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Remodeled Love is a podcast whose mission is to help expand the cultural narrative on healthy relationships, polyamory, parenthood, and love. It is produced and hosted by polyamorous mama, Jessica Daylover, and most often co-hosted with her husband and babydaddy, Joseph Daylover (and beginning in 2024, her whole polycule!) You can find Remodeled Love on all major social media platforms, @RemodeledLove, and online at www.remodeledlove.com.
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Jessica Daylover and Skylar Mundy are back to yap, gossip, overshare, and accidentally stumble into some genuinely profound polyamory wisdom along the way. They talk dating married people, avoiding abandonment wounds by...apparently repeatedly dating people who don't live locally, the erotic power of a man who knows how to fucking communicate, spontaneous hookups in magical Redwood treehouses, why flowers dying is actually hot, and the joy of flirting with people simply because they’re cute. They also get into the relationship escalator, impermanence, grief, curiosity, parallel polyamory, and the radical concept of not torturing yourself in the name of being a “good” polyamorous partner . Plus: Skylar has officially entered her abundance era with her queer, feminist art landing in Spencer’s stores around America, Jessica finally finished the two-year saga of All My Friends Are Best , and the two of them brainstorm what may be the world’s next great relationship advice show: Dump Him , where the answer is always, inevitably, dump him. Follow @Femmmeow on all platforms Join the Patreon for exclusive content and podcast episodes Join Remodeled Love's free newsletter for some exciting upcoming announcements: Get 30% off Rituals For Connection
IT'S A REMODELED LOVE PODCAST TAKEOVER! Featuring our two favorite Black polyam icons, Chaneé Jackson Kendall and Evita Sawyers. Check out Evita's Website Check out Chaneé's Website --- 00:00 Introduction and Personal Signals 02:54 Celebrating Black History Month and Polyamory 06:01 Building Community in Non-Monogamy 09:02 Navigating Ideological Differences in Polyamory 12:01 The Importance of Friendships in Non-Monogamy 15:04 Creating Spaces for Black Polyamory 18:03 The Metamour Bill of Rights 20:57 Cultivating Compersion in Relationships 24:03 The Rise of Polyamory During the Pandemic 27:00 Defining Polyamory and Community Integrity 30:02 The Evolution of Non-Monogamous Practices 33:11 Current Projects and Future Directions 35:54 Reflections on Black Polyamory and Closing Thoughts
This episode is brought to you by BEDucated . Sex is a skill, and BEDucated is where you learn it. Click the link below, take the quiz, and and get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness. https://beducate.me/pd2606-remodeled *** It's here (finally), it's queer (always), and it's definitely NSFW (at least without headphones...). In this episode Jessica and 4 of the guests from her legendary 40th birthday orgy dig into their personal histories with sex parties, what lead them to this unique event, and a play-by-play tea-spilling session of one of the most magical nights of their lives. So strap in, and strap on if you're gay...cuz this episode is gonna take you on a ride. GOOD NEWS: You can hire Ali to produce your play party or help bring your fantasy to life! You can also purchase her Custom "Play Party Intake Form Template", and "Play Party Final Details Email Template" — All info here . Remodeled Love presents: How To Throw A Sex Party (Even A Demisexual, Neurodivergent, First-Timer Will Love) [workshop] Interested in seeing the spicy content filmed at the party? Subscribe to our spicy channel for free, and purchase videos PPV when they come out. Follow Evita Sawyers online — all links at evitasawyers.com . Follow Skylar Mundy online — and shop her store shopfemmmeow.com . Follow Holly on Instagram . Subscribe to Remodeled Love's free newsletter/substack (we promise we don't spam).
Hello, Lovers! Wow, are we really back after an 8 month hiatus? We feel a bit rusty but we are soooo ready to recommit to this damn In this episode we give you: Updates on all the amazing new workshops from Remodeled Love Updates on our personal lives, including the most pumpkiny development from Datty Daylover... Intrusive Thots about AI and Endocrine Disruptors and for "Dear Daylovers" (our polyamorous advice portion of the podcast) we talk about one listener's battle to find the line between "care" and "enabling" within their polycule. *** You can submit a polyamorous advice question at RemodeledLove.com/DearDaylovers ! *** Support us on Patreon and get access to exclusive content and a behind-the-scenes look at our life! Join Nuclear Fusion Network
What is a yuletide? Is Matty Healy the Jess Mariano to Taylor's Rory? Is Joe reading smut?? Also: Joe's breakup, parenting fails, polyamorous guilt, Jes is over avoidants (for real this time), and Jes went on a date with a girl! *** You can submit a polyamorous advice question at RemodeledLove.com/DearDaylovers ! ***Support us on Patreon and get access to exclusive content and a behind-the-scenes look at our life! Nuclear Fusion's alpha network is live, and you can join or donate now! Check out all the new virtual courses we have for you, like Rituals for Connection , The Reluctant Polyamorist , and How to Throw A Sex Party even a Demisexual, Neurodivergent, or First-Timer will Love on our website ! USE CODE APPRECIATION80 FOR 80% OFF "RITUALS FOR CONNECTION"!
It is really important to Jes that you know this episode was recorded BEFORE Thanksgiving and that it was supposed to be out BEFORE Thanksgiving, and she's really sorry it's only coming out now on Christmas Eve Eve. Good ol' ADHD and general overwhelm. Also, now that the live event for "Off the Table" has passed, you can still purchase the recording ! In this episode, The Daylovers and friend-of-the-pod Chaneé Jackson Kendall sit down to hash out some of the common difficulties and pitfalls polyamorous folks face during the holiday season. They answer 3 listener emails, including one about working through the emotions of your partner missing traditions to be with their new partner, one about navigating the holidays as a hinge, and one about being the new partner entering into an established family's holidays. Head to bit.ly/chaneespeak s to learn more about Chaneé's offerings and sign up for her newbie cohort. You can submit a polyamorous advice question at RemodeledLove.com/DearDaylovers ! *** Support us on Patreon and get access to exclusive content and a behind-the-scenes look at our life! Nuclear Fusion's alpha network is live, and you can join or donate now! Check out all the new virtual courses we have for you, like Rituals for Connection , The Reluctant Polyamorist , and How to Throw A Sex Party even a Demisexual, Neurodivergent, or First-Timer will Love on our website ! USE CODE APPRECIATION80 FOR 80% OFF "RITUALS FOR CONNECTION"!
Episode highlights: There are only 8 (actually 3 now) tickets left for Jes and Chaneé's "You Wanna Be Polyamorous But You..." workshop on 11/2 Jes is willing to be ruined by the "Homosexual Lesbian Spirits", and also she made merch about it. Jes is back on dating apps for the first time in almost 2 years because of a tv show, and Joe is really happy for her for it Joe makes Jes late to her first first date in almost 2 years Jes suddenly has the ability to go on a first date without making the person jump through her autistic demisexual screening hoops Jes suggests Joe becomes a bull so he can fuck some hot wives This episode's Intrusive Thots include: Jes will never be free of all toxins, and Joe wonders if folks will look nostalgically back at this era You can submit a polyamorous advice question at RemodeledLove.com/DearDaylovers ! *** Support us on Patreon and get access to exclusive content and a behind-the-scenes look at our life! Nuclear Fusion's alpha network is live, and you can join or donate now! Check out all the new virtual courses we have for you, like Rituals for Connection , The Reluctant Polyamorist , and How to Throw A Sex Party even a Demisexual, Neurodivergent, or First-Timer will Love on our website ! USE CODE APPRECIATION80 FOR 80% OFF "RITUALS FOR CONNECTION"!
In this episode, Jessica and Chaneé (@chaneespeaks on all the socials) spin off of their last episode together where they talked about earning your "polyamory stripes" through "fuckin' up and fixin' it," as Chaneé says. In this convo they dive into specific mistakes they've each made over the last 10 years, and the character arcs that came out of that journey. Some themes include: -security and stability are illusions of monogamy -impulsive, addict-like behavior during NRE -the nuances of having a more intense sexual chemistry with a new partner -getting tired of your own bullshit -the role psychedelics can play in helping your non-monogamy journey -and, as always, Chaneé's giant ( . Y . ) Make sure to sign up for Chaneé's newsletter , and stay turned for a workshop from the two of us coming up soon!
Welcome to the first episode of Fusion Radio, produced and hosted by Nuclear Fusion App's CEO, Jessica Daylover. Fusion Radio is an enterprise of the Nuclear Fusion App. The Nuclear Fusion App is a project whose mission is to help folks across the world find, build, and sustain modern villages and chosen families. In this short episode, Jessica introduces you to the Nuclear Fusion App project, and the context of its existence. The alpha version of Nuclear Fusion App launches on Monday 9/23/24 across the globe. The best way to stay up-to-date is to sign up for our newsletter , and subscribing to all of our social medias, including our new podcast channel ! We are excited to see you in the network. Now, let the Fusion begin! --- Nuclear Fusion App - website Nuclear Fusion App - Instagram Nuclear Fusion App - Facebook Nuclear Fusion App - Tiktok Nuclear Fusion App - YouTube
In this episode of our podcast (now on video!) The Daylovers sit down with their beloved friend and colleague Chaneé Jackson Kendall (online at @ChaneeSpeaks). They talk about what's new with Chaneé's project "Intentional Polyamory", Remodeled Love, and the Nuclear Fusion App. They get into why there's no point to anything and, as always, a reminder that love sucks. Finally they dive into a very complex polyamory problem as part of their advice portion of the show called "Dear Daylovers". Make sure to follow Chaneé @chaneespeaks on all socials, and signup for her newsletter by subscribing for free at chaneespeaks.substack.com . You can submit a question at RemodeledLove.com/DearDaylovers ! *** Support us on Patreon and get access to exclusive content and a behind-the-scenes look at our life! Also donate to our new community-building app, Nuclear Fusion , and help us begin Phase 3 of our app build! Check out all the new virtual courses we have for you, like Rituals for Connection , The Reluctant Polyamorist , and How to Throw A Sex Party even a Demisexual, Neurodivergent, or First-Timer will Love on our website ! USE CODE APPRECIATION80 FOR 80% OFF RITUALS FOR CONNECTION!
In this episode Jes, Joe, and Dr. M sit down for a templated episode: What's New with Remodeled Love? Hot Goss (what's new in their super salacious and obviously exciting polyamorous lives?) Existential Thoughts I've Been Having Lately (the trio share the most recent existential dread that's been plaguing their brains) Dear Daylovers (the trio answer a listener advice question about polyamory) You can submit a question at RemodeledLove.com/DearDaylovers ! *** Support us on Patreon and get access to exclusive content and a behind-the-scenes look at our life! Also donate to our new community-building app, Nuclear Fusion , and help us begin Phase 3 of our app build! Check out all the new virtual courses we have for you, like Rituals for Connection , The Reluctant Polyamorist , and How to Throw A Sex Party even a Demisexual, Neurodivergent, or First-Timer will Love on our website ! USE CODE APPRECIATION80 FOR 80% OFF RITUALS FOR CONNECTION
In this episode Jessica, Joe, and Dr. M discuss all the big and new changes in the polycule, regrets they have as content creators, and the fuckery of ignorant ass people. You can hear the rest of this episode and support Remodeled Love by joining our Patreon at www.patreon.com/remodeledlove . Plus you'll receive 3 years of exclusive content when you join! You can also subscribe on Spotify to receive access to all the exclusive podcast episode.
I've been waiting so freakin' long to tell y'all that, after 43 years of monogamous marriage, my in-laws (Dr. M's parents), have discovered the joys of swinging...and now they're both big ol' bisexual sluts having the time of their lives—in their 70s! And they sat down with me and my husband in our recording studio and spilled all the tea on their adventures, how they got here, and the expansion and growth it's required. Prepare yourself for an episode that's somehow as pumpkiny as it is DIRTY, and most especially, semiology expanding. *** Support us on Patreon and get access to exclusive content and a behind-the-scenes look at our life! Also donate to our new community-building app, Nuclear Fusion , and help us begin Phase 3 of our app build! Check out all the new virtual courses we have for you, like Rituals for Connection , The Reluctant Polyamorist , and How to Throw A Sex Party even a Demisexual, Neurodivergent, or First-Timer will Love on our website ! USE CODE APPRECIATION80 FOR 80% OFF RITUALS FOR CONNECTION
Alternative episode title: Famous Last Words In this episode, The Daylovers (Jes, Joe, and Ash) talk about: *what Datty is learning in polyamory (fear of trying and failing at finding compatible partners), *what Ash is learning about parenthood and co-parenting (letting go of attachment, not trying to immediately nip things in the bud or cast judgment, learning to pause...), *what Jes is learning in polyamory, which she breaks down to what she is learning through each of her partners: >>with Joe: are we "just" gay best friends? >>with Dr. M: learning to lean into my fear of my partner's expansion, which is really just fear of my own, >>with Loverboy: (GASP. WHO IS LOVERBOY?? Find out inside this episode!) Most heatedly, they talk about the dreadful art of "Downplaying" after Joe accuses Jes of downplaying her connection with Loverboy. Downplaying in polyamory can be a really contentious topic. Downplaying can be: pretending that new connections don’t have a sexual or romantic vibe when they actually do, dampening one's excitement or hope about a new connection, dampening how you actually feel about a new connection, downplaying the possibilities of what may come, etc... This convo gets real and honest as fuck, and we're excited to bring y'all into the room with us and how we work through conflict/call each other out on our bullshit. Hear the rest of this episode, and receive access to all our exclusive episodes plus 2+ years worth of exclusive content on our Patreon: www.patreon.com/remodeledlove .
In this episode: Joe finds out Ash is having an affair with Dr. M('s pores), we talk about our journey to get Ash qualified for FMLA as a polyamorous family, and we discuss, in depth, our favorite punctuation. We also talk about what Jes and Joe are individually learning in the world of parenthood right now, and Ash shares what they are learning in the world of polyamory. There's also some other stuff about sex parties, autistic embarrassment around being "too eager", and village growing pains. *** Support us on Patreon and get access to exclusive content and a behind-the-scenes look at our life! Also donate to our new community-building app, Nuclear Fusion , and help us begin Phase 3 of our app build! Check out all the new virtual courses we have for you, like Rituals for Connection , The Reluctant Polyamorist , and How to Throw A Sex Party even a Demisexual, Neurodivergent, or First-Timer will Love on our website !
This is by far the best and most unhinged episode we've ever recorded and we're worried we may never top it. (We will.) It's honestly all over the place and we're not sure how to summarize it, but we talk about: age gap relationships, sleeping arrangements, Jes's new orgasm discovery she calls "bass orgasms", how Ash loves to listen through the vent to Jes and Dr. M boning, why Ash's pants were at half mast in the preview photo, what it's like living with partners who have boundaries around how they help with the parenting, and what you do with the thumb you just pulled out of your lover's booty... There's also lots and lots of roasting of each other and this episode ended with everyone in tears from laughing so hard. Wanna hear the rest? Join our Patreon at a level you can afford and receive access to this episode and so much more.
In this episode The Daylovers (all 4 of them!) try to catch you up on everything that happened in 2023, which was both the best and worst year of their lives. This is the first episode recorded as a nested polycule, including the notorious Dr. M! *** Support us on Patreon and get access to exclusive content and a behind-the-scenes look at our life! Also donate to our new community-building app, Nuclear Fusion , and help us begin Phase 3 of our app build! Check out all the new virtual courses we have for you, like Rituals for Connection , The Reluctant Polyamorist , and How to Throw A Sex Party even a Demisexual, Neurodivergent, or First-Timer will Love on our website !
When we left off 6 months ago (holy shit), it was right before Jessica's birthday orgy and Joe was about to meet his long distance lover, Ash, for the first time. Well, now it's 6 months later and YOU get to meet her...cuz she lives here now. And she's the best thing to ever happen to our little family. *** Support us on Patreon and get access to exclusive content! Also donate to our new community-building app, Nuclear Fusion , before August 6th, and be a part of the beta program! Check out all the new virtual courses we have for you, like Rituals for Connection , and The Reluctant Polyamorist , on our website !
In this episode, Jessica and Joe talk about how hard it was to get this episode made, the chaos created when you move two partners into your small home within a year, how hard it is to purge your home, and what the fuck is a Roth IRA. Enjoy the full episode, as well as a bunch of other exclusive content, on our Patreon ( www.patreon.com/remodeledlove ).
You may know Emily, Dedeker, and Jase as the hosts of the world-renown podcast, Multiamory. And now you can officially add 'authors' to their bio lines! Dropping May 23rd, 2023 (though available for pre-order today), "Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships" is a curated collection of the most popular communication tools, advice, and wisdom from the Multiamory podcast that have helped thousands of listeners improve their communication and create healthy relationships. In this book, you’ll learn how to: Get what you need out of conversations with your partner with the Triforce of Communication, create Microscripts that will interrupt old patterns, diffuse tension, and form better communication habits, set up a regular RADAR check-in to support the long-term health of all of your relationships, determine your unique processing style, and how it may be clashing with your partner’s, process and reconnect after an argument with Repair SHOP, and more! Learn more about their book at www.multiamory.com/book . *** Producers: Jessica Levity, Homeslice Productions Intro song: Rachael McIlhiney covering Hozier Guests: Emily, Dedeker, and Jase of Multiamory *** 🎙If you love our content and want to support us: Buy our book "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children", available at www.remodeledlove.com and in print/Kindle on Amazon ! Venmo: Jessica-levity CASHAPP: $jessicalevity PayPal: homesliceproductions@gmail.com Patreon: Patreon.com/remodeledlove …➡️Join our “Close Friends” list on IG for BTS access to our life, and ability to message us, by becoming a patron at the $5 or more level. Book a peer-to-peer polyam coaching session with The Daylovers through www.remodeledlove.com
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