Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators

Women's health is having a moment! The Cuntsultant, joins us for a rapid-fire tour through the biggest women’s health updates: PCOS gets a name change, birth control myths, why endometriosis takes 10 years to diagnose, and the push for pain management during in-office procedures, ex. UDIs. Plus vaginal estrogen's life-saving role and why women outlive their ovaries. Women weren't studied or treated seriously and that's changing. Bring this one straight to your next appointment. ✨ Special Offers: ✨ Splash Blanket! | Use code Jordan15 ProDx Health | Use JordanDnelle to save 25% Thank you to our Sponsors: Splash Blanket, Prodx, Phexx Jump to the Good Stuff: 06:30 – PCOS gets a better name 07:35 – What's happening in your ovaries with PMOS 14:26 – The metformin story that got reported to the medical board 16:48 – The evolutionary theory that PMOS might be a genetic advantage 19:03 – What birth control does to your hormones 23:39 – Why endometriosis takes 10 years to diagnose 30:15 – New endometriosis diagnostic breakthroughs in Europe 34:29 – Why pain management for in-office procedures is being taken seriously 39:35 – Vaginal estrogen's as recommendation for recurrent UTIs 42:47 – The grandmother hypothesis - why we outlive our ovaries Pleasure Highlights: PCOS has a new name: PMOS Birth control doesn't "regulate" your hormones Pain management for in-office gyno procedures is not offered upfront Vaginal estrogen now recommended for recurrent UTIs Endometriosis takes an average of 10 years to diagnose Connect with The Cuntsultant: Instagram @cvntsultant Website: TheCuntsultant.com Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your power through daily gratitude. Learn more HERE . Connect with Jordan D’Nelle: Facebook @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌TheVVVPodcast TikTok @‌jordandnelle Youtube @jordandnelle Website: Jordan D’Nelle⁠⁠ Email : JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Love this Episode? Join the Patreon: patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave a review on iTunes. Subscribe & Follow on socials! Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Podcast Youtube @jordandnelle *Disclaimer : This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated. Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations. Phexx INDICATION Phexx® is an on-demand prescription birth control used to prevent pregnancy. Phexx is not effective when used after sex. IMPORTANT SAFETY INFORMATION Rare cases (0.36%) of bladder and kidney infection have been reported. If you have a history of urinary tract problems that keep coming back, you should not use Phexx. Contact your healthcare provider if you are experiencing genitourinary side effects such as vaginal burning, itching, discharge, genital discomfort (including in male partners), yeast infection, urinary tract infection or bacterial vaginosis. Phexx does not protect against any sexually transmitted infections, including HIV. Avoid using Phexx with a vaginal ring. Avoid Phexx if you or your sexual partner is allergic to lactic acid, citric acid, potassium bitartrate, or any of the Ingredients in Phexx. Stop using Phexx If you develop an allergic reaction. For more information about Phexx, talk to your healthcare provider and see full Product Information at www.phexx.com . Please report side effects by contacting Evofem Biosciences® toll-free at 1-833-EVFMBIO or contact FDA at 1-800-FDA-1088 or www.fda.gov/medwatch . EVFM-PHX-000068

Handjobs get a bad rap, but today we're bringing them back! In this episode, certified sexologist Ashley Manta joins us to explore why hand jobs deserve more respect. We break down her go-to techniques: the Pepper Grinder, the Bottle Rocket, why a baby bottle warmer might be the most underrated tool in your nightstand, and how foreskin changes the game. We also get into what to do when your partner goes soft, why mindset matters, as well as cannabis and sex and what it's like inside Desire Cruises and Hedonism. ✨ Special Offers: ✨ Splash Blanket! | Use code Jordan15 ProDx Health | Use JordanDnelle to save 25% Thank you to our Sponsors: Splash Blanket, Prodx, Phexx Jump to the Good Stuff: 05:35 – Ashley — sexologist, author, Betty Dodson mentee 07:02 – Why hand jobs get such bad PR 09:00 – The 3 non-negotiables: two hands, lube, time 10:35 – Setting the scene - the "giver's mindset" 12:20 – Best positions 18:45 – The baby bottle warmer lube hack 22:23 – Signature moves: the Pepper Grinder & Bottle Rocket 27:06 – Foreskin 101 30:55 – Inside Desire Cruises & Hedonism 49:31 – Cannabis, CBD myths, and the indica/sativa debate Pleasure Highlights: Two hands, lube, and time are the foundation. Confidence matters more than technique. Soft doesn't mean over. Most CBD-only products are underdosed marketing. Consent and intentionality around substances are non-negotiable. Connect with Ashley Manta: Instagram @cannasexual Website : ashleymanta.com Courses : elevatedintimacy.com Book: Merry Jane's The CBD Solution: Sex: How Cannabis, CBD, and Other Plant Allies Can Improve Your Everyday Life Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your power through daily gratitude. Learn more HERE . Connect with Jordan D’Nelle: Facebook @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌TheVVVPodcast TikTok @‌jordandnelle Youtube @jordandnelle Website: Jordan D’Nelle⁠⁠ Email : JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Love this Episode? Join the Patreon: patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave a review on iTunes. Subscribe & Follow on socials! Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Podcast Youtube @jordandnelle *Disclaimer : This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated. Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations. Phexx INDICATION Phexx® is an on-demand prescription birth control used to prevent pregnancy. Phexx is not effective when used after sex. IMPORTANT SAFETY INFORMATION Rare cases (0.36%) of bladder and kidney infection have been reported. If you have a history of urinary tract problems that keep coming back, you should not use Phexx. Contact your healthcare provider if you are experiencing genitourinary side effects such as vaginal burning, itching, discharge, genital discomfort (including in male partners), yeast infection, urinary tract infection or bacterial vaginosis. Phexx does not protect against any sexually transmitted infections, including HIV. Avoid using Phexx with a vaginal ring. Avoid Phexx if you or your sexual partner is allergic to lactic acid, citric acid, potassium bitartrate, or any of the Ingredients in Phexx. Stop using Phexx If you develop an allergic reaction. For more information about Phexx, talk to your healthcare provider and see full Product Information at www.phexx.com . Please report side effects by contacting Evofem Biosciences® toll-free at 1-833-EVFMBIO or contact FDA at 1-800-FDA-1088 or www.fda.gov/medwatch . EVFM-PHX-000068

Your desire isn't broken; your nervous system is just doing its job too well. In this episode, pelvic floor PT and sex counselor Dr. Rose joins us to break down why trauma, stress, and hypervigilance can quietly tank your libido and what to actually do about it. We cover the "smoke detector" model of nervous system regulation, why desire discrepancy is normal (80% of couples deal with it), the four desire styles, and quick neuroscience-backed exercises that can shift you from a 2/10 to a 6/10 "open to intimacy" in minutes. If you've ever felt guilty for not being in the mood, you can stop “fixing” yourself and start understanding your body. ✨ Special Offers: ✨ Splash Blanket! | Use code Jordan15 ProDx Health | Use JordanDnelle to save 25% Thank you to our Sponsors: Splash Blanket, Prodx, Phexx Jump to the Good Stuff: 07:10 – From Dr. Goldstein's clinic to holistic sex coaching 16:45 – The "smoke detector" nervous system analogy 20:26 – Why sensitivity to threat isn't your fault 22:32 – The 3-step reset 34:30 – Presence as a biological need37:00 – Desire isn't a light switch — it's a car that needs gas 39:00 – The four desire styles 41:13 – Live demo: shift nervous system state in real time 45:36 – Stress vs. threat — not all stress kills desire Pleasure Highlights: Desire isn't a light switch, it's more like a car 80% of couples deal with desire discrepancy A hypersensitive nervous system isn't a personal failing You don't have to be symptom-free to feel safe Small, physical resets work fast Connect with Dr. Rose: Instagram @bewellwithrose Website Desire Quiz Provider trainings Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your power through daily gratitude. Learn more HERE . Connect with Jordan D’Nelle: Facebook @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌TheVVVPodcast TikTok @‌jordandnelle Youtube @jordandnelle Website: Jordan D’Nelle⁠⁠ Email : JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Love this Episode? Join the Patreon: patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave a review on iTunes. Subscribe & Follow on socials! Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Podcast Youtube @jordandnelle *Disclaimer : This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated. Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations. Phexx INDICATION Phexx® is an on-demand prescription birth control used to prevent pregnancy. Phexx is not effective when used after sex. IMPORTANT SAFETY INFORMATION Rare cases (0.36%) of bladder and kidney infection have been reported. If you have a history of urinary tract problems that keep coming back, you should not use Phexx. Contact your healthcare provider if you are experiencing genitourinary side effects such as vaginal burning, itching, discharge, genital discomfort (including in male partners), yeast infection, urinary tract infection or bacterial vaginosis. Phexx does not protect against any sexually transmitted infections, including HIV. Avoid using Phexx with a vaginal ring. Avoid Phexx if you or your sexual partner is allergic to lactic acid, citric acid, potassium bitartrate, or any of the Ingredients in Phexx. Stop using Phexx If you develop an allergic reaction. For more information about Phexx, talk to your healthcare provider and see full Product Information at www.phexx.com . Please report side effects by contacting Evofem Biosciences® toll-free at 1-833-EVFMBIO or contact FDA at 1-800-FDA-1088 or www.fda.gov/medwatch . EVFM-PHX-000068

Almost everything you're already doing in bed is a kink. In this episode, Alex Gay, porn star, kink educator, and host of Kink Curious , joins us to break down what kink actually means (spoiler: it's way broader than you think), why almost everyone is "kinky" without realizing it, and how shame keeps so many of us stuck. We get into the difference between a kink and a fetish, consent and communication in kink spaces, why aftercare matters just as much as the main event, and how to start exploring safely if you're kink-curious but don't know where to begin. ✨ Special Offers: ✨ Splash Blanket! | Use code Jordan15 ProDx Health | Use JordanDnelle to save 25% Thank you to our Sponsors: Splash Blanket, Prodx, Phexx Jump to the Good Stuff: 06:52 – What is a kink, really? 07:14 – Kink vs. fetish 14:27 – Why most people are "kinky" without knowing it 28:00 – Biggest misconception about kink community 31:55 – How to start exploring a kink 34:11 – Building confidence outside the bedroom 37:17 – Consent in kink scenes 41:00 – What kink taught Alex about communication and vulnerability 44:27– Aftercare 101 Pleasure Highlights: Kink is broader than most people think Confidence in kink starts outside the bedroom. Consent looks different and more intentional in kink. Aftercare isn't extra, it's part of the experience. Shame is the real barrier, not the kink itself. Connect with Alexxx: Instagram @HeyAlexGay TikTok @HeyAlexGay Facebook @HeyAlexGay YouTube @HeyAlexGay Podcast: Kink Curious Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your power through daily gratitude. Learn more HERE . Connect with Jordan D’Nelle: Facebook @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌TheVVVPodcast TikTok @‌jordandnelle Youtube @jordandnelle Website: Jordan D’Nelle⁠⁠ Email : JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Love this Episode? Join the Patreon: patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave a review on iTunes. Subscribe & Follow on socials! Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Podcast Youtube @jordandnelle *Disclaimer : This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated. Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations. Phexx INDICATION Phexx® is an on-demand prescription birth control used to prevent pregnancy. Phexx is not effective when used after sex. IMPORTANT SAFETY INFORMATION Rare cases (0.36%) of bladder and kidney infection have been reported. If you have a history of urinary tract problems that keep coming back, you should not use Phexx. Contact your healthcare provider if you are experiencing genitourinary side effects such as vaginal burning, itching, discharge, genital discomfort (including in male partners), yeast infection, urinary tract infection or bacterial vaginosis. Phexx does not protect against any sexually transmitted infections, including HIV. Avoid using Phexx with a vaginal ring. Avoid Phexx if you or your sexual partner is allergic to lactic acid, citric acid, potassium bitartrate, or any of the Ingredients in Phexx. Stop using Phexx If you develop an allergic reaction. For more information about Phexx, talk to your healthcare provider and see full Product Information at www.phexx.com . Please report side effects by contacting Evofem Biosciences® toll-free at 1-833-EVFMBIO or contact FDA at 1-800-FDA-1088 or www.fda.gov/medwatch . EVFM-PHX-000068

Your vagina has its own ecosystem, and no, that yeast on your test doesn't automatically mean infection. In this episode, The Cuntsultant breaks down the vaginal microbiome: why lactobacilli are your best friend, how your gut and hormones secretly run the show, and why "rebalance your pH" is basically meaningless advice. We get into recurrent BV, partner treatment, boric acid (plus the Poison Control call about oral sex timing), and why yogurt does NOT belong in your vagina. Honest, funny, shame-free. ✨ Special Offers: ✨ Splash Blanket! | Use code Jordan15 ProDx Health | Use JordanDnelle to save 25% Thank you to our Sponsors: Splash Blanket, Prodx, Phexx Jump to the Good Stuff: 05:57 – Who is The Cuntsultant? 07:55 – What is the vaginal microbiome and why it matters 08:30 – The gut-hormone connection 10:06 – Their Daye test results - shockingly low lactobacilli 10:50 – Yeast/mycoplasma showing up on a test doesn't always mean infection 16:41 – New guidance: BV treatment includes the partner 20:27 – Tight clothes, diet, and other everyday microbiome disruptors 29:25 – Why your vaginal pH shifts throughout your cycle 32:52 – Boric acid 101 and the Poison Control call about oral sex timing 37:36 – "Energetically bad semen" - the ex-partner BV theory Pleasure Highlights: Yeast or "weird" bacteria on a test ≠ infection. Oral probiotics can support vaginal health, but check strains. Your vaginal pH is supposed to shift throughout your cycle. Boric acid needs a 24-hour buffer before oral sex. Connect with The Cuntsultant: Instagram @thecvntsultant Website: TheCuntsultant.com Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your power through daily gratitude. Learn more HERE . Connect with Jordan D’Nelle: Facebook @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌TheVVVPodcast TikTok @‌jordandnelle Youtube @jordandnelle Website: Jordan D’Nelle⁠⁠ Email : JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Love this Episode? Join the Patreon: patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave a review on iTunes. Subscribe & Follow on socials! Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Podcast Youtube @jordandnelle *Disclaimer : This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated. Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations. Phexx INDICATION Phexx® is an on-demand prescription birth control used to prevent pregnancy. Phexx is not effective when used after sex. IMPORTANT SAFETY INFORMATION Rare cases (0.36%) of bladder and kidney infection have been reported. If you have a history of urinary tract problems that keep coming back, you should not use Phexx. Contact your healthcare provider if you are experiencing genitourinary side effects such as vaginal burning, itching, discharge, genital discomfort (including in male partners), yeast infection, urinary tract infection or bacterial vaginosis. Phexx does not protect against any sexually transmitted infections, including HIV. Avoid using Phexx with a vaginal ring. Avoid Phexx if you or your sexual partner is allergic to lactic acid, citric acid, potassium bitartrate, or any of the Ingredients in Phexx. Stop using Phexx If you develop an allergic reaction. For more information about Phexx, talk to your healthcare provider and see full Product Information at www.phexx.com . Please report side effects by contacting Evofem Biosciences® toll-free at 1-833-EVFMBIO or contact FDA at 1-800-FDA-1088 or www.fda.gov/medwatch . EVFM-PHX-000068

Not all lubes are created equal and your vagina deserves better than guesswork. Erica, regulatory affairs expert and cosmetic chemist, joins Jordan to break down everything you never knew about personal lubricant. Osmolarity, pH, hyaluronic acid, parabens, FDA clearance, fertility-safe formulas, silicone vs. water-based vs. hybrid — all of it, no fluff. If you've ever grabbed a lube off the shelf without a second thought, this episode will change that. ✨ Special Offers: ✨ Splash Blanket! | Use code Jordan15 ProDx Health | Use JordanDnelle to save 25% Thank you to our Sponsors: Splash Blanket, Prodx, Phexx Jump to the Good Stuff: 05:49 – Meet Erica: From regulatory nerd to Lube Queen 07:00 – What's actually IN your lube? 12:11 – Osmolarity explained - and why it matters more than you think 17:31 – Hyaluronic acid in lube: the glow-up your vagina didn't know it needed 23:57 – How to know if your lube has actually been FDA cleared 25:18 – Animal testing, the EU vs. FDA divide, and the cruelty-free lube dilemma 38:18 – Silicone vs. water-based vs. hybrid: which one is actually for you? 41:34 – Lube for fertility: what kills sperm and what doesn't 48:58 – The truth about parabens 53:57 – How the Erica defines pleasure Pleasure Highlights: Check for the condom claim. Osmolarity matters — especially if you're TTC or STI-aware. Silicone lube + silicone toys = a hard no. Hyaluronic acid is worth the hype. There's no one-size-fits-all lube. Connect with the Erica: Instagram @the_shecanter - Find The Cuterus Mood Mug! and the Shecanter HERE! Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your power through daily gratitude. Learn more HERE . Connect with Jordan D’Nelle: Facebook @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌TheVVVPodcast TikTok @‌jordandnelle Youtube @jordandnelle Website: Jordan D’Nelle⁠⁠ Email : JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Love this Episode? Join the Patreon: patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave a review on iTunes. Subscribe & Follow on socials! Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Podcast Youtube @jordandnelle *Disclaimer : This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated. Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations. Phexx INDICATION Phexx® is an on-demand prescription birth control used to prevent pregnancy. Phexx is not effective when used after sex. IMPORTANT SAFETY INFORMATION Rare cases (0.36%) of bladder and kidney infection have been reported. If you have a history of urinary tract problems that keep coming back, you should not use Phexx. Contact your healthcare provider if you are experiencing genitourinary side effects such as vaginal burning, itching, discharge, genital discomfort (including in male partners), yeast infection, urinary tract infection or bacterial vaginosis. Phexx does not protect against any sexually transmitted infections, including HIV. Avoid using Phexx with a vaginal ring. Avoid Phexx if you or your sexual partner is allergic to lactic acid, citric acid, potassium bitartrate, or any of the Ingredients in Phexx. Stop using Phexx If you develop an allergic reaction. For more information about Phexx, talk to your healthcare provider and see full Product Information at www.phexx.com . Please report side effects by contacting Evofem Biosciences® toll-free at 1-833-EVFMBIO or contact FDA at 1-800-FDA-1088 or www.fda.gov/medwatch . EVFM-PHX-000068

What if your sex toy belonged on a doctor's shelf? Cynthia, founder of Luxxxe Toys, joins us for a conversation that's equal parts eye-opening and empowering. We dig into why pleasure and sexual wellness aren't just connected; they're inseparable. From the gaps in women's health research to why quality matters for what goes on and in your body, Cynthia keeps it refreshingly real. Plus: AVN, award-winning products, healing after trauma, and the conversation your doctor probably isn't having with you but should be. Use code JORDANDNELLE for a 30% listener discount. Expires July 31, 2026. ✨ *Special Offers:* ✨ * Splash Blanket! * Use code * Jordan15* to save 15% * ProDx Health * Use * JordanDnelle* to save 25% Thank you to our Sponsors: Splash Blanket, Prodx, Phexx Jump to the Good Stuff: 05:03 – From real estate to sexual wellness founder 07:12 – Why pleasure and wellness are inseparable 09:51 – The gaps in women's health research 19:50 – AVN recap - what surprised Cynthia most 25:15 – The award-winning Jaxon prostate massager 30:34 – Luxury vs. budget toys - does it matter? 34:10 – Surviving sexual abuse and healing through pleasure 37:48 – First-time toy advice for the bedroom 40:33 – What Cynthia wants to normalize next 43:25 – How do you define pleasure? Pleasure Highlights: Pleasure is a health necessity, not a luxury. Women's bodies are understudied and we deserve better. The right products can support sexual healing. Toys enhance. They don't replace. Your body deserves clean, medical-grade quality. Connect with Cynthia: Instagram @luxx_toys https://www.instagram.com/luxx_toys/ https://www.luxxxe.com/ Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your power through daily gratitude. Learn more HERE . Connect with Jordan D’Nelle: Facebook @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌TheVVVPodcast TikTok @‌jordandnelle Youtube @jordandnelle www.jordandnelle.com Email : JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Love this Episode? Join the Patreon: patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave a review on iTunes. Subscribe & Follow on socials! Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcasts Spotify Podcasts : Youtube @jordandnelle *Disclaimer : This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated. Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators — normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations. Phexx INDICATION Phexx® is an on-demand prescription birth control used to prevent pregnancy. Phexx is not effective when used after sex. IMPORTANT SAFETY INFORMATION Rare cases (0.36%) of bladder and kidney infection have been reported. If you have a history of urinary tract problems that keep coming back, you should not use Phexx. Contact your healthcare provider if you are experiencing genitourinary side effects such as vaginal burning, itching, discharge, genital discomfort (including in male partners), yeast infection, urinary tract infection or bacterial vaginosis. Phexx does not protect against any sexually transmitted infections, including HIV. Avoid using Phexx with a vaginal ring. Avoid Phexx if you or your sexual partner is allergic to lactic acid, citric acid, potassium bitartrate, or any of the Ingredients in Phexx. Stop using Phexx If you develop an allergic reaction. For more information about Phexx, talk to your healthcare provider and see full Product Information at www.phexx.com . Please report side effects by contacting Evofem Biosciences® toll-free at 1-833-EVFMBIO or contact FDA at 1-800-FDA-1088 or www.fda.gov/medwatch . EVFM-PHX-000068

Is modern dating broken or are we just playing it too safe? Sexologist and soon-to-be sex therapist, Tori, joins us for a refreshingly honest conversation about why dating feels so exhausting right now. We cover the swipe-culture trap, why women keep settling for bare minimum, and the very real problem with using ChatGPT to write your texts. Tori breaks down what a real red flag looks like, why inconsistency is the number one relationship killer, and why dating yourself might be your best move yet. Plus, compliments, eye contact, and why your gym is the dating app you're not using. ✨ Special Offers: ✨ Splash Blanket! | Use code Jordan15 ProDx Health | Use JordanDnelle to save 25% Thank you to our Sponsors: Splash Blanket, Prodx, Phexx Jump to the Good Stuff: 05:23 – Meet Tori, sexologist, sex therapist, & former exotic dancer 06:17 – What even IS modern dating? The dopamine swipe trap explained 07:32 – Why women are swearing off men 08:59 – The best places to meet people IRL; apps aren't it 17:27 – How to date yourself & be available while doing it 19:59 – The ChatGPT dating problem 24:04 – Red flags: what's real vs. what's noise 24:57 – Inconsistency as the #1 relationship dealbreaker 27:22 – Calling someone out without blowing it up 34:05 – How Tori defines pleasure Pleasure Highlights: Swipe culture kills depth, be intentional IRL presence beats any dating app ChatGPT can't fake real vulnerability Inconsistency is the #1 red flag Pleasure isn't always sexual, reclaim it Connect with Tori: Instagram @torirthesexcoach Website: Tori the Sex Coach Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your power through daily gratitude. Learn more HERE . Connect with Jordan D’Nelle: Facebook @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌TheVVVPodcast TikTok @‌jordandnelle Youtube @jordandnelle Website: jordandnelle.com Email : JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Love this Episode? Join Patreon for bonus content: patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave a review on iTunes. Subscribe & Follow on socials! Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Podcast Youtube @jordandnelle *Disclaimer : This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated. Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations. Phexx INDICATION Phexx® is an on-demand prescription birth control used to prevent pregnancy. Phexx is not effective when used after sex. IMPORTANT SAFETY INFORMATION Rare cases (0.36%) of bladder and kidney infection have been reported. If you have a history of urinary tract problems that keep coming back, you should not use Phexx. Contact your healthcare provider if you are experiencing genitourinary side effects such as vaginal burning, itching, discharge, genital discomfort (including in male partners), yeast infection, urinary tract infection or bacterial vaginosis. Phexx does not protect against any sexually transmitted infections, including HIV. Avoid using Phexx with a vaginal ring. Avoid Phexx if you or your sexual partner is allergic to lactic acid, citric acid, potassium bitartrate, or any of the Ingredients in Phexx. Stop using Phexx If you develop an allergic reaction. For more information about Phexx, talk to your healthcare provider and see full Product Information at www.phexx.com . Please report side effects by contacting Evofem Biosciences® toll-free at 1-833-EVFMBIO or contact FDA at 1-800-FDA-1088 or www.fda.gov/medwatch . EVFM-PHX-000068

Tia Lynn, aka Sexy Biz Babe, is back, and we're going there . In this episode, Tia joins us to explore the real world of sex parties and play spaces (spoiler: it's not what you think), how confidence in life directly mirrors confidence in the bedroom, the power of knowing your "no" before you need it, and why your intuition is the most underrated safety tool you have. Plus: Skirt Club, vetted events, and finding your community. ✨ Special Offers: ✨ Splash Blanket! | Use code Jordan15 ProDx Health | Use JordanDnelle to save 25% Thank you to our Sponsors: Splash Blanket, Prodx, Phexx Jump to the Good Stuff: 05:53 – Intro & Meet Tia 06:46 – Defining YOUR edge 08:00 – Breaking shame & building confidence 12:21 – Confidence in the bedroom 14:21 – How Tia discovered play parties 16:05 – Finding your community 18:04 – Skirt Club 101 21:57 – What actually happens at a sex party 31:07 – Vetted vs. unvetted parties 32:27 – Red flags & green flags 34:46 – Confidence & practicing your "no" 36:51 – Tia's consent story 42:05 – Defining pleasure 42:42 – Where to find Tia Pleasure Highlights: Taboo is your edge, no one else's Bedroom confidence = life confidence Play parties are community-first No expectations = better experience Vetted parties prioritize consent Practice your "no" before you need it Even confident people freeze, trust your body Speaking up protects the everyone Sex-positive friendships are real Pleasure is joy in your body Connect with Tia Lynn: Instagram @SexyBizBabe Instagram @SexyBizBabePodcast Podcast : Sexy Biz Babe TED Talk: “Break Out of Shame, Own Your Confidence” Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your power through daily gratitude. Learn more HERE . Connect with Jordan D’Nelle: Facebook @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌TheVVVPodcast TikTok @‌jordandnelle Youtube @jordandnelle jordandnelle.com Email : JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Love this Episode? Join Patreon: patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave a review on iTunes. Subscribe & Follow on socials! Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Podcast Youtube @jordandnelle *Disclaimer : This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated. Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations. PHEXX INDICATION Phexx® is an on-demand prescription birth control used to prevent pregnancy. Phexx is not effective when used after sex. IMPORTANT SAFETY INFORMATION Rare cases (0.36%) of bladder and kidney infection have been reported. If you have a history of urinary tract problems that keep coming back, you should not use Phexx. Contact your healthcare provider if you are experiencing genitourinary side effects such as vaginal burning, itching, discharge, genital discomfort (including in male partners), yeast infection, urinary tract infection or bacterial vaginosis. Phexx does not protect against any sexually transmitted infections, including HIV. Avoid using Phexx with a vaginal ring. Avoid Phexx if you or your sexual partner is allergic to lactic acid, citric acid, potassium bitartrate, or any of the Ingredients in Phexx. Stop using Phexx If you develop an allergic reaction. For more information about Phexx, talk to your healthcare provider and see full Product Information at www.phexx.com . Please report side effects by contacting Evofem Biosciences® toll-free at 1-833-EVFMBIO or contact FDA at 1-800-FDA-1088 or www.fda.gov/medwatch . EVFM-PHX-000068

Pleasure, power, and dating without apology. In this episode, Corithina (Papiiii Chulaaa), sex educator, youth empowerment leader, and self-proclaimed career dom, joins Jordan D’Nelle to explore holistic sex education, pleasure-centered learning, and radical self-ownership. They dive into dating dynamics, communication, kink, and why pleasure, not just prevention, belongs in sex education. Corinthia shares her journey through intentional “messy” dating, redefining relationships, and embracing autonomy in love and desire. You’ll also hear powerful insights on emotional availability, cultural narratives around relationships, and how to create connections that actually align with your values. Jump to the Good Stuff: 02:24 – Origin story + sex ed activism 06:20 – Why pleasure belongs in sex education 07:37 – Confidence & communication through sex ed 08:00 – Teaching men + menstrual cycle awareness 10:06 – Menopause, generational gaps, and lifelong sex education 13:51 – Dating sabbatical: lovers vs relationships 16:45 – Communication styles in modern dating: voice notes over texting 19:50 – Monogamy myths + cultural conditioning 28:26 – Friendship as a core relationship model 29:15 – Choosing partners who align with your work + identity 31:27 – Kink, BDSM, and finding compatible partners 39.17 – Dating culture, apps, and why men aren’t showing up 45:20 – The “male loneliness epidemic” + relationship skill gaps 46:41 – Pleasure, dominance, and evolving sexual exploration 48:00 – Defining pleasure + where to find Papiii Chulaaa Pleasure Highlights: Pleasure belongs in sex education Communication > dating games Monogamy isn’t the only model Friendship as core relationship Emotional availability gap Pleasure = self-ownership Connect with Papiii Chulaaa: Instagram @papiiichulaaa Instagram @corysmileyface Substack @corysmileyface Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your personal power through the practice of daily gratitude and reflection. Learn more HERE . Connect with Jordan D’Nelle: Facebook @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌TheVVVPodcast TikTok @‌jordandnelle Youtube @jordandnelle Email : JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com If you loved this Episode, please support the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast! Join the Patreon community: patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave an honest review on iTunes. Your ratings and reviews help this podcast impact more lives! Subscribe to Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators on iTunes if you haven't already! Follow Jordan D’Nelle on social media for teasers and extras! Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Podcast Youtube @jordandnelle *Disclaimer : This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated. Website Links: jordandnelle.com Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations.

Watch or listen on YouTube + all major podcast platforms! What if “good sex” has nothing to do with orgasms? In this episode, Amber, a social behavior research scientist, joins us to explore women’s sexual pleasure and why pleasure has been left out of sexual health conversations. We dive into the science and stigma around STI prevention, the role of communication and self-exploration, and how societal expectations shape our experiences in the bedroom. Amber shares insights from her research and her “Pleasure Class” workshops, unpacking why so many women struggle to identify what they actually want and how to start reclaiming it. From toys and turn-ons to boundaries and body awareness, this conversation challenges what you thought you knew about pleasure. Because great sex isn’t about performance - it’s about connection. Jump to the Good Stuff: 03:29 - Why pleasure is missing from sexual health conversations 07:55 - Why orgasms don’t equal good sex 10:41 - The pressure to perform vs. actually enjoying sex 13:07 - Why most women don’t know what they want 14:03 - Self-pleasure: the foundation for better partnered sex 16:55 - Toys: why what you like solo ≠ what you like with a partner 18:31 - How to communicate desires during sex without killing the vibe 18:49 - The “pleasure menu” concept 35:26 - Why negotiating condoms can sabotage pleasure 30:58 - Sexual pleasure as political (especially for Black women) 41:08 - Final reflections Pleasure Highlights: Pleasure has historically been excluded from sexual health, especially for women Good sex is about the entire experience , not just the orgasm Many women know what they don’t want, but struggle to name what they do want Self-exploration is essential for confident communication with partners Preferences vary widely and can change over time Trying something once isn’t enough; exploration takes repetition Solo vs. partnered pleasure can feel completely different Communication during sex is a skill and a game changer “Negotiating” needs (like condom use) can disconnect you from pleasure Being in your head = being out of your body - and your pleasure Sexual pleasure is deeply tied to identity, culture, and politics Pleasure extends beyond sex - mental, emotional, and physical well-being all play a role You don’t need permission to want pleasure but many people still feel like they do Connect with Dr. Amber Sophus: ⁠Instagram⁠ @Dr.AmberSophus Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your personal power through the practice of daily gratitude and reflection. Learn more ⁠ HERE ⁠ . Connect with Jordan D’Nelle: ⁠Facebook⁠ @‌jordandnelle ⁠Instagram⁠ @‌jordandnelle ⁠Instagram⁠ @‌TheVVVPodcast ⁠TikTok⁠ @‌jordandnelle ⁠Youtube⁠ @jordandnelle Email : JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com If you loved this Episode, please support the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast! Join the Patreon community: ⁠ patreon.JordanDnelle.com⁠ Leave an honest review on iTunes. Your ratings and reviews help this podcast impact more lives! Subscribe to Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators on iTunes if you haven't already! Follow Jordan D’Nelle on social media for teasers and extras! Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast: ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠ ⁠Spotify Podcasts⁠ ⁠Youtube @jordandnelle⁠ *Disclaimer : This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated. Website Links: ⁠jordandnelle.com⁠ Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations.

Watch or listen on YouTube + all major podcast platforms! Write your hottest fantasies into existence! In this episode, Carly, creator of Aurore, joins Jordan D’Nelle to explore the power of smart, sexy erotica for women. Carly shares why women often crave erotica over visual porn, how it fuels imagination, celebrates real bodies, and helps expand your personal “sex bucket list.” Together they dive into the power of writing your own erotica, from reliving hot memories and healing past encounters to straight-up manifesting the sex you want. Along the way, they explore how this practice not only boosts creativity and sexual confidence, but also makes communicating your desires feel easier, more natural, and a lot more fun. Jump to the Good Stuff: 03:47 – Why Women Love Erotica More Than Porn 06:05 – Healing Through Erotica 08:20 – Writing & Manifesting Sex Stories 12:15 – Plane Hookups, Gym Pick-Ups & DM Sliding Done Right 22:41 – Toxic Situationships vs. Clear Communication 25:38 – Erotica in the Bedroom 33:15 – Solo Pleasure & Slowing Down 37:30 – Defining Pleasure Pleasure Highlights: Erotica is powerful because it’s customizable. You control the fantasy, insert real bodies, and stay fully in your imagination without visual porn’s limitations or insecurities. Writing your own sex stories is both arousing and healing. Relive the good, rewrite the disappointing, and even manifest future encounters. Manifestation through writing works. Jordan’s spicy stories have literally come true; putting desires on paper (or sharing them) gives clear permission and builds consent. Good sex fuels creativity. When you’re having satisfying sex or feeling desired, your creative energy skyrockets. Communication is everything. Whether negotiating desires, setting expectations in dating, or introducing new moves inspired by erotica, be upfront about what you want (and what you don’t). Everyday pleasure matters. Slowing down and eroticizing routine moments (coffee, skincare, walking) deepens overall sexual pleasure and life satisfaction. Real, relatable stories hit hardest. Unrequited desire, yearning, and messy human connections often feel hotter than perfect fairy-tale romance. Supportive partners exist. Men who celebrate your sexual openness and even draw inspiration from your work are out there. Connect with Carly Pifer: Instagram @readaurore Substack @readaurore Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your personal power through the practice of daily gratitude and reflection. Learn more HERE . Connect with Jordan D’Nelle: Facebook @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌TheVVVPodcast TikTok @‌jordandnelle Youtube @jordandnelle Email : JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com If you loved this Episode, please support the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast! Join the Patreon community: patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave an honest review on iTunes. Your ratings and reviews help this podcast impact more lives! Subscribe to Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators on iTunes if you haven't already! Follow Jordan D’Nelle on social media for teasers and extras! Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcasts Spotify Podcasts Youtube @jordandnelle *Disclaimer : This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated. Website Links: jordandnelle.com readaurore.com Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations.

Discovering Your Pleasure with Hannah, The Libido Fairy Watch or listen on YouTube + all major podcast platforms! Struggling with “What do I want in bed?” or feeling like sex has become routine? In this episode of Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators , host Jordan D’Nelle and Hannah, The Libido Fairy, drop raw, hilarious truth bombs on reigniting desire and boosting libido in long-term relationships. They reframe sex as adult playtime: ditch porn pressure, embrace sex exploration, and treat new kinks like the floppy first pancake - try anything twice for real calibration. Listen for practical, shame-free tools for better communication, boundaries, and erotic connection. Jump to the Good Stuff: 00:00 – Intro & Meet The Libido Fairy 04:24 – Sex as Adult Playtime 06:24 – The Floppy Pancake Rule: Try Anything Twice 09:55 – Tuning Into Your Body’s Yes/No 13:05 – The Likes + Limits Checklist Magic 14:37 – Navigating Mismatched Desires 18:59 – King & Queen Nights 23:29 – Daily Rituals for Lasting Connection 43:45 – What Hannah’s Exploring Now 45:46 – Defining Pleasure Pleasure Highlights: ​Treat sex like pancakes: Try things, notice your body’s yes/no signals (tingling, squirmy), and try anything twice —first try is just calibration. ​Embrace playful exploration : Separate maintenance sex from no-pressure sex exploration sessions—fail, experiment, build desire in long-term relationships. ​Use Hannah’s free Likes + Limits Checklist (500+ items) to map desires, find overlaps, and avoid resentment. ​Unlock King/Queen Nights for focused pleasure, plus daily 6-second kisses and eye contact for sustained heat. ​Pleasure = anything that brings you more alive: sustainable joy through communication, boundaries, and prioritizing your relationship. Connect with Hannah : ​ Instagram @thelibidofairy ​ TikTok @thelibidofairy ​ Facebook @thelibidofairy ​ YouTube @thelibidofairy ​ Podcast : The Libido Fairy Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your personal power through the practice of daily gratitude and reflection. Learn more ⁠ HERE ⁠ . Connect with Jordan D’Nelle: ​ Facebook @‌jordandnelle ​ Instagram @‌jordandnelle ​ Instagram @‌TheVVVPodcast ​ TikTok @‌jordandnelle ​ Youtube @jordandnelle Email : JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com If you loved this Episode, please support the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast! ​Join the Patreon community: patreon.JordanDnelle.com ​Leave an honest review on iTunes. Your ratings and reviews help this podcast impact more lives! ​Subscribe to Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators on iTunes if you haven't already! ​Follow Jordan D’Nelle on social media for teasers and extras! Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcasts Spotify Podcasts Youtube @jordandnelle *Disclaimer : This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated. Website Links: ​ Jordan D’Nelle⁠⁠ ​ ⁠⁠Hannah’s Likes and Limits Checklist (Menu)⁠⁠ ​ ⁠⁠The Libido Fairy Webite⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.thelibidofairy.com/⁠⁠ ​ ⁠⁠The Relationship Ritual Guide⁠⁠ - includes the King and Queen Night resource Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations.

The Pleasure Evolution with Kim Airs Watch or listen on YouTube + all major podcast platforms! We're back baby!! And we’re kicking things off with an absolute legend: Kim Airs, the trailblazing sex toy pioneer who ditched her Harvard job in 1993 to open one of the first women-friendly sex shops and has been myth-busting, innovating, and celebrating pleasure ever since. In this juicy return episode, Kim spills the wild history of sex toys – from bathtub-caulk dildos to today's mind-blowing robot strokers and app-controlled vibes – while sharing hands-free orgasm secrets, breathwork magic, lazy toy-cleaning hacks, and why really letting go unlocks next-level fun. Jump to the Good Stuff: 02:40 – Welcome back after 19 months! Introducing legend Kim Airs 03:30 – From boring marriage to smut hound: Kim’s wild origin story 04:30 – Writing for On Our Backs & the spark to open Grand Opening! 05:48 – Quitting Harvard to sell “rubber dicks to girls” 11:28 – The surprising bathtub-caulk origin of silicone dildos 15:15 – Busting the silicone lube on silicone dildo myth - test it overnight! 16:48 – Lazy cleaning hacks: Baby wipes & why most “toy cleaners” are overkill 20:18 – Evolution of toys: From jelly rubber to app-controlled & discreet designs 23:05 – Penis pleasure explosion: Robot strokers, spinning, thrusting & beyond Fleshlight 27:00 – Sex dolls & AI companions - fascinating or concerning? 39:03 – Hands-free orgasms: Kim’s fMRI-proven breath & energy magic 41:32 – Letting go = animal-level pleasure - scream, grab sheets! 44:34 – Beginner tips: Pick what visually turns you on + check measurements 48:42 – Final thoughts + where to find Kim Pleasure Highlights: Silicone's surprising origin: Bathtub caulk saved a marriage! Busting myths: Silicone lube + silicone toys? Test it—it's usually fine now. Hands-free Os are real (and learnable via breath/energy work). Modern penis toys are exploding—way beyond Fleshlight. Let go of control for animal-level pleasure (scream, grab sheets—it's hot!). Connect with Kim Airs: Instagram: @ KimAirs TikTok: @ TheKimAirs Facebook: @Kim.Airs Podcast: SexChat with Kim Airs Cameo: @Naughty Grandma Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your personal power through the practice of daily gratitude and reflection. Learn more HERE . Connect with Jordan D’Nelle: Facebook @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌TheVVVPodcast TikTok @‌jordandnelle Youtube @jordandnelle Email : JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com If you loved this Episode, please support the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast! Join the Patreon community: patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave an honest review on iTunes. Your ratings and reviews help this podcast impact more lives! Subscribe to Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators on iTunes if you haven't already! Follow Jordan D’Nelle on social media for teasers and extras! Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcasts Spotify Podcasts Youtube @jordandnelle Website Links: jordandnelle.com Kim Airs LinkTree https://grandopening.com/ SEXchat with Kim Aires | Spotify Podcasts * Disclaimer : This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated. Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations.

Humans have a deep need for connection, and emotional intimacy fulfills this by allowing us to truly be seen by others. In this episode, Jodie Milton joins us to explore emotional intimacy and its impact on partnered relationships. We discuss practical ways to cultivate intimacy, address common barriers, and discuss the importance of nurturing these connections in friendships. Jodie also shares valuable advice for men on building emotional intelligence, helping listeners strengthen their ability to connect deeply and authentically with others. You can find Jodie Milton on Instagram and Facebook @practicalintimacy. Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your personal power through the practice of daily gratitude and reflection. Learn more HERE . Follow Jordan D'Nelle on Facebook and Instagram @jordandnelle and @TheVVVPodcast . Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Support the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast! Join the Patreon community : patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave an honest review on iTunes. Your ratings and reviews help this podcast impact more lives! Subscribe to Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators on iTunes if you haven't already! *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. jordandnelle.com practicalintimacy.com Free intimacy quiz: https://practicalintimacy.com/intimacy-quiz-for-couples/ Online intimacy course for couples: https://practicalintimacy.com/online-connection-intimacy-course-for-couples

Jennifer Summers joins us to discuss sexuality, intimacy, and pleasure. We cover topics such as the role of sex toys in relationships, strategies for improving desire and balancing partners' needs, navigating polyamory and non-monogamy, and the significance of open communication, consent, and honesty. You can find Jennifer Summers on Instagram and TikTok @theselfmadediva. Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your personal power through the practice of daily gratitude and reflection. Learn more HERE . Follow Jordan D'Nelle on Facebook and Instagram @jordandnelle and @TheVVVPodcast . Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Support the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast! Join the Patreon community : patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave an honest review on iTunes. Your ratings and reviews help this podcast impact more lives! Subscribe to Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators on iTunes if you haven't already! *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. jordandnelle.com selfmadediva.com

So much becomes possible when you open your mind to new possibilities. Jennifer Kaylo joins us to talk about three-hour sex dates. We explore concepts like erotic blueprints, the emotional impact of long sexual experiences, teaching partners to enhance sexual experiences, and navigating open relationships and throuples. You can find Jennifer on Instagram @theopenbedroompodcast. Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your personal power through the practice of daily gratitude and reflection. Learn more HERE . Follow Jordan D'Nelle on Facebook and Instagram @jordandnelle and @TheVVVPodcast . Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Support the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast! Join the Patreon community : patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave an honest review on iTunes. Your ratings and reviews help this podcast impact more lives! Subscribe to Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators on iTunes if you haven't already! *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. jordandnelle.com jenniferkayloruscin.com Link to Opening Up Guide

Sexuality is fluid, ever-changing, and shaped by our experiences. In this episode, Jordana joins us for an open, honest, and empowering discussion on the nuances of queerness and sexuality. We explore the fluidity of sexual identity and dive into the impacts of internalized homophobia, especially for those navigating their own queerness and breaking free from traditional norms. We highlight the importance of self-exploration and building a positive, healthy relationship with your body. You can find Jordana on Instagram @thequeersxcoach. Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your personal power through the practice of daily gratitude and reflection. Learn more HERE . Follow Jordan D'Nelle on Facebook and Instagram @jordandnelle and @TheVVVPodcast . Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Support the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast! Join the Patreon community : patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave an honest review on iTunes. Your ratings and reviews help this podcast impact more lives! Subscribe to Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators on iTunes if you haven't already! *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. jordandnelle.com jordanaezra.com Join here for immediate access to the first module of the pussy frequency where you will be guided into a powerful practice of releasing shame and lovingly connecting with your pussy. FREE MODULE

A positive diagnosis can lead to positive outcomes. Cassie Black, aka Safe Slut, joins us for an open conversation about living with herpes, navigating sex work, and embracing sexual empowerment. We discuss Cassie's personal journey with a herpes diagnosis, how it has impacted her sexuality, her work, and the importance of destigmatizing both herpes and sex work. You can find Cassie Black on Instagram @safe.slut. Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your personal power through the practice of daily gratitude and reflection. Learn more HERE . Follow Jordan D'Nelle on Facebook and Instagram @jordandnelle and @TheVVVPodcast . Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Support the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast! Join the Patreon community : patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave an honest review on iTunes. Your ratings and reviews help this podcast impact more lives! Subscribe to Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators on iTunes if you haven't already! *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. jordandnelle.com safeslut.shop You can also connect with Cassie Black through these platforms. Instagram @safe.slut Shop @safeslut.shop Tiktok @safe.slut Twitter @safe_slut Patreon @safeslut YouTube @safeslut OnlyFans @TheCassieBlack

Explore power, control, and consent through the lens of financial dynamics. Countess Diamond joins us for an in depth discussion on the topic of financial control and financial domination. Countess Diamond, an experienced professional dominatrix and kink expert, shares her journey into this work, the ethical considerations involved, the methods and techniques used, and the importance of financial management and communication when engaging in this type of BDSM practice. You can find Countess Diamond on Instagram @thecountessdia2. Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your personal power through the practice of daily gratitude and reflection. Learn more HERE . Follow Jordan D'Nelle on Facebook and Instagram @jordandnelle and @TheVVVPodcast . Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Support the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast! Join the Patreon community : patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave an honest review on iTunes. Your ratings and reviews help this podcast impact more lives! Subscribe to Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators on iTunes if you haven't already! *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. jordandnelle.com countessdiamond.com