2:30 Containment 7:56 BDSM Scene Creation 10:40 Problematic Man/Woman Archetypes 15:29 I LOVE Being a Dom 18:51 Your Attention is Your Most Valuable Resource CONNECT: 🔸 2026 Men's Retreat (July 2026) 🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course 🔸 Instagram: @taylorclarkjohnson ----- RETREAT INFO: *Tantra Meets BDSM is a 7-day, in-person retreat - taught by Om Rupani and Laurie Handlers. It's primarily a BDSM training, taught through a lens of tantric/energetic understanding. The program is intense, challenging, and it has been one of the best retreats I've attended (this last round was taught at a beautiful retreat center on the coast of the Dominican Republic). You can check out the program here. Support the show

  3. I’m Studying BDSM for the Next 7 Days (In-Person) — And it Feels Edgy

    Feb 8, 20269 min

    This is my personal update just before diving into 7-day BDSM retreat taught by Laurie Handlers & Om Rupani. It’s called “Tantra Meets BDSM” - and I’m 90% excited and 10% feeling edgy. Seems like the perfect ratio. Let me know your thoughts & questions if you have any. CONNECT WITH ME: 🔸 Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life 🔸 Insta: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson Support the show

  4. The Orgasmic Mastery Course Is Now Open — Self-Study Enrollment & What to Expect

    Jan 22, 20266 min

    The Orgasmic Mastery Course is now open for self-study enrollment. This short episode is a clear, grounded overview of the course - what it actually is, who it’s for, and how it works - so you can feel into whether this is the right next step for you. This is a 10-week sexual self-mastery training for men who want: Deeply embodied sexual confidence The ability to last as long as they want during sex Stronger, longer-lasting erections Full-body orgasms and a grounded pathway toward non-ejaculatory orgasmic states The skills to generate, circulate, and harness sexual energy The joy of shamelessly owning their desires This course is not about tips, tricks, or hacks. It’s about training your nervous system and sexual response system through consistent, embodied practices—so real change happens in your body, not just in your mind. The self-study version includes: Full access to all 10 weeks of the course Long-term access to the material Monthly live group calls Access to a private community of men who’ve gone through the work The option to join a future live group round at a discounted rate If you’d like to learn more or enroll, visit the course page here. **And - the self-study version is available at a discounted rate from the typical large group price. There’s no rush. Take your time. Trust your yes. - Taylor Support the show

  5. Orgasmic Mastery Course - (Live Q&A Call Recording for the Next Course)

    Oct 8, 20251 hr 1 min

    This episode is for any man who is interested in learning about my upcoming Orgasmic Mastery Course that starts on October 16th. It's a recording of a live Q&A call I led on October 8th - for anyone to ask me anything about the course. We got into some great conversation, and if you're considering joining the course, this should be a helpful listen. If you have any questions about the course after listening to this episode and checking out the course page, please either shoot me a DM on instagram (it's easy to reply with a voice message there) or send me an email. Thank you! -Taylor Support the show

  6. The ONE Sexual Practice Every Man Should Do Daily (Embodiment)

    Sep 25, 202511 min

    Get my free guided practice here: https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/embodiment - and know this: Most men trying to improve their sex lives are missing one crucial ingredient: embodiment. And this is one of the main reasons why so many men have "tried all the techniques" but still struggle with premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction and sexual performance anxiety... To overcome these challenges, you HAVE TO do some kind of embodiment practice - in addition to learning the direct sexual techniques that address the sexual "dysfunctions." The techniques alone won't cut it... *NOTE: This episode was originally filmed for Youtube, but I decided to put it here as a podcast episode as an experiment. You can watch the video on youtube here. FREE RESOURCES 🔸 Ejaculation Control Training 🔸 17-Minute Sexual Embodiment Guided Practice 🔸 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge UPCOMING TRAINING FOR MEN: 🔱 Consider joining my upcoming 10-week sexual self-mastery training for men called the Orgasmic Mastery Course . It starts October 16th, 2025. ------- NOTE 2: The free practice I've linked to above combines elements of Qigong, breath work, Yoga, mobility training, Taoist sexual practice, and somatic awareness exercises too. This kind of practice is what I do for my main regular/personal practice. It's not entirely qigong, so I don't call it that. And it's not entirely yoga either... It is what it is. :) ------- CONNECT & LEARN MORE: Sex Upgraded Podcast Website Instagram #embodimentpractice #embodiment #menshealth Support the show

  7. My Heart Cracked Open... (In a Somatic Process with the Strozzi Institute)

    Jul 24, 202532 min

    This episode is a very personal story from a workshop I attended 6 weeks ago... During the workshop, I had an experience that broke me open in profound ways that have changed my life for the better. *(Important note below)* And I'm definitely still integrating what happened, but at this point I've spent enough time in integration to feel excited to share the story with you. **IMPORTANT NOTE: What I forgot to mention in the episode was that the experience was so strong for me, I had to spend the rest of that evening back at my AirB&B, going back and forth between laying down on the bed crying with emotional opening/release - and getting up to do intentional movement practice to feel everything fully and integrate. I didn't eat, I didn't distract myself with social media or tech... I just spent the evening & night solo - feeling, integrating and then went to sleep. It felt like the comedown of a profound psychedelic medicine journey... that's the best analogy I can come up with. If you're someone who's interested in personal transformation, and different ways that can happen, I think you'll really enjoy this episode. 🔴 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube here. HAVE A QUESTION? I'm open to any questions about anything I shared in this episode (please ask me in a comment on this video). This work is absolutely fascinating to me... and I'm into discussing it with people who are also interested in the world of somatics & transformation. EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS: 00:00 Somatics Explained 02:53 The Strozzi institute (Where I'm Studying) 04:39 Somatic Bodywork Explained 06:45 The Story: My Heart-Opening Transformation 23:45 Advanced Somatics Retreat Update (Rescheduled) 27:40 Sex & Heart (My Biggest Challenge & Growth Areas) 30:00 The Potential of Somatics & Movement in Men’s Work WORK WITH ME: 🔸 Liberate Your Lifeforce Retreat (August, 2025): 🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (September, 2025): 🔸 FREE 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge THE STROZZI INSTITUTE If you want to check them out, here are the courses I've taken with the Strozzi Institute: 🔸 Embodied Transformation (April 2023) 🔸 Embodied Leadership Pathway (Weekend 1 Only) (September 2024) 🔸 Somatic Bodywork (April 2025) 🔸 Somatics, Trauma & Resilience (June 2025) The upcoming training I'm taking with Strozzi: 🔸 Somatic Coaching Training (October, 2025) *NOTE: Sadly I dropped out of the Embodied Leadership Pathway program because hurricane Helene hit my home in Asheville during the first weekend of the training, and the recovery effort was too intense and all-consuming to do the needed coursework. It's a great program, and I'd like to re-enroll in the future when schedule permits! #somatics #menswork Support the show

  8. From Boy to King: Mature Masculinity & Conscious Love - with Max Trombly

    Jul 22, 20251 hr 2 min

    What if the reason you keep choosing the wrong partner… is a belief you picked up at five years old? Much of our adult life we're actually acting from unconscious patterns that shape who we’re drawn to, how we show up in relationship, and why many men feel stuck chasing chemistry instead of building conscious connection... THIS is a moment when the boy or the prince within us has to grow up into a man. 🔴 - You can also watch the video interview here on Youtube . This is a rich episode, and I truly hope you get a lot out of it. TIMES & TOPICS: 00:00 Intro 01:08 Max's Story of Transformation 02:47 What Is a Core Wound? 04:02 Personal Story of a Wound 07:10 How Childhood Shapes Love 08:36 Dating from Your Wounds 10:57 Visualize Your Ideal Partner 13:46 Why We Choose the Wrong People 17:16 Chemistry Isn’t Connection 18:58 Discernment in Dating 25:23 Own Your Truth & Lead 27:04 From Prince to King 34:37 Purpose, Love & Fatherhood 39:23 Leading Your Family as a Man 45:12 Intimacy After Kids & Keeping Desire Alive 50:18 Creating Real Chemistry 56:04 Reclaiming Joy 01:00:02 Why Men Need In-Person Work Thank you Max for taking the time for this chat, and thank YOU for reading this and listening to the episode. If it touched you in some way, or if you got something useful, please let me know - and pass it along to another man who might need this conversation. ------------- WORK WITH MAX: 🔸 Max's Instagram 🔸 Max's Website WORK WITH TAYLOR: 🔸 Liberate Your Lifeforce Retreat (August, 2025): 🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (September, 2025): 🔸 FREE 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge #menswork #menshealth #growthjourney Support the show

  9. He Built a $750M Empire Using Semen Retention..? (Dave Asprey) Let's talk...

    Jul 7, 202535 min

    Dave Asprey is controversial figure who says semen retention helped him make hundreds of millions of dollars... and I'm inclined to believe him. It's not a black and white situation though, and I'd like to explore that with you today... 🔴 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube. In this unique episode, WE are going to listen to an interview between Dave & Caitlin V - together for the first time (about semen retention, sexual energy and money) and I'm going to react to their interview and share my thoughts with you in real time. TIMES & TOPICS: 0:00 Intro 3:30 The Power of Sex & Sexual Energy Transmutation 9:55 Ejaculation Frequency (How Often Men Should Ejaculate) 11:30 Ejaculation Hangover 14:36 Semen Retention Lifestyle 18:40 Technique to Stop Premature Ejaculation 26:20 Semen Retention & Money 32:20 Your Feedback? (Should I do more videos like these?) QUESTION FOR YOU: Do you like this kind of episode? It's a first for me (doing a reaction video), and I enjoyed it a lot - but I wonder - was it useful for you? I'd love to hear your thoughts. --------------- WORK WITH ME: 🔸 Liberate Your Lifeforce Retreat (August, 2025) 🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (September, 2025) 🔸 Advanced Somatics & Leadership Training for Men (October, 2025): 🔸 FREE 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge CONNECT WITH CAITLIN : 🔸 Caitlin's Youtube Channel 🔸 Caitlin's New Music-Responsive Sex Toy 🔸 Caitlin's Website CONNECT WITH DAVE: 🔸 Dave's Website 🔸 Dave's Instagram 🔸 Dave's New Book: Heavily Meditated Support the show

  10. Men Are Struggling With Sex & Dating — Here’s Why [with Caitlin V]

    Jun 30, 20251 hr 13 min

    Why are so many men feeling lost when it comes to sex & dating? From porn, performance pressure, social isolation, fear of rejection, lack of good role models, a hyper-sexualized society and the lingering impacts of MeToo - modern men are facing a perfect storm of challenges that are very difficult to navigate - and are rarely talked about... 🔴 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube. Today I'm joined by Caitlin V (a renowned sexologist and men’s coach) for a deeper look at what’s actually going on beneath the surface. IN THIS EPISODE: 0:00 Welcome & Intro 6:26 The State of Modern Men (in Sex & Dating) 8:33 Impact of MeToo and Porn on Men’s Intimacy 11:35 Pornhub Searches Reveal a Deeper Longing for Connection 15:19 The Hard Truth About Dating 18:03 What Happens When Women Start Initiating? 20:30 The Fantasy of Dominance: Why Simple Gender Roles Seduce Us 22:54 The Male Confidence Crisis 24:27 Dating as a Life-Transforming Journey 28:13 Better Sex Is a Skill: (Why You SHOULD Practice) 29:04 Where Most Men Get Stuck 32:03 The Truth About Erections & Emotions 34:01 The Antidote to Anxiety in Bed 39:16 Semen Retention & Sexual Discipline 42:03 Can Semen Retention Hurt You? (Research Discussion) 47:04 The Power & Importance of Ejaculation 55:02 Squirting: What's the Deal With This? 01:01:11 Squirting, Shame, and the Trap of Goal-Oriented Sex 01:07:15 Caitlin’s New Music-Responsive Sex Toy: Pleasure Beyond Vibration CONNECT WITH CAITLIN : 🔸 Caitlin's Youtube Channel 🔸 Caitlin's New Music-Responsive Sex Toy 🔸 Caitlin's Website WORK WITH TAYLOR: 🔸 Liberate Your Lifeforce Retreat (August, 2025) 🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (September, 2025) 🔸 Advanced Somatics & Leadership Training for Men (October, 2025): 🔸 FREE 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge Support the show

  11. The Woman’s Role in Polarity (More Than Just Following His Lead) - with Londin Winters

    Jun 24, 20251 hr 16 min

    What if the sexual polarity practices meant to ignite your sex life are actually killing your connection? In today's episode we explore the shadow side of polarity work - and how you can move beyond it to build incredible charge in your relationship. 🔴 - You can also watch this episode in Youtube. You'll hear about how Londin and her partner almost ruined their relationship by practicing masculine/feminine polarity... and you'll hear how they bring polarity in now - in new and healthy ways that help their relationship and sex lives truly thrive. Also - if you're a man who likes women - we dive into what you can realistically expect from a women in conscious relationship, and why sacred sex starts with structure. It's a great episode, and I hope you thoroughly enjoy it. If you do, please share it with a friend. Let's spread the good word of relational intentionality! :) -Taylor WORK WITH LONDIN : 🔸 Londin's Website 🔸 Londin's Next In-Person Couples Workshop 🔸 Londin's Instagram WORK WITH TAYLOR: 🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course 🔸 Liberate Your Lifeforce Retreat (August, 2025) 🔸 Advanced Somatics & Leadership Training for Men (October, 2025): 🔸 FREE 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS: 00:00 Welcome to the Sex Upgraded Podcast! 01:40 Londin Winters' Background 06:37 The Dangers of Polarity Work 14:32 Alpha/Omega VS Masculine/Feminine Polaritry 16:36 The Woman’s Role: Leading With Love & Color 25:49 How to Become a Woman Worthy of Sexual Worship 31:24 Sex as a Living Prayer 36:15 Energetic Agility for Women 39:38 Why Scheduled Intimacy Unlocks Deeper Trust 51:55 EXERCISE: The Seer and Feeler Dynamic That Melts Walls 56:50 Why Men Shut Down Emotionally—and What Helps 1:02:19 Why Women Don’t Trust "Providing Alone" 1:06:22 EXERCISE: The "I Want" Practice That Revives Erotic Fire 1:10:04 Reclaiming Desire & Consent After #MeToo 1:14:12 Embodied Transmission VS Online Learning Support the show

  12. Embodiment: The MISSING KEY to Great Sex & Leadership – with John Wineland

    Jun 9, 20251 hr 3 min

    In this episode: ✅ Why embodiment is the real key to sexual mastery, deep love, and trustworthy leadership. There's a reason most men aren't having the sex, impact, or depth of connection they truly want in life — and it's probably not what you think. In this episode with John Wineland, we'll explore something far more powerful than any mainstream sex technique — something that's usually missing from most men’s lives: embodiment. 🔴🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube. WE EXPLORE: ✅ Why embodiment is the real key to sexual mastery, deep love, and trustworthy leadership ✅ How most men unconsciously sabotage their efforts at this ✅ The link between your nervous system's capacity and your ability to hold real power (emotional, sexual, and energetic) ✅ How to powerfully lead as a man — in life, in sex, and in service to the world (embodied leadership) ✅ Why in-person men's groups can be so transformational Let's get into it! -Taylor WORK WITH JOHN : 🔸 John's Podcast 🔸 John's Teacher Training 🔸 John's Instagram WORK WITH TAYLOR: 🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course 🔸 Liberate Your Lifeforce Retreat (August, 2025) 🔸 Advanced Somatics & Leadership Training for Men (October, 2025): 🔸 FREE 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS: 00:00 Introduction 02:00 What Is Embodiment? 08:36 Sticking Points for Men in Embodiment 15:33 The Deeper Mission: Love 17:20 The Transformational Power of Group Men’s Work 21:51 Embodiment vs. Strategy and Physiological Transformation 28:05 Polarity and Sacred Intimacy Explained 33:33 Intimacy as a Missing Ingredient in Modern Life 37:11 Should You Do Polarity Work, Therapy, or Workshops? 39:07 Relationships as a Conscious Choice and Required Skills 44:36 Childhood Wounds and Relationship Dynamics 50:09 The Power of an Open Heart in Masculinity 52:46 Bringing the Heart into Sex 55:57 Energetic Penetration Explained 59:29 Final Reflections and Overview of John’s Programs #menswork #embodiedleadership #leadershipdevelopment Support the show

  13. Is Porn Draining Your Sexual Vitality? ⚠️ (+ How to Get it Back) - with Jeremy Lipkowitz

    Jun 2, 20251 hr 18 min

    Most men don’t realize what porn is actually costing them… until it’s already showing up in their sex life, motivation, or relationships. *(And, you're not alone, I struggled with this too). I highly recommend listening if you've EVER questioned your use of or relationship with porn... 🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube here. In today's episode, Jeremy (who is a full time Porn Addiction Recovery Coach for men) and I dive into: ✅ - How watching porn (even when it seems “normal”) can quietly drain your vitality, confidence, sexual performance and your connection to what really matters... ✅ - How to help you identify whether or not you have a problematic and/or addictive relationship with porn... ✅ - What to do about it - how to stop watching porn (if you want to) ✅ - How to create a healthy and thriving life & sex life without porn -------- You'll hear personal stories from both of us... (we were both addicted), you'll get new ways to think about sex and arousal, and you'll get practical tools you can start using today - to transform any behavior you want INTO a healthy choice that supports the life you want to live. To be very clear: this conversation is NOT going to shame you or guilt trip you - it's here to help us men navigate one of the most alluring and destructive forces on the planet (porn). For that, we need awareness, compassion, discernment and strength. Thanks for being here. Let's get into it! -Taylor ----- WORK WITH JEREMY : 🔸 Unhooked Academy (90-Day Porn Reboot) 🔸 Youtube 🔸 Instagram WORK WITH TAYLOR: 🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (September 2025) 🔸 Liberate Your Lifeforce Retreat (August, 2025) 🔸 Advanced Somatics & Leadership Training for Men (October, 2025) 🔸 FREE 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS: 00:00 Welcome to the Sex Upgraded Podcast 01:12 Jeremy’s Story: From Porn Addiction to Mindful Manhood 03:39 How Porn Warps Sex, Intimacy & Motivation 07:27 Waking Up: Recognizing the Addiction Pattern 11:27 Lust vs. Desire: One Drains You, One Fuels You 14:58 The Subtle Costs of Porn You’re Not Noticing 24:33 Why Willpower Alone Doesn’t Work 28:49 Addiction is a Coping Mechanism, Not a Moral Failing 33:30 Build Strength Through Mindfulness & Equanimity 39:30 Jeremy’s Meditation Practice That Changed Everything 47:02 A Simple, Daily Mindfulness Practice for Recovery 53:47 The Porn Test: Are you Addicted? 59:57 Porn, Objectification & Reclaiming Conscious Eros 1:06:01 Why Men Need Brotherhood (Now More Than Ever) 1:12:30 The Antidote to Numbness is... Connection 1:17:57 Final Reflections & Resources to Go Deeper Support the show

  14. From "Nice Guy" to Sexually Confident Man (How-To) – with Traver Boehm

    May 27, 20251 hr 11 min

    If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything “right” but still not getting the sex, connection, or fulfillment you want ⚠️ - this conversation might blow something wide open for you. 🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this interview on Youtube . In today’s episode, I interview Traver Boehm about the Nice Guy archetype — where it comes from, how it messes with your sex life, and what it really takes to reclaim your confidence, power, and desire as a man (and why WOMEN WANT THIS). Traver doesn’t hold back. You'll hear raw personal stories, practical mindset shifts, and deep truths about what makes a man truly attractive — to women, to the world, and most importantly, to himself. This is one of those episodes that might sting a little, especially if you see yourself in the patterns we’re talking about. But it’s also packed with insight, clarity, and actionable guidance that can help you start showing up with more honesty, sexual confidence, and grounded presence — starting now. CONNECT WITH TRAVER: 🔸 Instagram 🔸 Kill the Nice Guy Course 🔸 Uncivilized Podcast WORK WITH TAYLOR: 🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course 🔸 Liberate Your Lifeforce Retreat (August, 2025) 🔸 Advanced Somatics & Leadership Training for Men (October, 2025) EPISODE TOPICS: 0:00 Intro 01:28 What the “Nice Guy” Archetype Actually Means 04:00 Why Being ‘Nice’ Doesn’t Get Your Needs Met 06:04 Traver’s Origin Story: Where Nice Guys Come From 11:59 Attachment VS Authenticity: The Conflict 16:14 Covert Contracts: The Hidden Deals That Sabotage Sex & Connection 20:26 The “No Women in the World” Thought Experiment 24:58 Story: Not Needing Anything Makes You Magnetic 32:50 Real vs. Fake Intimacy: What Happens When You Self-Source First 35:45 ACTION STEP: How to Make Your Life Amazing 40:54 Wants vs. Needs vs. Longings – A Reframe for Men 51:20 The Role of Brotherhood and Men’s Groups in Healing 01:06:57 Why Porn Hooks Nice Guys – And What It’s Really Doing to You #menswork #mensmentalhealth #mensgroup Support the show

  15. How to Unleash the Sexual Power Women Crave (and Become Unforgettable) - with Layla Martin [Part 2]

    Dec 20, 202442 min

    So many men get it wrong in the bedroom... Trying to be nice... Unsure of how to take the lead... And even ashamed of their own desire... If you've ever felt these ways, you’re not alone (and I have to regularly work on this too). In this episode, Layla Martin and I dive deep into how you can sexually unleash your primal masculine energy - in a way that’s bold, conscious, attuned, and deeply sexy. 🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on Youtube. In this episode you'll discover why women crave a man’s powerful presence - one that combines focus, strength, desire, the ability to ravish with care... And you'll discover how to embody it in a way that transforms your sexual relationships and ignites desire. You'll also learn a transformative practice Layla calls “fuck and kill to consciousness,” which will probably be really confronting for you - in a good way... It's an exercise to help you integrate your raw, primal instincts and channel them into connection, confidence, sexual pleasure and leadership in the bedroom. This episode is your invitation to stop holding back, to own your power unapologetically, and show up as the man you’re truly capable of being — magnetic, present, powerful and unforgettable. Join us! ❤️‍🔥 CONNECT WITH LAYLA: 🔸 The Tantric Mastermind for Couples (Upcoming in 2025) 🔸 Layla’s Youtube Channel 🔸 Layla’s Podcast "This Tantric Life" 🔸 Layla’s Instagram 🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR: 🔸 The Orgasmic Mastery Course (February 2025) 🔸 Taylor’s Youtube Channel 🔸 Taylor’s Podcast "Sex Upgraded" 🔸 Taylor’s Website #sexualleadership #menshealth #personalgrowth Support the show

  16. How to Unlock True Sexual Growth as a Man - with Layla Martin [Part 1]

    Dec 20, 202430 min

    Ever felt stuck in your sexual self-mastery journey? Have you tried all kinds of techniques but feel like you’re still missing something? If so, this episode is for you. You'll learn the #1 reason most men struggle to see real progress in their sexual growth - and how you can overcome it. HINT: techniques alone won’t get you there. You've got to dive into the deeper emotional and psychological layers under the techniques - to create a strong foundation for the techniques to rest on top of - and by doing so, you’ll unlock the true sexual growth, confidence, pleasure, and connection you desire. 🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on Youtube. ❤️‍🔥 CONNECT WITH LAYLA: 🔸 The Tantric Mastermind for Couples (Upcoming in 2025) 🔸 Layla’s Youtube Channel 🔸 Layla’s Podcast "This Tantric Life" 🔸 Layla’s Instagram 🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR: 🔸 The Orgasmic Mastery Course (February 2025) 🔸 Taylor’s Youtube Channel 🔸 Taylor’s Podcast "Sex Upgraded" 🔸 Taylor’s Website #personalgrowth #menshealth #sexualhealthformen Support the show

  17. Alpha Sexuality & Men's Sexual Practice - with Justin Patrick Pierce (Pt. 2)

    Aug 28, 20241 hr 14 min

    As a man, if you want incredible sexual experiences, you MUST learn how to embody alpha consciousness - so you can sexually lead from that place. In this episode you'll learn practical ways to do that - in sex, in dating, and in solo-cultivation practices too. 🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on Youtube . ❤️‍🔥 This episode is part 2 of the Sexual Polarity episodes with Justin Patrick Pierce. You can listen to the first interview here: https://youtu.be/aTwQST3CMc0 👉 I recommend listening to part one BEFORE you listen to this episode, because you'll learn lots of fundamental sexual polarity concepts that will help you to get the most out and apply the techniques of this second interview. EPISODE TOPICS: 00:00 Intro & Welcome 04:08 Alpha Consciousness Fundamentals 10:40 Authentic Confidence VS "Mainstream" Confidence 19:10 Embodying Alpha & Omega Consciousness 27:23 Posture, Refinement, Service & Impact 34:40 Intro to Sexual Yoga 36:20 Alpha Practices with Your Partner 53:24 Three Practical Techniques to Create Sexual Polarity 01:03:11 Completing the Energetic Circuit in Sex 🔱 JUSTIN'S LINKS: 🔸 Yoga of Intimacy: https://yogaofintimacy.co/ 🔸 Website: https://www.justinpatrickpierce.com/ 🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justinpatrickpierce/ 🔸 Monthly Live Group Calls: https://www.patreon.com/c/yogaofintimacy 📖 BOOK: Playing with Fire: https://a.co/d/0g8ovHdB 📖 BOOK: Awakened Woman's Guide to Everlasting Love: https://a.co/d/0fGmJZAA 🔱 TAYLOR'S LINKS: 🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/ 🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson 🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLijj64iRfquV67jfmCuQoDHHA8T52Vhp5 #longtermrelationships #relationshipadvice #menssexualhealth Support the show

  18. Sexual Polarity & Alpha Consciousness in Long-Term Relationship - with Justin Patrick Pierce (Pt. 1)

    Aug 13, 20241 hr 17 min

    If you want to have amazing sex in a long-term relationship (consistently), you've got to understand HOW TO BUILD SEXUAL POLARITY. ❤️‍🔥 This interview is part 1 of a 2-part series to teach you a new model of sexual polarity, that you can start using today to build sexual charge in your relationship. Part 2 will come out in a couple of weeks. 🔴 🎥 You can watch the video version of this episode here on Youtube. EPISODE CHAPTER LIST: 00:00 Intro & Welcome 02:46 Justin's Backstory (in the Pick Up Artist World) 08:26 Justin's Long-Term Relationship Success with Londin Winters 11:05 The THREE Ways of Relating with our Partners 11:41 Navigating Relationship Dynamics for Thriving Intimacy 20:21 The PROBLEM with "Masculine" and "Feminine" Terminology 34:27 Exploring Consciousness and Self-Integration 46:31 Developing Emotional Resilience in Relationships 53:01 What IS Sexual Practice? 56:55 How to Build Sexual Polarity in Relationship 01:04:58 PRACTICE: How to Build Sexual Energy With Your Partner 🔱 JUSTIN'S LINKS: 🔸 Yoga of Intimacy: https://yogaofintimacy.co/ 🔸 Website: https://www.justinpatrickpierce.com/ 🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justinpatrickpierce/ 🔸 Monthly Live Group Calls: https://www.patreon.com/c/yogaofintimacy 📖 BOOK: Playing with Fire: https://a.co/d/0g8ovHdB 📖 BOOK: Awakened Woman's Guide to Everlasting Love: https://a.co/d/0fGmJZAA 🔱 TAYLOR'S LINKS: 🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/ 🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson 🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLijj64iRfquV67jfmCuQoDHHA8T52Vhp5 #longtermrelationships #relationshipadvice #monogamy Support the show

  19. Awakening the Wild Man Within - with Jeremy Schewe

    May 27, 202457 min

    Have you ever felt a primal stirring within - a draw to the wild that seems at odds with our digital, modern world? If so, this episode is for you. The wild man archetype is important, and together we'll explore HOW TO INTEGRATE THE WILD MAN into our every day life. Including sex, business, relationship, community, etc... 🔴 🎥 You can watch the youtube version here. EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS** **(Add 2 minutes to each of these times because of the added intro clip describing my upcoming workshop). 0:00 Intro 2:32 The Wild Man Archetype Defined 9:20 What is an Archetype? 13:17 Wild Man & Work: Practical Example 15:53 Wild Man & Sex: Personal Story from Taylor 21:36 There's a Rising Anxiety in Society... 25:58 Healthy VS Unhealthy Wild Man 34:27 Integrating the Wild Man into Sex & Relationship 38:35 Integrating the Wild Man into Work 39:53 Embodying the Wild Man AND King Archetype 41:07 Importance of Council in Personal Growth 48:38 The Importance of IN-PERSON Men's Work 51:59 The Importance of FUN in Men's Work 53:15 European Shamanic Traditions (Jeremy's New Book) --------------- 🔶 CONNECT WITH JEREMY: 2024 Wild Man Retreat Jeremy's Website Jeremy's New Book 🔶 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR: Taylor's Upcoming Retreat (July 2024) Taylor's Website Taylor's Instagram Support the show

  20. Sexual Integrity & Men's Leadership - with Mischa Byruck

    May 16, 20241 hr 47 min

    This episode is a deep journey into the PRACTICE of sexual integrity. It's one of the most important episodes on this podcast so far, so please take your time with it - and note the chapters below too. Also, please read the important note below before you finish the episode. ⚠️ IMPORTANT NOTE: While this conversation is in-depth and provides great options for moving forward in healthy ways, it does not cover all the nuances of sexual harm, integrity and accountability. There will always be scenarios that do not fit into what has been discussed here (for example, we did not talk about when people weaponize the idea/accusation that someone has caused harm to them when they haven't. Those instances are rare, but they're very real when they do happen). 🔴 You can also watch this episode on Youtube. ✅ IMPORTANT TOPICS: 0:00 Intro/Welcome 2:17 Introducing Mischa (Work & Harm) 10:22 We Can ALL Cause Harm... 15:31 What is Power? (How to Lead More Effectively) 25:41 Reevaluating Consent Violations and Sexual Harm 32:34 Harm Reduction in Sex-Positive Communities 36:23 Ecstatic Dance, Consent & Community Impact 41:34 How to Dance Wild & Crazy with Positive Impact 43:08 How Our "Energy" Impacts Others (In Ecstatic Dance and Life) 45:55 The Art of Attunement 48:13 Sexual Integrity VS Subjective Harm 55:04 Sexual Liberation REQUIRES a Deeper Look at Justice & Accountability 1:03:52 Navigating Feedback, Cancel Culture & Public Call Outs 1:13:55 The TEST of Men's Sexual Integrity & Accountability 1:17:59 Men's Responsibility in Leadership Roles 1:24:21 The Power of DIGNITY vs Shame & Self-Victimization 1:33:48 The Art of Apologizing 1:45:52 Men are Good If you have any questions or feedback about this episode, please feel free to get in touch with Mischa and I. You can find our contact info below. Thank you for being part of this conversation! -Taylor ------------ 🔶 CONNECT WITH MISCHA: Mischa's Website: www.evolve.men Mischa's Instagram: @mischabyruck 🔶 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR: Taylor's Website: www.taylorjohnson.life Taylor's Instagram: @taylorclarkjohnson Support the show

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