Neurodiverse Love with Mona Kay, MSW, Ph.D.

It has been an honor and a privilege for me to have hosted and co-hosted the Neurodiverse Love podcast since the fall of 2020. I will be forever grateful to my dear friend Olga, who agreed to start this podcast journey with me in the middle of the pandemic, and to all my co-hosts who have partnered with me along the way: Manecia, Greg, Nicole and Bronwyn. I also want to thank all the amazing guests who gave me an opportunity to ask them the questions so many of us needed the answers to. Each individual, couple, coach, therapist, educator, author, and/or researcher who shared their lived experience and expertise has helped us increase understanding of the strengths, differences and challenges that Neurodiverse couples experience. I am so grateful that thousands of people listening in more than 70 countries have received information, tools and resources to help them understand they are not alone and there is hope! Whether your relationship continues or ends understanding and acceptance of what can and can’t change can make such a big difference in the healing process. If you have not had a chance to listen to the 4 episodes of the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries on YouTube I hope we will do that today. In addition, I hope you will check out my website at www.neurodiverselove.com for more information about the resources I have available. Nine years ago, in 2017, I discovered I was in a neurodiverse marriage for 29 years and didn’t know it. Even though my marriage ended in 2018, I made it my mission to help others understand what my ex-husband and I never knew, and the work I am doing through Neurodiverse Love became my mission. This is my last episode of the Neurodiverse Love podcast and I hope the information I share will be helpful to a lot of you, including my thoughts about: ​Communication preferences ​Emotional needs ​Sensory differences ​Social battery ​Physical intimacy ​Employment ​Processing speeds ​Special interests ​Transition time ​Perpetual vs solvable problems I want everyone who listens to this podcast, the docuseries or accesses any of the work I do to know that you’re not alone! There are SO many more resources available then when I first discovered I was in a neurodiverse marriage in 2017. I am also very excited to share with all of you that I will be cohosting a new podcast with my friend and colleague Jodi Carlton and it is called “Navigating Neurodiverse Love & Life” . Our first episode was published on May 26, 2026 and you can watch it on Jodi’s YouTube channel at the link below: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLSyXJdjUav7pKfGin5gbYIPJcQ0fAkxLO&si=hCAxYXD3fkjxg7Mh I also want to thank all of you for listening to the podcast and for reaching out to share your lived experiences and your suggestions for topics to address on the podcast. I am hopeful that the next phase of my work will continue to have a positive impact on neurodiverse couples and individual partners and that we will all continue to learn about ourselves and our partners and create lives that are filled with peace, joy, love, and purpose.❤️🙏

This wonderful conversation is one of the amazing panel discussions from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference. The panelists are: - Daniel Dashnaw (danieldashnaw@hushmail.com or danieldashnawcouplestherapy.com) - Jill Corvelli (jill@jillcorvelli.com or ndpartnersinstitute.com) - Barbara Grant (bg-hc.com) - Jessie Mahoney (jessie@jessiemahoneymd.com or pauseandpresence.com) The topics discussed include the following: - What do therapists and coaches working with Neurodiverse couples need to know? - Differentiated dialogue - Nervous system regulation - Understanding and Working on rejection sensitivity dysphoria (RSD). - How to motivate a partner to begin individual or couples therapy. - The importance and value of a curiosity mindset. - Setting boundaries using B.I.F.F. communication (brief, informative, friendly, but firm). - Communicate what you’re saying yes to, not just what you don’t want. - Both partners share the responsibility for the “air space” in the relationship. - Paragraphing - What would love/respect do? - Lean into hope and decide what your intention is in the relationship. - Understanding that your nervous system may need some care and recovery. If you would like to get unlimited access to all the video recordings from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference please click here and use code Podcast50 to get $50 off the price of the conference videos. When you buy access to the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference videos you will also receive a code to get 3 FREE bonuses: unlimited access to the videos from the 2023 Neurodiverse Love Conference sessions, the digital version of the Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards and Neurodiverse Love Conversation Card Workbook.

The four part Neurodiverse Love Docuseries shows how 4 neurodiverse couples navigate different communication styles, emotional needs, sensory and physical intimacy differences, and employment and special interests. In addition, three therapists/coaches who work with neurodiverse couples share strategies, tools and insights that can help neurodiverse couples navigate their strengths, challenges and differences. Check out the first 2 episodes here: https://www.neurodiverselove.com/the-documentary ————————————————————————- During this episode relationship therapist and coach Karen Doherty shares how she has been helping neurodiverse couples better understand each other for more than two decades. During this conversation, Karen specifically addresses the challenges Neurodiverse couples have with communication, emotional regulation, couple equality/fit and intimacy and empathy issues. Karen is based in the UK and her new Netflix series called “Blue Therapy” aired on March 4, 2026. You can learn more about the services Karen offers here.

The intro and first two episodes of the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries are available here. The first episode addresses communication differences and the second episode focuses on emotional reciprocity. Through this four part series, you will meet four Neurodiverse couples who share some of their lived experiences, lessons learned and the strengths, challenges and differences they’ve had in their marriages. None of the couples knew they were in a mixed neurotype relationship when they married and each shares some of the experiences that have led to more connection, understanding and acceptance of each other’s differences. In addition, you will hear from three coaches/therapists who work with Neurodiverse couples. They share their perspective on why challenges may be occurring and also provide strategies and tools for increasing connection. To contribute to this very important project or watch the intro to the couples and therapists/coaches and the first two episodes click here. —————————————————————————- During this episode, Sarah Hendrickx talks about the new book that she co-authored with her daughter Jess. The book is titled “Could I Really Be Autistic? Your First Steps to Self Discovery”. The topics addressed include the following: ​Unpacking communication, emotions, and common misconceptions of adult autism. ​Exploring physical and mental health conditions linked to Autism and ADHD. ​How the pandemic and past rules shaped ND diagnoses. ​Assessment process and value of self discovery. ​Building self awareness and mutual support in ND relationships. You can learn more about the assessments available with Sarah’s daughter, Jess Hendrickx here.

This episode is a very informative panel discussion from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference. The following individuals participated in this conversation and I hope you find the information they shared helpful. - Stephanie Holmes (www.holmsasr.com) - Grace Malonai (www.Therathrive.com) - Jodi Carlton (www.Jodicarlton.com) - Dan Jones (www.Theaspieworld.com) - Laura Schreiner (www.Laurasnc.com) Trigger warning: the topic of abuse is discussed during this presentation, so if this is triggering please skip this episode. The panelists address so many important topics that neurodivergent individuals and Neurodiverse couples may be interested in exploring, including: ​Demand avoidance ​Rejection sensitivity dysphoria ​Impostor syndrome ​The impact of different religious beliefs in ND relationships ​Forgiveness, even when behaviors may still be occurring or learning new ways of functioning together? ​Calling out uncomfortable behaviors and/or making accommodations ​Self awareness vs masking ​Using dysregulation as a weapon ​The importance of reciprocity in a healthy relationship ​Struggling with Theory of Mind. ​Using the yes/and approach. If you haven’t had a chance to watch the first two episodes of the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries I hope you will check them out today. Episode 1 addresses Communication and Episode 2 addresses Emotional Reciprocity. if you are interested in getting lifetime access to all the video presentations from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference click here for more information.

Dr. Margaret Cochran is a clinical social worker and life coach, who helps high-achieving women break patterns involving narcissistic bosses, family dynamics, or draining relationships. With over 25 years of experience, she empowers clients to find clarity, set boundaries, and create lasting change. During this episode, Dr. Cochran shares valuable information about developing intimacy skills. In addition, she addresses the following: ​Discarding shoulds and coulds. ​ Cultivating gratitude. ​ Setting boundaries and recognizing toxic relationships. ​ Mastering self-regulation. ​ Understanding your partners unique communication style. ​ Fostering autonomy and bridging different perspectives. ​ Reducing political white noise. Finding joy in your ND relationship. You can learn about the services Dr. Cochran offers here .

The first two episode s of the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries are now available. Through this four part series, you will meet four Neurodiverse couples who share some of their lived experiences, lessons learned and the strengths, challenges and differences they’ve had in their marriages. None of the couples knew they were in a mixed neurotype relationship when they married and each shares some of the experiences that have led to more connection, understanding and acceptance of each other’s differences. In addition, you will hear from three coaches/therapists who work with Neurodiverse couples. They share their perspective on why challenges may be occurring and also provide strategies and tools for increasing connection. Watch the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries on YouTube. ————————————————————————— During this podcast episode Dr. Jesse Mahoney shares what inspired her TEDx talk, “What Would Love Do?” and how that question changed her neurodiverse relationship and her work. Jessie and her husband Mark are one of the four ND couples featured in the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries and she shares what she hopes the Docuseries will offer. In addition she shares why neurodivergence can go unrecognized for so long — even in medical families? She also discusses what she means by solving human problems without the human element. Jessie also explains what she means by the phrase “approach determines landing” and also shares how nervous systems shape communication, conflict, and connection? You can learn more about Dr. Mahoney’s work here.

The first episode of the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries was released on February 14, 2026. Through this four part series, you will meet four Neurodiverse couples who share some of their lived experiences, lessons learned and the strengths, challenges and differences they’ve had in their marriages. None of the couples knew they were in a mixed neurotype relationship when they married and each shares some of the experiences that have led to more connection, understanding and acceptance of each other’s differences. In addition, you will hear from three coaches/therapists who work with Neurodiverse couples. They share their perspective on why challenges may be occurring and also provide strategies and tools for increasing connection. Watch the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries on YouTube. —————————————————————————- Luis Mojica is a Somatic Educator, certified in Holistic Nutrition, Somatic Experiencing, and Life Coaching. With years of experience working at the intersection of trauma and healing, Luis has become a sought after teacher and speaker in his field. He reaches thousands of students annually through his online courses and webinars, and hosts the Holistic Life Navigation Podcast. You can learn more about his forthcoming book —“Food Therapy: Conscious Eating to Navigate Anxiety, Stress, and Trauma (publishing April 28, 2026 with Hay House)" at the link below: https://www.holisticlifenavigation.com/the-book You can also learn about the other resources Luis has available at www.holisticlifenavigation.com or you can follow him on Instagram @holistic.life.navigation During this episode Luis shares so much valuable information about the impact of food on our bodies and brains. He also shares about his ADHD diagnosis and his journey and his path to somatic discovery. Luis also provides important information about the following topics: -Unpacking the neurodivergent brain gut connection. - How food choices transform your relationships and mood. - Brain and gut inflammation - Microbiome synthesizes your neurotransmitters. - Foods that impact dopamine. - The impact of stimulants. - Food’s ability to mitigate stress. Stimulants, depressors and balancers. - Somatic eating: feeling the impact of foodon your body. - How diet creates space for trauma healing. - Co-regulation with food.

The first episode of the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries was released on February 14, 2026. Through this four part series, you will meet four Neurodiverse couples who share some of their lived experiences, lessons learned and the strengths, challenges and differences they’ve had in their marriages. None of the couples knew they were in a mixed neurotype relationship when they married and each shares some of the experiences that have led to more connection, understanding and acceptance of each other’s differences. In addition, you will hear from three coaches/therapists who work with Neurodiverse couples. They share their perspective on why challenges may be occurring and also provide strategies and tools for increasing connection. To contribute to this very important project or watch the first episode click here. —————————————————————————- During this episode with Sarah Swenson you will have an opportunity to listen to another wonderful session from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference. Sarah shares her expertise working with neurodiverse couples and discusses some of the issues that many couples may be dealing with and need some guidance on. The topics addressed include: - Misinterpreting each other‘s intent - How differences in emotional intensity can contribute to arguments for neurodiverse couples - Challenges with alexithymia and interoception - How unspoken expectations and assumptions can bring about misunderstandings - How timing can impact your conversations and the importance of transition time - The impact of different processing speeds - Facial expressions may not match thinking - Bean theory as an energy gauge - How sensory sensitivity and overload can impact a conversation You can learn more about Sarah and the services she offers through her website at: TheNeurodiverseCouple.com - About Sarah Swenson LMHC

The first episode of the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries was released on February 14, 2026. Through this four part series, you will meet four Neurodiverse couples who share some of their lived experiences, lessons learned and the strengths, challenges and differences they’ve had in their marriages. None of the couples knew they were in a mixed neurotype relationship when they married and each shares some of the experiences that have led to more connection, understanding and acceptance of each other’s differences. In addition, you will hear from three coaches/therapists who work with Neurodiverse couples. They share their perspective on why challenges may be occurring and also provide strategies and tools for increasing connection. To contribute to this very important project or to learn more about the docuseries click here. —————————————————————————- This is another great presentation from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference. During this session with Grace Myhill, MSW you will learn strategies and tools for better understanding and managing PDA; different emotional reciprocity needs; sensory sensitivities; managing conflict and special interests. To learn more about Grace and the services she offers you can check out her website.

The first episode of the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries was released on February 14, 2026. Through this four part series, you will meet four Neurodiverse couples who share some of their lived experiences, lessons learned and the strengths, challenges and differences they’ve had in their marriages. None of the couples knew they were in a mixed neurotype relationship when they married and each shares some of the experiences that have led to more connection, understanding and acceptance of each other’s differences. In addition, you will hear from three coaches/therapists who work with Neurodiverse couples. They share their perspective on why challenges may be occurring and also provide strategies and tools for increasing connection. To contribute to this very important project or to learn more about the docuseries click here. —————————————————————————- This is another fantastic presentation from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference. During this episode you will learn from Rev. Dr. Stephanie Holmes and Rev. Dan Holmes who are not only ordained ministers but a happily married neurodiverse couple of 30 years! Stephanie & Dan coach couples primarily who are faith-based and will share how the role of faith can help build connection and intimacy in the neurodiverse couple or how the rules, roles and rigidity of religion can bring disconnection in the neurodiverse relationship. Stephanie and Dan Holmes write from lived experience as a NeuroDiverse Christian Couple (NDCC) as well as professional experience working with NDCCs. Their first book, written with their adult children, Embracing the Autism Spectrum: Finding Hope & Joy Navigating the NeuroDiverse Family Journey focuses on their parenting journey of neurodivergent children and discovering their own neurodiversity in marriage. Dr. Stephanie C. Holmes received her bachelor's degree in psychology from Campbell University, her Master's in counseling from Liberty University, and her doctorate in education from Abilene Christian University. She is an ordained minister, author, autism researcher, speaker, and certified autism specialist. When her daughter Sydney was diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome, her world and focus changed from a thriving marriage and family therapy practice to a world of Individualized Education Programs, 504 educational plans, and understanding how to help students and individuals with challenges and needs in the classroom and the church setting. She is the owner and founder of Autism Spectrum Resources for Marriage & Family, LLC, and she and Dan are co-founders of The International Association of NeuroDiverse Christian Marriage, LLC, and the podcast NeuroDiverse Christian Couples. Dan Holmes is a seasoned leader with a rich background in systems architecture, design, and consulting. He received his bachelor's degree in management information systems from The University of Charlotte and his Masters in computer science through The Georgia Institute of Technology. He is also a professional coach who guides Neurodivergent men, helping them harness their unique potential in personal and professional spheres. These dual roles allow him to integrate innovative thinking with empathy, fostering a culture of understanding and driving holistic growth. Dan is an ordained minister, Master Life Coach, and has served in church ministry through band ministry, small group leadership and board leadership. He received his own identification on the spectrum in 2019. Their book, Uniquely Us is based on published research from Dan's later-in-life adult autism diagnosis and focuses on faith, marriage and autism. It then examines how neurodiversity and faith create a complex relationship dynamic for NeuroDiverse Christian Couples. If you want to continue to learn about NDCCs, join Stephanie & Dan on their podcast, NeuroDiverse Christian Couples at: www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com.

The first episode of the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries will be released on February 14, 2026. Through this four part series, you will meet four Neurodiverse couples who share some of their lived experiences, lessons learned and the strengths, challenges and differences they’ve had in their marriages. None of the couples knew they were in a mixed neurotype relationship when they married and each shares some of the experiences that have led to more connection, understanding and acceptance of each other’s differences. In addition, you will hear from three coaches/therapists who work with Neurodiverse couples. They share their perspective on why challenges may be occurring and also provide strategies and tools for increasing connection. To contribute to this very important project or to learn more about the docuseries click here. —————————————————————————- This episode is another wonderful presentation from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference. During this session you will discover the unique strengths, strategies, and insights that successful neurodiverse couples use to navigate their relationships. Eva A. Mendes explores practical tools and must-know tips that real couples have shared to help their relationships grow and endure. More specifically you will learn:✨ Proven techniques to enhance connection and communication✨ Creative solutions for managing sensory and emotional differences✨ A roadmap to build your own relationship toolkit In addition, you will learn actionable exercises and discussion prompts to apply these best-kept secrets in your own relationship while also being inspired by real stories and empowered to create lasting love! Eva A. Mendes is a world-renowned therapist, author, and couples counselor specializing in autism, ADHD, and neurodiverse relationships. With a focus on autistic adults, individuals with ADHD, gifted individuals, and LGBTQ clients, she helps diverse clients navigate the complexities of neurodiversity. Eva trained extensively at AANE and has authored several influential books, including Marriage and Lasting Relationships with Asperger’s Syndrome, Gender, Sexuality, and Autism and her most recent book Conversations on Love and Autism. Her Heart of Autism blog on Psychology Today offers practical advice for neurodiverse individuals and couples. Learn more at www.eva-mendes.com or contact her at eva@eva-mendes.com. —————————————————————————- To learn more about the resources and services Mona offers you can check out her website at: www.neurodiverselove.com If you would like to buy unlimited access to all 30+ video sessions from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference click here and use code Podcast50 to get $50 off. With your purchase you will also get these FREE BONUSES: unlimited access to the 27 video sessions from the 2023 Neurodiverse Love Conference, the Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards and Workbook. If you have any questions or need additional information please email: neurodiverselove4u@gmail.com

The first episode of the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries will be released on February 14, 2026. Through this four part series, you will meet four Neurodiverse couples who share some of their lived experiences, lessons learned and the strengths, challenges and differences they’ve had in their marriages. None of the couples knew they were in a mixed neurotype relationship when they married and each shares some of the experiences that have led to more connection, understanding and acceptance of each other’s differences. In addition, you will hear from three coaches/therapists who work with Neurodiverse couples. They share their perspective on why challenges may be occurring and also provide strategies and tools for increasing connection. To contribute to this very important project or to learn more about the docuseries click here. —————————————————————————- This episode is another fantastic session from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference. Caron Starobin, LCSW identifies how neurodivergence shows up in intimate relationships, what this means for couples in relationships where neurodivergence is in the mix, and the tools and concepts from Relational Life Therapy that constructively and compassionately nurtures relational living with a neurodiversity affirming mindset. Caron is a licensed clinical social worker and has been practicing for over 24 years. She owns Starobin Counseling, a group practice based in the D.C. Metropolitan area. Prior to her social work career, Caron was a professional modern dancer and choreographer based in Minneapolis for 10 years and loved engaging in community through the performing arts. Her therapeutic lens is deeply informed by family systems thinking, Relational Life Therapy, and years of training with experts in the fields of neurodevelopment and autism. Caron’s work is also informed by her experience providing individual, group, couples, and family therapy for autistic people and their family members dating back to 2001. Caron and her team at Starobin Counseling recognize that understanding differently wired brains benefits all of us. Caron is certified in Relational Life Therapy and is a trainer at the Relational Life Institute. She presents nationally on intimacy in neurodiverse couples and family relationships as well as on neurodiversity affirming therapy in general. You can learn more about Caron and the services her and her team offer here. —————————————————————————- If you would like to buy unlimited access to all 30+ video sessions from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference click here and use code Podcast50 to get $50 off. With your purchase you will also get these FREE BONUSES: unlimited access to the 27 video sessions from the 2023 Neurodiverse Love Conference, the Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards and Workbook. If you have any questions or need additional information please email: neurodiverselove4u@gmail.com

The first episode of the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries will be released on February 14, 2026. Through this four part series, you will meet four Neurodiverse couples who share some of their lived experiences, lessons learned and the strengths, challenges and differences they’ve had in their marriages. None of the couples knew they were in a mixed neurotype relationship when they married and each shares some of the experiences that have led to more connection, understanding and acceptance of each other’s differences. In addition, you will hear from three coaches/therapists who work with Neurodiverse couples. They share their perspective on why challenges may be occurring and also provide strategies and tools for increasing connection. To contribute to this very important project or to learn more about the docuseries click here. —————————————————————————- During this episode you will hear another presentation from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference. Dr. Amanda Platner shares the steps one can take if they suspect they or their significant other may be neurodivergent, including topics such as when and why someone might seek psychological testing, and how to begin to explore and understand neurodiversity. Dr. Platner also discuss the changes in the field regarding the awareness of neurodiverse relationships and how individuals, both neurodivergent and neurotypical, can take a neuroaffirming approach to undeerstanding one another. Bio: Dr. Amanda Platner is a clinical psychologist who specializes in working with neurodivergent individuals and their loved ones across the lifespan. Dr. Platner completed postdoctoral fellowships through Emory University and Harvard University and she currently works at the Emory Autism Center where she is the Director of Psychological Intervention Services and the Psychology Training Program. She directs the myLIFE social engagement program for autistic adults, conducts individual, group, and couples counseling, and does both diagnostic and neuropsychological testing for individuals across the lifespan. Dr. Platner's favorite part of her work is getting to learn with and from all of the clients she interacts with. You can contact Dr. Platner at the link below: https://med.emory.edu/departments/psychiatry/autism/index.html —————————————————————————— If you would like to buy unlimited access to all 30+ video sessions from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference click here and use code Podcast50 to get $50 off. With your purchase you will also get these FREE BONUSES: unlimited access to the 27 video sessions from the 2023 Neurodiverse Love Conference, the Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards and Workbook. If you have any questions or need additional information please email: neurodiverselove4u@gmail.com

The first episode of the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries will be released on February 14, 2026. Through this four part series, you will meet four Neurodiverse couples who share some of their lived experiences, lessons learned and the strengths, challenges and differences they’ve had in their marriages. None of the couples knew they were in a mixed neurotype relationship when they married and each shares some of the experiences that have led to more connection, understanding and acceptance of each other’s differences. In addition, you will hear from three coaches/therapists who work with Neurodiverse couples. They share their perspective on why challenges may be occurring and also provide strategies and tools for increasing connection. To contribute to this very important project or to learn more about the docuseries click here. —————————————————————————— During this episode you will hear another presentation from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference. Greg Fuqua reviews the most common and important dynamic patterns he sees in ND relationships. He also reviews ways of empowering healthier patterns of growth and understanding in ND couples. More specifically GRE addresses the following topics: ADHDer’s and Autistics; The magnetism of ND polarities; Emotional Dynamics; Enmeshment vs Ownership; Co-regulation vs Self-regulation; Pursuer/avoidant; Communication Dynamics; Nuanced vs Literal; Emotional Content/Context vs Factual and Logistical Content. Greg Fuqua is a Licensed Mental Health Therapist (LMHC) in the state of Iowa and runs Divergent Counseling, Coaching and Consulting LLC that supports neurodiverse couples, neurodivergent issues, therapists and others nationwide/worldwide through counseling, trainings, consultations and coaching. He is a certified Autism Spectrum Disorder Clinical Specialist (ASDCS); a level 2 trained Neurodiverse Couples Therapist and identifies as autistic himself. Greg has appeared as a special guest and 2-time season co-host of the “Neurodiverse Love” Podcast and he is the Co-host of the “Neurodivergent Connections” YouTube channel with Mona Kay and Scott Simpson. Greg specializes in working with Autistics, ADHDers and neurotypes of all kinds, including Neurodiverse (ND) Couples, ND families, transgender and LGBTQ clients and DID, OSDD or plurality/multiplicity in clients. Greg is a trauma informed therapist and an Internal Family Systems (IFS) practitioner. You can learn more about Greg at: https://www.gregfuqua.com —————————————————————————— If you would like to buy unlimited access to all 30+ video sessions from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference click here and use code Podcast50 to get $50 off. With your purchase you will also get these FREE BONUSES: unlimited access to the 27 video sessions from the 2023 Neurodiverse Love Conference, the Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards and Workbook. If you have any questions or need additional information please email: neurodiverselove4u@gmail.com

If you would like to learn more about the resources Mona offers for individuals or couples you can check out her website at: www.neurodiverselove.com. The first episode of the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries will be released on February 14, 2026. Through this four part series, you will meet four Neurodiverse couples who share some of their lived experiences, lessons learned and the strengths, challenges and differences they’ve had in their marriages. None of the couples knew they were in a mixed neurotype relationship when they married and each shares some of the experiences that have led to more connection, understanding and acceptance of each other’s differences. In addition, you will hear from three coaches/therapists who work with Neurodiverse couples. They share their perspective on why challenges may be occurring and also provide strategies and tools for increasing connection. To contribute to this very important project or to learn more about the docuseries click here. —————————————————————————— This episode is another presentation from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference. During this episode Jodi Carlton will challenge the traditional paradigm of neurodiversity as a “mental illness” or “disorder” and reframe it as an essential aspect of human identity and neurotype diversity. Drawing on emerging research and decades of personal and professional experience with neurodiversity, Jodi will explore how pathologizing neurodivergence perpetuates stigma and ableism whereas embracing neurodiversity as a neurotype fosters acceptance, inclusion, and connection. Through the information shared you will gain insight into the shift away from deficit-based models and toward approaches that celebrate neurodiversity. The information Jodi shares will inspire a fresh perspective, equipping you with tools to foster change. Jodi Carlton, MEd is a neurodiverse relationship expert with over two decades of experience helping individuals and couples worldwide navigate the complexities of neurodiverse relationships. Drawing on her personal experience with ADHD and her deep connections with neurodivergent partners, family, and friends, Jodi is a passionate advocate for transforming societal perceptions of neurodiversity. She is the creator of an innovative model for improving communication in neurodiverse relationships and is the founder of a private association for thought leaders in the field of neurodiversity. Jodi is currently writing her first book, which delves into the evolving paradigm shift surrounding neurodiversity. Through private and group coaching, online quizzes, courses, videos, articles, and her podcast, “YOUR Neurodiverse Relationship,”, Jodi empowers professionals, individuals, couples, and families to understand and embrace neurodiversity in their own lives. Visit her online at JodiCarlton.com YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/jodicarlton LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/jodicarlton —————————————————————————— If you would like to buy unlimited access to all 30+ video sessions from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference click here and use code Podcast50 to get $50 off. With your purchase you will also get these FREE BONUSES: unlimited access to the 27 video sessions from the 2023 Neurodiverse Love Conference, the Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards and Workbook. If you have any questions or need additional information please email: neurodiverselove4u@gmail.com

This episode is a session from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference where Dr. Ashley Grubbs describes common sensory issues that come up in sex and the difficulty this can create in relationships for both people. Whether it is not tolerating moisture, struggling to enjoy kissing, or feeling overwhelmed with heat, sensory differences are a major impact on sexuality and can derail intimacy quickly. After a brief overview, Dr. Grubbs provides solutions for these different problems so that sex can feel accessible again. Dr. Ashley Grubbs is an Licensed Professional Counselor specializing in neurodiversity and sex therapy. She works to ensure couples with different neurotypes have the tools needed to improve their intimacy and connection in a way that works for them. She received her Bachelor’s degree from Texas State University, Master’s degree at University of North Texas at Dallas, and PhD in Clinical Sexology. Her dissertation, Blending the Brains will be published as a practical tool for couples. If you want to learn more about Dr. Grubbs or the services she provides you can check out her website below: www.blueharbortherapy.com —————————————————————————— If you are interested in buying lifetime access to all the video sessions from the 2023 or 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference click here. If you would like to learn more about the other resources Mona offers, including support groups, coaching and the Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards and Workbook you can check out her website at: www.neurodiverselove.com

If you would like to learn more about the resources Mona offers including support groups, coaching and the Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards and Workbook you can check out her website below: https://www.neurodiverselove.com/ During this session from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference, Lida Far provides an insightful exploration of the unique challenges and opportunities that neurodivergent individuals encounter in the dating world. Discover how to communicate your needs effectively, manage anxiety, and build confidence as you step into the dating scene. Whether you’re new to dating or looking to enhance your approach, this episode offers some valuable insights and support tailored specifically for the neurodivergent community. Lida’s specialty lies in empowering young adults/adults who feel stuck in their personal and relational growth, as well as working with couples and entrepreneurs. She is dedicated to guiding individuals and couples through challenges in their relationships and life transitions, while also providing support and empowerment to high-achieving individuals seeking personal and professional fulfillment. Additionally, she specialize in sex therapy, offering a safe and non-judgmental space to address intimacy and sexual health concerns within relationships. She is also committed to neurodiversity-affirming care, ensuring that all clients receive understanding and tailored support regardless of their neurodiverse experiences. You can learn more about Lida’s work at her website below: https://crystalcounselingandcoaching.com/

If you would like to learn more about the resources Mona has available, including support groups, and the Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards and Workbook you can check out her website here. Many couples Paul Micallef works with experience conflict due to differing emotional styles and unmet emotional needs. These types of emotional misunderstandings can leave us feeling alone, unseen, unheard, unvalued. So how can we reconnect, and bridge the gap, and increase the level of emotional intimacy? During this episode from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference, Paul will address: ​How to effectively communicate your emotional needs. ​How to deal with a partner who is uncomfortable expressing emotion. ​How to avoid common traps that lead your partner to shutdown and withdraw. Paul is an autistic life coach, speaker, facilitator, and trainer, with a passion for neurodiversity and emotional intelligence. Leveraging his own lived experience, as well as insights gained from many years working with the autistic community, Paul seeks to promote emotional and psychological safety by bridging the empathy gap between mainstream and neurodivergent culture. Since discovering his own autism at the age of 30, Paul has worked in a variety of mentoring and educational roles helping parents, students, and teachers, to understand the ‘human side’ of autism. His YouTube channel, Autism From The Inside, has over 400,000 subscribers, and his annual online Lived Experience Autism Summit brings dozens of actually autistic speakers to a global audience. You can learn more about Paul here.

If you are interested in learning more about the resources Mona offers you can check out her website here. If you would like to buy lifetime access to all 31 video sessions from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference click here. ————————————————————————- During this session from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference, Clare Bates talks about how we can better support autistic people with their relationship and sexuality needs, based on what they have said matters most to them. Clare shares key findings from research and highlights the challenges autistic people face when it comes to relationships, as well as the type of support they want. She also talks about the training that she and colleagues have developed for social care staff to help them provide more meaningful, person-centred support. You can find more about this work in the Autistic Loving section of the Supported Loving Toolkit. Bio: Claire Bates, is a neurodivergent researcher and leader (and founder) of the UK’s Supported Loving Network, which focuses on improving how social care supports people with sexuality and relationships. Through the network, she’s created a space for sharing best practice, training, and resources to help staff provide more person-centered and rights-based support. Claire is also an active researcher in the field of sexuality and disability, looking at the barriers people with learning disabilities and autistic people face when it comes to building and maintaining relationships. Her work brings together real-world experience and research to push for better support and to make sure people’s voices and rights are at the center of everything.